Siyakwazi ukudlulisela umqondiso omnye komnye, singakhange sivuselele umdla. Ukwazi le alfabhethi yesenzo somfihlelo, unokuyisebenzisa ngokulula ukuyiphonsa amadoda analuphi na ubudala kunye nesimo senhlalakahle. Emva kwakho konke, sonke sifana ngokufanayo-sonke silawulwa ngumnqweno ongenalwazi lokuthandana. Ngokumalunga nendlela yokukhawuleza ukukhawuleza umntu, kwaye kuya kuxutyushwa ngezantsi.
Zonke iimvakalelo zingabonakaliswa ngamehlo
Uyambona, uyakubona, kodwa phakathi kwakho udonga olungathandabuzekiyo, ukuphikisana kunye nokwesaba. Awazi ukuba ucinga ntoni ngawe, uyakhathalela into efanayo ... Unokuqhekeza isangqa esichukumisayo ngokusebenzisa umlingo wendlela yokujonga. Esi siqalo esiqhelekileyo somdlalo wothando.
* Ukuba umntu ukhangele phantsi okanye abukeke kude ngasekunene okanye ngakwesobunxele-oku kuthetha ukuba akakakulungeli ukuphuhliswa kobudlelwane. Kodwa ukuba ngexesha elifanayo uyamomotheka - ungayeki. Oku kuthetha kuphela ukuba ufuna ukuqhubeka, kodwa unamahloni okanye ukwesaba ukuqala kuqala. Xa umntu ekhangelele kuwe, ngokungathi awukho naye - ngelishwa, awunalo ithuba.
* Uvakalelwa kukuba uyakubukela emva. Ukuba awufuni ukumnika ithemba elingamanga - ungaguquki. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unomdla wokuqhubeka - jikela ngokukhawuleza uze ukhangele ngqo emehlweni akhe. Nabani na oya kuqonda kwaye amkele le mqondiso ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphandle kokungabaza. Leli khadi elinamandla kakhulu ekukhohliseni!
Ukuba uqhagamshelwano lwamehlo lusekwa - lixesha lokubonisa ezinye
* Ukuba ufuna ukunika umntu ukuba aqonde ukuba unomdla kuwe - sebenzisa enye into enamandla. Thatha intloko yakho, njengokungathi ufuna ukufowuna ukuze ulandele izinwele ezingavumelekanga. Ukuphatha ngezandla zakho, ukhangela amehlo akhe. Amadoda aphanga nale nto!
* Phulaphula amazwi akhe, ubeke intloko yakho ngakwesokudla. Cinga ngento yokuba ulungele ukubandakanya kwimidlalo yothando uze uhlasele. Ukuba ufuna ukubonisa umdla omkhulu, yenza intloko yakho ibe yincinci ngakwesobunxele. Abantu bayayithanda xa beva. Oku kubanika ukuzithemba, bazive bebalulekile kwaye banako ukuguqula iintaba. Kule meko, kuwe.
* Xa uthetha naye, vula umlomo wakho kancinci, ubonise ubunqunu bakho kunye nentliziyo yakho ngomlomo. Ncedisa intloko ngokukhawuleza phambili, kufuphi nayo, ngelixa ungawucongi amehlo akho.
* Amadoda asabela kwiimpendulo zamabhinqa kunye neemfihlelo, njengeenkunzi kwiibhokhwe ezibomvu - baya kwenza konke ukuba babe phezulu. Mxelele ukuba awufuni ukumtyhila ngokukhawuleza oko uvakalelwa -kuba yimfihlakalo. Beka intloko yakho engalo yakho uze uthinte ibunzi lakho kunye nomnwe wakho wenkomfa. Unokushiya ngexesha lelihlo ukucacisa ukuba awukho mngcipheko kwaye ungavumeli abanye bafikelele kwintsimi yakho "I". Oku kuya kuba yinto ekhuthaza ukuba umntu anqobe ukumelana naye. Ngoko unokuyengcaza indoda engaziwayo.
Esinye sezixhobo ezinamandla kunazo zonke ibhinqa zakhe
Ngaphezu koko, akunandaba nokuba ngaba lide okanye cha. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungayisebenzisa njani kakuhle ubugcisa bokukhohlisa.
* Ukuthintela iinwele ngeminwe yakho, uvumele loo mntu ukuba uzive ukhululekile kwaye ufuna ukuxhomekeka kumxholongo onamandla.
* Ukuba ufuna umntu ukuba acinge ukuba iingcamango zakhe zihlushwa entlokweni yakho kuphela kwaye uyakwazi ukwanelisa iiminqweno zakho - makabone oku. Ngexesha le ncoko, ngezandla zombini, zibambe iinwele zakho njengeqhina. Lo ngumlenze wamanani wamadoda! Yaye ukuba usasazela ngokufihlakeleyo ngexesha elifanayo - zonke zakho.
* Amanye amadoda athembekile kwizithethe ngobudlelwane phakathi kwesini. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kubo iyayinyamekela intsapho kunye nomfazi othandekayo ovakalelwa kukuba uyamhlonela loo ndoda. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba indoda yakho ivela kule ntlobo - ngexesha elide ngxoxo, uqoke iinwele emsila, uze uwaxoshe. Oku kuthetha ukuba unamathele kwiintliziyo zezingane kwaye ulungele ukuthobela indoda enamandla, njengentombazana encinane. Awufuni nje kuphela ukumcekisa, kodwa kwaye unelungelo lokunyamekela kunye nokunyamekela, okwehlulekayo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuvuya kumntu, faka yonke inkqubo
* Hlala phantsi ukwenzela ukuba i-posture yakho idibaniswe kunye nomzimba wakhe wokuxhatshazwa ngexesha lothando. Vumela imifanekiso enxulumene nayo imvela kwiingcamango zakhe. Unqamle unyawo lwakho emlenzeni wakho, ukhangela nomdla kumlingane wakho oza kutshata naye. Emva koko unako ukuphucula umphumo we "isimemo" ngokucotha ngokucokisekileyo kunye ngokunyanisekileyo kunye nokuphakamisa imilenze yakho, ngokukhawuleza ukubetha izithanga zakho ngeminwe yakho.
* Ngokukhawuleza, ngokubanzi kwaye uvule izibilini zakho (ezibhekwa njengendawo yomzimba efanelekileyo) okanye wenze ukunyakaza kwezandla ukuhamba nabo. Ukubhema i-cigarettes kunokunceda kakhulu apha. Kodwa unokwenza ngokukhawuleza kwaye ulungele into ethile ezandleni zakho. Umzekelo, ifowuni yeselula.
* Kancinci, njengokungazi kakuhle, hambisa iminwe yakho kwizinto zesimo se-cylindrical, ngokukhawuleza ukubetha. Ingaba ngumlenze wakho, iglasi, umlenze wethebula - nantoni na efana nesimo somntu. Oku kubangela ukuba amadoda aye kwindawo yokubilisa. Kodwa khumbula - emva kwesenzo esifanayo umntu akayi kuqonda kwaye akayi kwamkela ukungavumi. Uqinisekile ukuba ufuna ukuqhubeka?
* Imilomo ifanele ikhutshwe nge-lipstick ebomvu okanye ebomvu. Khumbula ukuba ngamaxesha onke, kufuneka bahlanjululwe ngolwimi ukuze babakhanye. Gcina umlomo wakho uvule kancane - oku kungakhokelela ukuba umntu acinge ngemimandla engqinileyo yowesifazane. Ngoko uya kukwenza okulungileyo nokukhawuleza kumntu wamaphupha akho.
Indoda enomdla kwintombazana iphinda ithumele iimpawu, ngokungazi kakuhle, ezijoliswe kwimpendulo. Ngoko, umzekelo, uphakamisa isandla sakhe kumgangatho womqala wakhe kwaye uqala ukulungisa umtya wakhe, udonsa kwikollar, okanye ugubungele iibhokhwe ezingabonakaliyo kwiingubo zakhe, ulungise iinwele zakhe. Kwakhona uzama ukuhlala edibana naye ngokukhawuleza. Khangela amehlo akhe - xa ekulungele ukumkela umdlalo, abafundi bakhe baya kwandisa. Oku kulandelwayo okungalawulwayo kunye nokunyanzeliswa ngokupheleleyo kwanoma yimuphi umntu. Indoda enomdla kakhulu iya kumkela i-cock's pose. Emele ngqo, uqhubela phambili, ephethe izandla zakhe ebhanti okanye kwiipokotshi zakhe. Ngako-ke uyaqaphela ukuba ufuna ukubonisa ukuba "uyindoda" elungileyo, ukuba akanalo ulinganayo ngesondo kwaye ulungele ukwenza nantoni na ukuyibonakalisa.