Iiklasi zesini, ngoko kunjalo, akukho mntu ufundisayo akudingekile. Iimvelo zendalo zinikezelwa ngokwethu. Le meko ihluke kakhulu ukuba ufuna ukuqonda nje "isisiseko sokuqala", kodwa ufuna ukuqonda, njengenkosi eyaziwayo, ubugcisa bokuqhagamshelana nomzimba. Kule nqaku ndiya kukuxelela indlela yokonwaba ngoncedo lwezesondo zesini.
Yintoni isondo sofana? I-Tantra yinkqubo yefilosofi yamaNdiya yakudala apho ubulili bubhekwa njengeyingcwele. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngo-Tantric akubhekiseli kumntu oqhagamshelana nomzimba, njengobunye bomoya boqabane. Ngexesha lesini, amaqabane atyusa ubukhulu kunye namandla omnye nomnye, ngenxa yombono onobuchule womntu nomfazi, uYin noYang. Ubumbano bokuphefumula, ukuthintana kunye nokunene komnye nomnye kunika inkululeko engapheliyo ngokwesini, kwaye kungekhona nje ukufezekiswa kweemfuno zenyama.
Inxalenye ebalulekileyo yobudlelwane bezesondo nge-sex isigxina soqhelana ngesondo. Ewe, iqabane lingatshintsha, kodwa lincinci. Oku kubalulekile, ngenxa yokuba kufuneka ukwazi iinqweno, imikhwa, iminqweno yeqabane, ihlabathi langaphakathi.
Enyanisweni, ubudlelwane bezocansi bobudlelwane bezocansi luhlobo lomsebenzi, ukuzisebenzisa ukuze kufikeleleke ngokomoya, kwaye kubalulekile kubo ukudala izimo ezithile: indawo ezolile ezolileyo, uxolo lwangaphakathi lwengqondo, ukuqonda kunye nokuhambelana.
Ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo kwi-tantra kuyimfuneko kwaye kubalulekile ukuba uvumeleke "udibaniso olupheleleyo lwengqondo", ukukhululwa ngokwesondo: ukukhala, ukumemeza, ukugcoba, ngoko ke igumbi kufuneka libe nokuchithwa okufanelekileyo. Ukuba awukwazi ukuphumla ngokupheleleyo ngexesha lokulala, uxhomekeke kwimpembelelo yothando, ngoko i-tantra ayikho.
Isenzo socansi kwi-tantra kufuneka sinyulwe, esidinga ukuqeqeshwa kunye nezakhono ezithile. Amadoda nabasetyhini banamhlanje bakwenza okuncinci ukuhlakulela umzimba kunye nezihlunu, okuyixesha elibi lokuziphatha ngesini. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba unqumle ukuya kulo hlobo lolwalamano lwezesondo, ngoko unethuba elihle lokuqeqesha umzimba wakho ukuba uphumelele kwizinga eliphezulu lokuzonwabisa. E-Tantra, ubude besondo buvela kwisigama seyure ukuya kwiiyure enye neyesigamu, kwaye amandla e-orgasm aphakanyiswa ngakumbi kunokuba ulala ngesondo ngokuqhelekileyo.
Phakathi kwe-tantra kunye ne yoga, unokufumana ezininzi izinto ezifanayo. Ezi zimbini iinkqubo zijoliswe ekufezeni ukuvisisana phakathi komphefumlo kunye nomzimba, kungekhona nantoni injalo igama elithi "tantra yoga".
Iimpawu zokulala ngesondo kwi-tantra yoga kufuneka zibe lula kwaye zingabonakali. Naluphi na uxhaphalo olugqithisileyo imbono yamalingani omnye nomnye, isantya ukulala ngokwesondo kunye nokuthintela ukudibanisa kokomoya. Ukwabelana ngesondo kufuneka kubonwe njengomdaniso, ukutshintshana phakathi kweendawo ezifanelekileyo kufuneka kube lula kwaye kungabonakali, njengomdaniso omhle.
Ukubaluleka okukhulu kudlalwa ngokusebenza kwamathuba omzimba: ukuvumba, ukuthintela, ukunambitha, ukuva nokubona. Ukukwazi ukuvakalelwa nokuzonwabisa nabanye, ukuvuselela ngesondo rhoqo kunceda ekusebenziseni ukwamkela ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo.
Inkqubo yezesini zombini ilandelayo:
- Kwinqanaba lokuqala, amaqabane asebenza ngokunyamezela, asebenze ngokukhawuleza. Iimfudu zimele zibe lula, zingabonakali, zingakhuthazi. Eli nqanaba liquka ngokukhawuleza. Ibhinqa lifanele lincincile iqabane layo, lingagxininisi ukuchukumisa ipeni, ukuze ingabhubhisi. Xa bobabini amaqabane emva kwe-caresses ende baya kuba balungele ukulala, ngoko ke i-posal pose isithathwa. Ukuqala kwesenzo sesondo kufaka ukubeka intloko yepenis ephakamileyo phakathi kwelabia iminyaka emi-5 ukuya kweyokunciphisa ukunyuswa kokuzibandakanya kunye nokulawula i-orgasm.
- Isingeniso se-phallus kwisisini, kodwa akukho ngaphezu kwe-3 cm. Ukuphefumla kancinci kunye nokungabikho kwazo zonke izinto ezincedisayo kukunceda ukulawula uxhatshazo ngokwesini. Kule meko, kuthatha imizuzu engama-2, emva koko i-penis isuswe kwi-vaginal - iphinda iphule imizuzu emi-2 ngelixa igcina ukuphefumla. Emva kwemizuzu eyi-15 yale nkqubo, ubunzima bezesondo bunyuke kakhulu, ngenxa yoko amaqabane azama ukuphelisa ngokukhawuleza ngokwesondo. Emva koko le ndoda yenza ukukhawuleza okukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza, ngokunyanzela ukunyanzela umfazi kuye. Ukuhlangana kwezesondo ezalandela kwakhona kuqhubeka malunga nemizuzu eyi-15. Iipensiti zePenis zenzelwa isiqingatha sobude bayo kwaye intshukumo nganye ihamba ubuncinane imizuzu emithathu. Emva kokuphela kwexesha lokunyuswa okulawulwayo, amaqabane angaphumelela ekuphumezeni i-orgasm ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza kunye nangobunzulu.
- Ukuqhagamshelana ngokwesondo kwi-tantra yoga ubude kwaye kufuna ukuba indoda ilawulwe kwaye ibambe ukunyuka. Kukho iindlela ezimbini zokunqanda. Indlela yokuqala: xa uziva uxhatshazo olusisiseko ngesondo kunye nendlela yokunyuka, kufuneka uyeke ukuhamba konke ngexesha, uphefumle ngokukhulu kwaye ukhulule izihlunu zamatye. Indlela yesibini ukususa ngokupheleleyo ipenis ukusuka kwisisu kunye nokuphefumula okungapheliyo imizuzu 2-3.
- Imiba yesithathu, yesine neyesisini yokuhlangana ngokwesini ibonisa ukufumana izakhono ezifanelekileyo. Ngeli xesha, ipenisi inokuqaliswa ukususela ekuqaleni ukuya kwisiqingatha ubude bayo, kwaye ukunyakaza kudlula ubuncinane imizuzu engama-3. Kule nqanaba, "umgibeli" uphakanyiswa, xa lo mfazi ephezulu.
- Emva kokuhlangana kwezesondo zesithandathu, xa ufumene izakhono ezifanelekileyo kwi-sexric ye-tantric, amaqabane afunde ukukhusela i-orgasm, unokulala ngesinye na isikhundla.
Ndakuxelela imigaqo-siseko yokulala ngesondo kwi-tantra. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba ukhangele "uthando" ngendlela entsha, ukuqonda ubuchule bentlobano yesini, ke uya kufumana ubuninzi bezinto zokuzonwabisa, kwaye uhambo lobudlelwane luya kuba luhambo olushushu olushushu. Kwaye usenokuba nolonwabo ngoncedo lwezesondo zombini.