Ukuba ingxaki isesibelethweni
Okokuqala, kuhlale kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ubudlelwane bakho. Cinga, mhlawumbi isiqingatha sakho sishiya into ebusweni bakho obusondeleyo? Uhlala wedwa wodwa? Ngaba uyazilandela? Okanye mhlawumbi unesizotha kwaye awukwazi ukukhululwa ngesini? Mhlawumbi intsha yakho inokuthanda iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo, kodwa unyanzelekile embhedeni?
Amantombazana amaninzi aya kuthetha ukuba akayi kuphinda yonke into eyenzekayo kwiifilimu ezinjalo kubantu abadala. Kucacile ukuba akukho mntu unelungelo lokwenza konke oku, kubonakala ngathi, kulula, abafazi abaselula benza kwezo zifilimu. Kwakhona, kufuneka uhlale ukhumbule ukuba le yintshana nje, makube yinto engavamile, kungekhona njengokuba iboniswe rhoqo kumabonwakude, kodwa kusekhona ifilimu. Yonke le ngumdlalo, ezininzi iingcali, abaculi bezandla, i-cosmetologists nayo isebenza kulabadlali. Mhlawumbi uqaphele ukuba amaninzi kunye nezibalo zabantu abanjalo kwiifilimi zibukeka zigqibeleleyo. Ndikholelwe, abadlali bezentlonelo banemiphumo emininzi, apho abaqeqeshi bajongene ngokufanelekileyo ncediso lwezonyango ezikhethekileyo. Banjalo ngabantu bokwenene, kwaye banokuphinda baphume i-pimple, amanqaku eselula.
Iingcali ezininzi zeengqondo zithi ngokwesondo akukho nto ihlazo, nokuba ngaba babini abalingani banamanye amaqabane abo. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba iyakuthandwa bobabini. Cinga kwakhona indlela oziphatha ngayo, thetha nabathandekayo bakho, mhlawumbi isizathu sokubukela iifilimi ezifanayo kubantu abadala, kukho uhlobo oluthile lokuqina kwakho kobudlelwane kunye nomlingane. Kwaye mhlawumbi, umfana wakho uhlazo kukuxelela ngezinto ezifihlakeleyo.
Zama ukumema umntu wakho ukuba abukele iifilimu zesicwangciso esinjalo kunye. Oku kuya kukunceda bobabini, nisuse ubunzima phakathi kwenu, nikunike imvakalelo ekhethekileyo yothando.
Kuthekani ukuba ngaba ababini bayenqaba ukwabelana ngamafilimu?
Kwenzeka ukuba ubudlelwane obusondeleyo buphelele, kwaye uya kufumanisa ukuba iqabane lakho liyakuthanda ixesha lokuphumla ngelixa libukela iifilimu ezifanayo. Ngokwemvelo, le ntombazana inentloni. Yintoni eyenzayo? Mhlawumbi intombi yakhe iphosa? Mhlawumbi, yonke into ayilungile njengoko kubonakala ngathi, mhlawumbi amantombazana amthanda ngakumbi kwiifilimu ezifanayo kunokuba yena? Ngaphambi kokuba ungakhange ulunge ukuphawula intloko yakho kunye nokuqikelela okungekho mfuneko, kulungile ukuthetha nendoda yakho. Kutheni ekwenza oku, mhlawumbi akayithandi into? Ukuba uqinisekile ukuba ubomi bakho obusondeleyo buqhubeka ngokuqhelekileyo, mhlawumbi akayi kukuphendula. Kungenzeka ukuba ubukela le mpapasho yama-nepotomu ukuba uyiphambuke okanye intombazana ye-mnogoshensheny esikrinini, kungekhona wena. Ngokuqhelekileyo amadoda angabukela amavidiyo angamanyala angakumbi ukuze adibanise ubomi babo obusondeleyo kunye nawe. Kwaye, unentloni ukukuxelela ngento ephazamisayo ukuba xa ubukela le vidiyo inomntu ochanekileyo, oku kusenokuba ngumqondiso wenkxalabo ethile kwaye kwimeko enjalo, kungcono ukunxibelelana nengcali yeengqondo okanye isifo somzimba. Kucetyiswa ukuxhasa umfana wakho kunye nokutyelela ingcali kunye.
Ukuba awukulungele ukwamukelwa ngolo hlobo luthando lomfana wakho
Ngokusoloko kunzima ukuba amantombazana aqonde ukuba kutheni umfana wakhe ebona i-pornography. "Ukuba zonke izinto zilungele ubomi bethu bomntu, kutheni ukwenza oku?", Ungatsho. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba umthandayo ungumntu. Kwaye nokuba uyayithanda okanye ayikho, uya kuhlala ebheka abanye abafazi, bahlole. Uya kuthanda iifilimu, kunye nepotomu, enokuthi angathanda ukutshintsha, kodwa ngenxa yokuba uhlala ekuqaleni komntu. Yaye uya kujonga amabhinqa abanye kungekhona ngenxa yokuba ungamthandi into ethile, kodwa ngenxa yokuba, ngelishwa, okanye ngethamsanqa, unjalo uhlobo. Ngokwemvelo, yonke into isetyenziswa ngokufanelekileyo. Akunjalo ukuba indoda yakho ayiphosoli i skirt enye kunye ne-flirts nawo wonke umntu.
Inyaniso yokuba umfana wakho ubukela amafilimu e-porno ngamanye amaxesha, kholelwa mna, akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo. Ngokuphambene noko, inokubambisa ngokugqithiseleyo ubomi bakho. Kwaye kungcono ukuba wenza njalo nawe, kungekhona nomnye umntu.
Ukuba umntu uya kwiqela le-vaticup
Amanye amantombazana abhekisela kwiiprojekthi ezifanelekileyo, abanye abayithandi, kwaye umntu ngokwakhe uthenga ithikithi kwiqela lakhe lakwa-vystrigiz. Ukuba uphatha abesifazana abangenanto ngolu hlobo, qalisa ukuzama ukuzola kwaye ungadlali imicimbi. Ukunye nawe, uyakuthanda, kwaye waya kwinqanaba le-strip ukuze aphinde aphumle kwaye azive esecaleni lomntu. Ewe, ukuba unayo iminyango engathandeki kakhulu, khuluma naye, uchaze ukuba kutheni uhlungu ngenxa yile. Kwaye, ungayikhohlwa ukugcina umkhondo wakho. Zizenzele wena kunye nomthandi wakho kunye neengcingo ezintsha zokungcola, kuba yi-intliziyo, uthathe isinyathelo. Bhalisa ngokwakho kumdaniso okanye i-strip-plastiku.Yinto eyaziwayo namhlanje ihlobo lomdaniso, njengomdaniso wesiqingatha. Olu luhlobo olutsha lomdaniso, olufana kakhulu ne-strip-plastiki, lubandakanya ukuzivocavoca, ukunyuka kwamanzi kunye nempilo yeempilo. Okokuqala, umfana wakho uya kuvuya kakhulu ngokukhetha kwakho. Emva koko unako ukutshintsha intanda yakho kunye nemidaniso yakho, ukulinganisa kwakho kunye nokuqeqeshwa kwezemidlalo. Ukuqinisekiswa kuya kuzisa ebomini bakho iimvakalelo ezintsha kunye nemibono.
Ngokubanzi, zifunde ukuzithanda wena nomzimba wakho. Khangela ulutsha, udlale imidlalo, ungadli. Nangona unabantwana, akukho mntu ukhethe i-UVass ilungelo lokuba lihle kwaye lilungele kakuhle. Ukuba ufuna ukuba indoda yakho ingabhekanga kwabanye abafazi, qalisa kunye nawe kwaye umphumo uya kukumangalela. Kuhlala kuyimfuneko ukukhumbula ukuba abantu bathanda ngamehlo abo, kwaye nangemva kweminyaka elishumi yomtshato, ukupheka ukudla ekhitshini, ungakulibala ngokubonakala kwakho ukuzilungisa. Mamela umfana wakho, kwaye ungathathi izimvo zakhe kwamanye amantombazana enenzondo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, umfana wakho kufuneka akuqonde kwaye uqaphele ukuba unokungonwabi kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe. Chaza isizathu sokuba uthethe naye. Yizani kunye kunye neentlobo eziqhelekileyo, fundani ukuphulaphula intetho yomnye nomnye. Fumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo, khangela ukukhawuleza, ukuze ungalimazi umngane ngenxa yeendawo ezinzima kunye neengxaki.