Umqambi onjalo ...
Ekubhedeni, ubugcisa kunye nokudlala, ngokudlala ngokusemgangathweni emzimbeni wakho, ukunikela ngokuzonwabisa okungenakwenzeka.
Ukuxilongwa: ukodwa. Uloyiko lokuba akukho mntu uzakufuna umntu ngaphandle kwazo zonke ezi zinto zilungisiwe. Wanqoba amaninzi amaninzi, kodwa kuphela okwaneleyo kwimini emibini ...
I-Recipe: ayibongi nje kuphela embhedeni. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba uyamkela "owenene", uya kuhlala ngonaphakade. Iimeko ezinzulu: ngokuqhelekileyo ziziphatha kakuhle, ezifuna kuphela ukukrokra "bravo".
Minimalist
Xa efunyanwa ngumnqweno, akaxhalali: weza, wabona, wazi kakuhle. Kwaye akukho ziqhamo ezinjengexesha elide lokuqala kunye nobusiso obunomdla. Usebenza ngokuzithemba kangangokuthi awuyikuchasa, uzive esandleni sakhe esinamandla umhlobo weTarzan.
Ukuxilongwa: ukukhanga okungabonakaliyo. Akasazi indlela yokunandipha imibala yeentlobo, ukhethe ukuzonwabisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye kulula.
I-Recipe: ledayimani engenapolisi ingaguquleka ibe yigugu lokwenene xa ufunda iindawo zayo ezinobungqina kwaye ngokubekezela uphakamise kuyo inceba kunye novelwano. Ingxaki ebalulekileyo: ukuba ukuzingca kwakhe akuphendulanga unyango, ngaba kulungele ukuchitha ixesha?
Xanduva
Ukhuliswe kakuhle kwaye unomdla. Qinisekisa ukuba uqiniseke ukuba ukhuselwe, yima kwindawo enomdla kakhulu ukufumanisa ukuba yonke into ikufanelanga. Ekubhedeni, ucingisisa kwaye unzulu: ukulala naye kubaluleke kakhulu. Ayikho inkululeko!
Ukuxilongwa: akayiqondi i-psychology yabesifazane kwaye akazithembi kuye. Mhlawumbi unamava omthandayo. Ngoko ke uxhalabisa: ngokukhawuleza awuyi kuthandi into ethile, kwaye uya kuqala ukuphosa izicathulo. Okanye ukhale. Okanye ungamshiya ebusuku, ulungele ngengubo.
I-Recipe: iphathwa ngokunyamekela, ukunyamekela nokunyaniseka. Futhi umfundise ukuba ahlekise ebhedini. Ingxaki ebalulekileyo: ukuba uxhalaba lwakhe luyaqhubeka, ngoko unokuba ngumqobo. Kwaye isondo kunye naye siya kubonakala njengentlanganiso eofisini. Brrr!
Extreme
Wenza uthando emnyango, kwi-cinema, kwi-attic. Uzame yonke into! Kwaye ucinga ukuba: "Uya kuphumla nini?"
Ukuxilongwa: uthando lokuzihlaziya nokungafuni ukukhula. Ukuze uzive "ngehashe", kufuneka ahlale egubha njengomqhubi we-speed or parkour. Konke oku kunceda ukuba ube ngumumo, kodwa kuyingozi kubomi.
I-Recipe: Yiba ngumhlobo, mfundise ukuba axabise impilo yakhe kwaye anandiphe "isondo" esilula. Ingxaki ebalulekileyo: ukuba "i-adrenaline junkie", emva kokuphishekela "idoksi" elitsha unokulibala ngothando ...
Zaziphi na zonke izinto?
Abalingani bezesondo zaseSweden ekufundeni kwangoko malunga neentlobo zesondo zooYurophu zanamhlanje, zithi ngethuba lobomi bokuthanda "ukubhala ngesandla" komntu kuyahluke. Kwaye ukuba kwithuba elisukela kwiminyaka eyi-18 ukuya kwe-23 ubudala, i-84% yabafana kunye nama-67% amantombazana azama iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zamathoyizi eentlobano zesilingo kunye nokungazinzi.
Ngoko ke, zama ukukhetha iqabane okanye iqabane, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uphando okanye olunye uhlobo lomsebenzi. Ngenxa yokuba ukhetho lwakho luhlala luxhomekeke kwixesha lakho elizayo lezesondo kunye neentsapho. Mhlawumbi inhlanhla iya kukunika umomotheka ukuba lo mntu akayi kukuthuthuzela ebusuku, kodwa kunye nomfazi osithandayo kunye nothando kunye nobaba ozayo kubantwana bakho. Ewe, ininzi kuxhomekeke kwizondo zoqabane, kodwa musa ukuthembela kuphela kwimbono yokuqala kunye namava okuqala ngokwesini kunye nomlingane.