Umfana onomona kwiintombi yakhe ...

Kwenzeka ukuba kukho omnye umfazi othandekayo ebomini womthandayo. Kwaye akusilo udade okanye unina, ngumhlobo. Kuthatha indawo eninzi ebomini bakhe, ngoko kukukwenza ube nomona. Kodwa ngaba kulungele ukuba ngumona okanye kufuneka umntu alwe nemvakalelo yakhe? Siza kuthetha ngale nto.


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Uyazi ukuba umfana unentombi, kunye naye ohlala ekhuluma naye kwaye ebona, yiyo nje isizathu asifuni ukukwazisa. Uncle uhlala ekhululekile, kuba kutheni ungahlangani. Ukuba ulawula ukwenza i-aphoyintimenti, kwenzeka ukuba kukho konke ukunyanzela umthwalo, ngenxa yoko yonke into ephuka. Kwimeko apho, akumangalisi ukuba unomona ngomfana wakho. Emva koko, indlela efihla intombi yakhe ngokukhawuleza, kunokubangela ukusola okukhulu. Kufuneka uzame kwakhona ngokukodwa ukuthetha nomdlalo. Kungenzeka ukuba le ntombazana inomdla kunye nemikhwa ehluke kakhulu kwakho kwaye loo nto uyayesaba ukuba awuyi kuthatha. Mhlawumbi unomntu oqilileyo kwaye ozolile, kunye nentombi yakhe ifunga njengomkhonzi, itywala i-vodka ngeelitha kwaye ayixilisi, kwaye ngokubanzi, ngokwemiqathango yakho, iziphatha kakubi. Kulo mzekelo, akumangalisi ukuba akafuni ukukuzisa, ukuze kamva kuthi ukuba abantu ababini abasondele kuye baya kumthiya, kwaye uphakathi kwemililo emibili. Ngoko ke, cacisa loo nto ukuba nayiphi intombi yakhe, uya kuqonda ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye akukho nto eyoyiyo ngexesha nangemva kokuthandana akuyi kwenzeka. Umntu nje akaqondi ukuba ufuna nje ukuqinisekisa ukuba akayena umlingani wakho.

Ukuba loo mntu akafuni ukukuzisa, ngaphambi kokuba ubuze umbuzo, ungazama ukuphuma ngokwakho ntombazana xa uqhagamshelana naye. Masiqale ukuphatha kakubi kwaye uthethe into. Udinga ukumisela uqhagamshelwano oluqhelekileyo uze ubone indlela intombazana eya kuyenza ngayo. Ukuba ngaba ungumhlobo wenene, uya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza ingxaki kunye nokuziphatha kwayo kunye nezimpendulo ziya kukunceda ukuba uqonde ukuba akukho nto ixhalabisa ngayo kwaye ubuhlobo babo buhlobo kuphela. Kodwa xa intombazana iqala ukuhlambalaza ngokucacileyo, kwaye nangona kunjalo intshontsho engalunganga kwicala lakho - ukulila i-alamu. Intetho enzulu kumfana kwaye umchazele ukuba ukuziphatha kwakhe akuqhelekanga. Ngoko ke, mhlawumbi uyazisa wena kunye nabo bonke, okanye uya kufuneka akhethe: wena okanye.

Iimfuno eziqhelekileyo eziqhelekileyo

Umntu wakho uchitha ixesha elide spodrugoy, uhlala esithi baphinde baxoxe ngomdlalo omtsha okanye balahliwe kumxholo weMfazwe Yehlabathi II. Yaye uyazi ukuba akayi kuthetha ngako nawe, kuba awunomdla. Kancinci, uqala ukudla, kuba ukuba iqabane lakho linomdla kuye, kodwa awukho, mhlawumbi ngolunye usuku uya kuguqula. Kule meko, musa ukuvalelwa yimvakalelo embi. Akukho ntoyikekayo nebiyo kwinto yokuba indoda yakho ithetha ngento ethile kumhlobo, kwaye akukho nto ixoxa ngayo nawe. Wonke umntu ufuna ukuba nabahlobo abanomdla. Kodwa ukhetha umntu ozithandayo ngezinye iindlela. Ngaphandle koko, ukuba wayengumhlobo naye ngaphambi kokudibana nawe okanye udibana naye, sele sele udibana naye, kodwa ukhe ukhetha wena, kungekhona kuye, oko kuthetha ukuba, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakungekho mnandi, akubangelwa nayiphi na imizwa ngaphandle kohlobo. Ngoko ungacingi ngeengxaki apho zingekho khona. Ngokuvisisanayo, oogqirha unesihloko oxoxisana ngayo nabahlobo bakho nabahlobo, kodwa ungathethi ngalo mfana, kuba akanamdla. Ngoko ke, endaweni yokuchitha amandla ngomona, kungcono ukubuza into yokuba umfana uyakhangelwa. Akufuneki ukuba uziphoqe. Ukuba ngokwenene awuyidingi loo nto, qhubeka uqhuba izinto zokuzilibazisa. Kodwa ukuba awufuni ukwazi umhlaba wakhe ngokusemgangathweni, ngoko kufuneka uvule umnyango kuwo. Mhlawumbi uya kufumana izinto ezinomdla kwaye kungekudala uzakukwazi ukuxoxa naye kunye nentombi yakhe.

Mhle ngakumbi kunami

Izisombululo zowesifazana zisoloko zisenza sizibheke njengokuba singaphezulu koko kwaye siziqulunqe iqela leengxaki. Ngako oko, endaweni yokuba nomona nokucinga malunga nokuba umfana unobungane kunye nenhle, kungcono ukukhumbula oku kulandelayo: umntu ngamnye unemilinganiselo yakhe yobuhle. Ukuba le ntombazana ibonakala iyinto enhle kuwe, akuthethi ukuba uyabonakala emehlweni akhe. Khumbula indlela abahlobo bakho nabahlobo besini esifanayo baxoxa ngayo ngamantombazana. Kunqabile kakhulu ukuba bonke bavumelane ngombono ofanayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, wonke umntu ubona umzekelo wakhe. Kwaye, ngendlela, asisoloko sikhetha abo sibabheka njengento efanelekileyo. Ndicinga ukuba unjalo: uphupha nge-blonde-eyed blonde, kwaye udibana ne-brunette e-brown. Kwimbonakalo kuphela ngomzuzu wokuqala kwaye ukhethe kuphela abatsha abangayiqondi nantoni na ubudlelwane nabo bonke. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntu ukhetha igama, ke yena ubona ubuhle obuhle emehlweni akhe. Kwaye naluphi na uhlobo lwe-photomodel ongayifumani intombi yakhe, unomntu onomdla kuye.

Enyanisweni, kunokukho imeko apho uqala ukuphawula ukuba iqabane lakho kumhlobo awuboni kuphela umhlobo. Ngaphambi kokuba ufikelele kwizigqibo, zama ukuvavanya imeko leyo, ukuqinisekisa ukuba kunjalo, ngokuba umona, njengokwesaba, amehlo aphezulu.Ukuba uyakholelwa ukuba inkwenkwe yakho inesidima kumhlobo wakhe omhle, ngoko kufuneka uxoxe ngokuthe tye naye. Akufuneki nje ukuba uqhube ama-scandals uze wenze ama-hysterics. Ukuba uthe wayethanda nomhlobo, akuyi kuba naluphi na uncedo lokumemeza. Kuhlala nje ukuvumela ukuba uhambe.Khumbula ukuba awukwazi ukuyilawula intliziyo yakho, kwaye ukuba akazange akhohlise kwaye akenzanga nantoni na into ehlawulelwayo, ngoko akukho mntu unelungelo lokugweba umntu ngomva. Kwaye xa kukho ukungcatshiswa, kufuneka uhambe ngokukhawuleza kumntu onjalo, kuba awufuneki ukuba ube kufuphi nomntu ongahloneliyo umfazi kunye nomntu. Ukungcatsha, oku kukuqala, ukubonakaliswa kokungahloneli.

Wonke umntu othandwayo ufuna ukuba othandekayo abe yedwa kuye. Kodwa sisadingeka siqonde ukuba ngamnye wethu udinga ubuncinane inkululeko yokunxibelelana, engenzi mntu omnye. Ababini abahlala bechitha ixesha kunye kunye kwaye kuphela ezimbini eziqhelekileyo. Abantu badinga okungenani ukuphumla komnye nomnye, mhlawumbi baya kukhathala ngumntu abathandayo. Ngoko ke, ukuba ungaboni izizathu ezicacileyo zokuba nomona, zama ukuphatha ubuhlobo bomhlobo wakho ngokuqonda. Emva koko, wonke umntu ebomini akafanele abe ngumntu othandekayo kuphela, kodwa naye ungumhlobo othembekileyo wenene, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uyindoda okanye umfazi.