Ukubona okuyimfama, emva koko iimvakalelo ezimnandi ziya kuhlala

Kwili hlabathi lanamhlanje, elixhaswa ngolwazi oluhambayo, wonke umntu unethuba elibanzi lokuqhagamshelana neenkcukacha. Yaye intlanganiso yokuqala yintleko yinto engaboniyo. Kwaye sonke sifuna ukuba, xa kwakungumntu ongaboniyo, okokuphela kweemvakalelo ezimnandi. Kodwa ukuze ube nemvakalelo enomdla kuphela, akufuneki ukuba uzikhumbuze kule nto, kodwa zama ukuva nokuva umenzi wesicelo ngendima yendoda efanelekileyo, kwaye, ngexesha elifanayo, kwaye uqonde iimvakalelo zakho ngaye.

Ngoko, unomdla, unomdla kwaye unelisekile. Kwangexesha elide andizange ndihlangane nendoda ehloniphekileyo, okanye nje nekunene kuwe, okanye ekugqibeleni, andizange ndihlangabezane nabani na ixesha elide. Kwaye ngoku, ekugqibeleni, intlanganiso ende elinde. Makhe sithethe malunga nento ongakufanele uyenze nhlobo, emva kokuba usuku oluyimfama luye lwadlula.

Ndixhalabile, kuba ndiyithande kakhulu "

Ukuxhalabisa okuqhelekileyo. Kodwa ukwethuka, ukuthuthumela kwezandla, i-goose-bumps and smiling in a smile instead of the answer is already case. Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba, hayi, oku akusiyo lowo ulungiselele i-destiny. Emva kwakho konke, ngomoya wobubele uya kuba ukhululekile. Wena kunye neeyure ezintathu kamva akafumananga ulwimi olufanayo ngomhla? Musa ukuxhalabisa - oku nje isiqhelo ebomini!

"Asikho konke ngokufanayo, kodwa sinokuzama ukuzithengisa"

Iintlanganiso ezivuyayo, ukuthetha ubusuku bonke, elinde ukuthintela kunye nokubambezela ngothando, ukujonga okufutshane kodwa okunentsingiselo! Enyanisweni, esikhundleni salokhu konke, kuphela "ukuyekethisa" kwaye "kungcono kunomnye" kusele kuwe? Ukuba sele usuqala ngomhla wokuqala uyaqonda ukuba unemiqondo eyahlukileyo kakhulu ngokuphathelele ubudlelwane, iimpawu ezahlukeneyo zobomi, kwaye ngaphandle koko, awunayo loo nto eyaziwayo, eyonwabileyo yokuthandana-oku kunjalo xa ufuna ukuphulaphula intliziyo, kungekhona ingqondo. Ukuba ukususela kulomhla ulindele ubuhlobo obunzulu obude, obunzulu, okanye ubuncinci nje ukugcina iimvakalelo ezimnandi ixesha elide - qhubela phambili ekukhangekeni kwakho.

"Sifana kakhulu! Sinamathambo kwindawo enye! Simele sibe nolwalamano "

Andiyi kutyhila imfihlelo, ukuba ndithi: ezichasayo ziyakhangwa. Phakathi kwalabo obaziyo, ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho izibini apho amaqabane aneenkcukacha ezihlukeneyo, iinkolelo, iimfuno, kunye neengqondo zengqondo, kodwa zisasithandana kunye kunye nokuthokoza. Kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, nomntu owaziyo onke amaqhawe e-TV yakho oyintandokazi okanye othanda uhlobo olufanayo lwe-ayisikrimu, akunakwenzeka ukuchitha iiyure ezimbalwa. Zama ukucinga ngemvakalelo onayo xa ukhankanya nantoni na. Mhlawumbi nje kumangalisa nje, ucinga malunga nokuba uyavumelana nomhla wesibili. Okanye mhlawumbi ufumana ukungathandabuzekiyo xa bebengekho nhlobo!

"Uyindoda enhle. Ndiyinto engqongqo kakhulu. "

Umntu omhle asiyena isizathu sokuthandana naye ngaphandle kokujonga emva. Uyakhumbula umfana wakho owayenothando ngempela? Ukuba ukhumbula nje ukuba wayengengumfana onjalo? Ukuba wayedlulile, wayenesiqinisekiso sokuba intloko engendawo yayimgcinele emsebenzini, ukuba ufike usuku lokuzalwa ngaphandle kwesiqulatho, nonke niqinisekisa ukuba iintyatyambo ziyinkcitho yemali. Silungele ukuxolela kwaye singaboni izinto ezininzi xa kunjalo bebathandana. Oku akusiyo ukukhetha i-nit. Kuphela kufuneka uqonde ukuba awunayo imvakalelo enamandla kulo mntu.

"Uyamangalisa kakhulu, kungekudala wam"

Ngokuqinisekileyo, umntu owayengumntu wokuqala uya kulahleka xa ethelekiswa nomchasi omtsha. Umfaki-sicelo omtsha wabonakala ngomhla othile ngexesha, kwaye kunye ne-bouquet ephathekayo. Kwaye, oku, kuyimnandi kakhulu. Kodwa zingaphi ukuthelekiswa? Kwaye kukufanelekile ukwakha ubudlelwane obutsha kuphela ngenxa yokuba bayaphikisana nomdala? Awudingi i-antipode yangaphambili, kodwa uthando olutsha! Ngoko ke, kuphela ngomntu ongezinye umntu onokumenza ulungiselele umhla ongaboniyo, emva koko kuphela iimvakalelo ezimnandi eziza kuhlala.

Ukudibanisa, ukufumana, ukuphosa, nokuphinda ubuke. Yaye uya kuba nomntu ongaboniyo, emva koko iimvakalelo ezimnandi ziza kuhlala! Kwaye uya kumhlangabeza!