Ukujonga ngothando lomntu kwi-female body naked, akhathalele oko kubeka phezu kwethu. Kunoko, yayigqoke. Kodwa kutheni ke zonke iingubo zethu ezifashiniweyo, iziqholo kunye nezinye izinto ezintle, ukuba zilula ukuba zenze umnqweno, ziveze iqela lomzimba?
Amadoda, mhlawumbi, izilwanyana, kodwa akuninzi ukuba xa ubakhombisa i-decollete, ngoko unako ukwenza nantoni na oyifunayo. Le nto ibona ngumbono wobulili besilisa. Akukho mntu ucinga ngelwandle lolunxwemeni yindawo enamandla amakhulu, akunjalo? Kwaye konke ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukunyanzelisa, kodwa akukho nto - yonke into ivulekile, khangela-andiyifuni. Le kuphela yinkwenkwe kunye nonogwaja-beza, babona, befuna. Ibhinqa kunye nangaphezulu lifuna iindlela ezininzi zokukhohlisa. Ngoko, unokuphi na iqhosha elifanayo-le nto ingumbuzo omkhulu.
Kukho inani elikhulu lezinto ezithandwayo ezenziwa ngabasetyhini kumzabalazo wokuqwalaselwa kwamadoda. Makhe siqwalasele ezinye zazo.
1. Amandla - kwiipheromones?
I-stereotype yethu : I-pheromones yobugqi! Akukho mntu unokuma phambi kwabo!
Impendulo yakhe : Nokuba nje ume!
Ivemvane yamadoda, ivakalelwa yintombazana engamayela, ihamba ngeemini, ingathi ivakalelwa ngamaphiko kunye ne-antennae. Kodwa, ngelenhlanhla okanye ngelishwa, amadoda awanamabhathane, kwaye aphulaphule umnxeba wezokwezenzo zesondo, akunjalo ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Kwaye kunye neengqungquthela, ukuvuma, azinjalo. Into eyona nto kukuba "ayiphunga kakubi." Ngelixa (bafana) beyicima imeko, thina (abafazi) sele sele sicacile: nokuba sithandana nomnxibelelwano okanye cha. Ngako oko, akuyimfuneko ukufumana ibinzana eliyaziwayo uMarilyn Monroe: "Ngobusuku, kuphela uKanel No.5 wehla kum" - oku kuyinkcazelo nje yokufaka iimvakalelo zakho kunye nokunyenga umntu, kungekho.
2. Ukudibanisa kwimpahla?
I-stereotype yethu : Izambatho zimele zibe ngolo hlobo ukuba loo mntu uyayibona!
Impendulo yakhe : Okokuqala, mhlawumbi ewe.
Kodwa ingongoma apha ayikho ekugqibeni okanye ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kodwa kwintsikelelo yesimangalo kunye novelwano. Ukuba ngaba umfazi ofanayo rhoqo ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo, i-reflex yabo yokuqhelanisa yenza i-stand, ibheka kwi-translucent and sliding, iphulaphule ukukrazula nokugqithisa. Ukusuka kwezi zandi kunye nemifanekiso yokucinga kwakhe ngokukhawuleza udonsa umfanekiso. Ngoku into eyona nto kukuba amehlo akhe agqitha ubuncinci imizuzwana emibini. Ukuba oko kwenzeka, ngoko wayenomnqweno. Enye into enoba ufuna ukuyiqonda loo mnqweno.
3. Ngaba ukubethelwa kukhenkxa abantu?
I-stereotype yethu : Iimpawu eziqhenkcezayo - isitshixo ekuphumeleleni!
Impendulo yakhe : Ayikho inketho ethembekileyo
Imilomo emilonyeni kunye nezipikili - ngokuqinisekileyo ezithandekayo kunye nezobugugu. Nangona kunjalo, amadoda ayesithandi "umbala wokulwa". Kuyo yonke into, imilinganiselo iyadingeka, ngokukodwa kumathambo kunye nokubhoboza. Musa ukuziqhayisa ngobuninzi bamacici okanye amathambo. Vumela umgca wehlombe uphewule ngamagxa, ubonise ucezu lwe tattoo, kwaye ukubhoboza ngolwimi kuya kutshintsha ngokukhawuleza. Makhe umntu abe ngumzingeli, makacinge ukuba usibamba ngesikhumba, kungekhona wena. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuba ungayesabi "ukuphangwa" ekuqaleni, kodwa kamva loo mntu uya kuba nomdla ukwazi oko kuhlotshisiwe kwaye apho iphotshiwe khona.
Bathi thina, bafazi, sichitha iminyaka emithathu kuphela kuphela kubabingeleli. Ingaba oku kunceda ekuzingeleni amadoda akuyazi ngokubanzi. Into eyaziwayo: kuba sisemabutheleni apheleleyo, kuthetha ukuba sibukeka kakuhle kwaye, ngoko ke, sinokuqiniseka. Ngoko okanye akunjalo, ukugweba.
4. Into ephambili ukuthetha izinto ezintle?
Indlela yethu : Uthetha? Ukuthandana neendlebe kungowesifazane kuphela
Impendulo yakhe : Hayi, ewe.
Nantsi le nto - isikhali esiyimfihlo seentetho ezikhohlisayo-ezilungileyo. Sikholelwa ngokuphosakeleyo ukuba ukuncoma kuyilungelo elingumfazi kuphela! Akukho mntu unokumelana nomntu oncomekayo oncomekayo wesifazane. Kufuneka kuphela ukhetho olungenakukhunjulwa ngalo mdibaniselwano kunye nokumdumisa kunye nobufazi obunjalo kuthi . Into ephambili kulo mbandela akuyi kugoba intonga, musa ukuyithatha ngokukhawuleza. Qalisa kunye nomlilo ngamehlo akho, kunye novelwano lwezwi lakho kunye nomzimba wakho wonke. Makuvumele ukuba loo mntu avume ukuba uyamhlonela. Kungcono, kodwa ukuba udumo lwakho lubonakala. Indoda ithanda amehlo akhe, ngoko ke makangayi kukuva nje ukuncoma kwakho, kodwa uyazibona. Njani kanye? Musa ukuwela iingalo zakho kwisifuba sakho, ungayifaki iisokisi zezicathulo kuye - oku kuwuphawu lobutshaba, ukungathandi kunye nobudlova. Yiba ngumfazi kwaye ukhululekile.
5. Unokuyidoda umntu ngezwi?
I-stereotype yethu : Izwi eliphantsi nelizwi elikhukhulayo kwintombazana lixhoba elihle lokukhohlisa.
Impendulo yakhe : Akunjalo.
Ungakulibali ukuba ibhinqa-isilwanyana esinezithenda, esincinci kunye nesichengeni. Indoda kufuneka ifune nje njengowesifazane, kwaye kungekhona njengenqweno. Awunayo ukuphulaphula ilizwi lakho ukufezekisa isithintelo sezesondo esifanelekileyo, funda nje indlela yokuthetha "ngokufanelekileyo". Ngokubanzi, kuyincedo ukuthetha nomlingane. Yonke into: malunga ne-cinema kunye nebhola lebhola, malunga nomdwebo wesimboli kunye nomculo. Into eyona nto kukuthetha ngentetho yesimo kunye "kwi-subtext rhoqo". Esi sixhobo sengqondo senza njengesibhozo 25 esingavumelekanga: asibonwa, asivavwanga, kodwa kukunceda kwabo bafezekise iinjongo zabo. Vumela loo mntu abe nemizwa yakho. Amacandelo anjalo aya kunceda ukucoca i-spark phakathi kwabathandi bexesha elide, kwaye phakathi kobungakanani kuyavutha ngomlilo.