Abanye bathi akufanele ubulawe kwaye uchithe ixesha elingenanto kumntu ongeze alwela ukuba kunye nawe, kodwa uyazikholelwa ukuba akukho mntu ungcono emhlabeni, kwaye ubomi kunye nokungabikho kwayo kuyimpembelelo eqhubekayo ... Ndifuna ukumemeza ngentlungu ihlabathi lonke ... Kodwa, njengoko besithi, akukho zimo ngaphandle kokuphuma, ngokukodwa, nokuba akahambisani nawe, okanye awufuni ukubuyisana naye, kodwa kunjalo. Ngoko unokuhlangabezana njani nothando olungathandabuzekiyo?
Ewe, ekuqaleni awufuni ukukholelwa ukuba loo mfana akanakho ukuvakalelwa kwimihlali kuwe, uyazichukumisa ngemini ukuba uloyiko ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe, okanye akazange aqonde ukuba uthanda nawe . Uqala ukukhangela isizathu kuwe ... STOP! UKUBHALA! Uyazi, akunakwenzeka ukuba wenze uthando! Ukuziqhayisa, awukwazi ukwenza kube lula kunoma ubani, kwaye ngowokuqala kwakho konke. Yeka, cinga, nokuba konke oku kufanele umzamo owenzayo, ukufezekisa injongo engaziwayo kuwe. Uze uphendule wena umbuzo, ngaba ufuna le nto. Okokuqala, akayena mnye umntu emhlabeni, kwaye okwesibini, makangacinga ukuba uphelele, kodwa unesiphene esithile, ozozifihla ngokuzikhethela, ewe, zivume wena, awufuni ukuzibona, okwesithathu , kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ngaba uqinisekile ukuba lo lu thando?
Okokuqala, hlalutya umntu okhethiweyo ngumntu ongathandekiyo. Indlela elula yokwenza oku: thabatha icandelo lephepha uze wenze uluhlu lweempawu ezilungileyo kunye nezimbi zomntu onothando, kodwa ngaphandle kwemvakalelo, zilahla ixesha elithile. Yiba ngumgxeki othukuthelayo kuye! Kakade, kunokwenzeka ukuba iimpawu ezintle ziya kuba nzima kakhulu. Ukuba oko kwenzeka, mhlawumbi wasebenzisa ingcinga yakho? Umntu ofanelekileyo akakho. Ukuqonda oku, ukhangele nje njengomntu oqhelekileyo, kunye nokusilela kwakhe kunye nobuthathaka, kwaye kungekhona ilanga oye wabala kuye ixesha elide. Kodwa ukuba awunakho okwaneleyo kwezi ngxabano, siya kuqhubeka siqonda indlela yokujongana nothando ngokufanayo.
Kufuneka unciphise ubuncwane beentlanganiso zakho, nokuba zikhethi. Ungambizi malunga okanye ngaphandle, yeka ukuxoxa ngayo nabahlobo bakho, kodwa vele ucime ukucinga ngaye. Jonga ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza umntu omi kufuphi nawe ufuna ukunakekelwa okungakumbi kunomntu ongenayo imvakalelo yakho. Khangela emva - ihlabathi lihle kakhulu, kwaye linabantu abaninzi abamangalisayo!
Sitshintshe kuwe, phucula, ngokuba, ukuthatha uthando olungathandabuzekiyo, uvele ukhohliwe ngawe. Kungaba nayiphi na into: umdaniso, i-pool, ithala. Mhlawumbi apho uya kudibana nofanelwe uthando lwakho.
Ngoku uhleli, kwaye ucinga ukuba intlungu efikelele kuwe yintlekele enkulu kwihlabathi, kodwa ucinga ukuba kukho abantu abangenakuvuyisa kunani. Omnye ulahlekelwa bathandekayo, abahlobo, kwaye abanakuze baphinde babe nabo kwakhona, umntu akavumelekanga ukuba acinge ngeli hlabathi, ave izandi zayo ezilungileyo. Funda ukuqonda oko unakho, kuba kulula ukulahleka.
Uthando, njengomlambo ongapheliyo, ugijima, udibana nemivalo, iphule kwindawo ethile, kodwa ihlale inomthombo - owenza ubomi bakho bube nengqiqo. Kunzima ukuqaphela ukutshatyalaliswa kwakho, ingakumbi ukuba kuthethe ngothando. Kodwa unokukwazi ukujamelana nothando, into ephambili kukukholelwa kuyo, ukujonga izinto ngokuqinisekileyo. Ndikunqwenela inhlanhla enothando.