Ngoku i-ultrasound ithandwa kakhulu phakathi kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi. Inceda ukulawula ukuphuhliswa komntwana, kwaye kukuvumela ukuba wazi ngesondo lomntwana ongakazalwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali bexesha elizayo, xa beqaphela umntwana kwi-ultrasound, kwaye ukuba oku kuhambelana nokulindela kwabo, cinga "kuhle kwaye kulungile, kodwa olandelayo uya kuba yindodana" (okanye intombi). Kukho umzekelo ocacileyo. Ukuba unesibini ukukhulelwa kwenzeka ngowama-wokuqala, ngoko mhlawumbi unomntwana wesibini ozalwa ngokwesini esifanayo. Okokuthi, abantwana abazalwa ngokulandelanayo kunye nomlinganiselo ophakathi kwonyaka kunye nesiqingatha phantse bahlale besondo esinye. Ngoko, ukuba ufuna ukukhulelwa umntwana wesini esahlukileyo, kufuneka ulinde unyaka okanye ezimbini. Lindela kwakhona kuyimfuneko kuba umzimba womfazi udinga ixesha-iminyaka engama-3-5, ukuze ufumane emva kokuzala, ukuzala nokunyusa umntwana wokuqala. Ngokukodwa ukuba ukuzalwa kwakunzima. Ukuba ibhinqa lizala isigaba se-caesarean, ke ukuzalwa komntwana wesibini kufuneka kwakhona kulibazisekile. Ngethuba eli xesha umbele uya kwenza utywala obugcwele. Ukukhulelwa okwesibini kufuneka kucetywe kwaye ngaphambi kokufika kuyimfuneko ukubuyela kumgqirha wezifo ukuze uhlolwe.
Xa uceba ukukhulelwa okwesibini, okokuqala, lungiselela umntwana odala kuze kufike emva kokubonakala komzalwana okanye udade. Kungenakucaca kwintsana ukuba uMama noTata badinga abantwana abangaphezu kwayo. Chaza ukuba imeko ayiyi kuguquka, abazali abazami ukumthabatha kwaye baya kuqhubeka bemthanda njengangaphambili. Qiniseka ukuba ukubonakala komzalwana okanye udade, kuba umdala uya kuba nexesha elihle, baya kuba nako ukwenza abahlobo kunye nokudlala kunye.
Abafazi abaninzi bayazibuza: njani ukukhulelwa kwesibili kuya kwenzeka? Lo mzuzu obalulekileyo kakhulu kumfazi. Ukuba, kwakungekho namava ambi ngexesha lokukhulelwa kokuqala, ngoko kufuneka kwakhona ilahlwe kwaye ingadluliselwa kwisibini yokukhulelwa. Zama ukuqaphela oko kwenzekayo, kwaye kutheni kwenzeka. Zama ukuqeda ukwesaba nokulawula isimo sakho sengqondo. Abaninzi abasetyhini bayaqaphela ukuba ukukhulelwa kwabo okwesibini kuyahluke kancinane kwinqanaba lokuqala. Njengomthetho, ukuba akukho zixazululo kunye neengxaki ngempilo, ukukhulelwa kwesibili kuhamba ngokulula ngaphezu kokuqala.
Utshintsho olwenzeka ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwesibili luya kuhluka kwi-yokuqala. Mhlawumbi, awuyi kuba ne-toxicosis enjalo, nangona oku akusoloko kunjalo. Eli xesha, mhlawumbi, uya kuba ukhathele ngakumbi, kuba kuya kufuneka unakekele umntwana wokuqala. Umzimba ungabonakala ngenyanga ngaphambi kokukhulelwa kokuqala, ekubeni isisu esiswini asinamandla, solule ngexesha lokukhulelwa kokuqala. Kuya kufumaneka ngaphantsi.
Ukuphonywa komntwana kuza kuvezwa ngokukhulelwa kwesibili ngaphambi kweveki okanye ezimbini. Ekukhulelweni kokuqala oko kwenzeka ngeveki yamashumi amabini. Ngenxa yoko, okwesibini ngomhla weshumi elinesibhozo.
Ukuzalwa okwesibini, ngokomthetho, kuqhubeka ngokukhawuleza kunokuqala. Ngoko, ukuba ixesha lokubanjwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa kokuqala lihlala iiyure eziyi-10-12, ngoko-ke ngowesibili 6-8. Ukukhulelwa kwesibili akukho phantse ukulwa. Ngoko kukuzalwa ngokwawo.
Emva kokuzalwa komntwana wesibini, bonke abafazi, xa besondla umntwana emva kweentsuku zokuqala emva kokubeletha, baziva behluke kakhulu kwi-uterus. Into engabonakaliyo ekuzalweni kwamazibulo.
Ewe, njengokuba akukho khulelwa kwabasetyhini abahlukeneyo kufana kunye, kwaye ukukhulelwa ngamnye kumfazi ofanayo uhlukile kwaye ngamnye.
Kwaye nangona usenokugqiba ukunika ubomi obunye, ngoko ukukhulelwa kwakho kwesibili kuya kuba lula, kungenanto ingxaki kwaye kufana neeholide.