Akunjalo kuphela amantombazana abanomdla wokwazi ukuba ngubani oza kutshata naye. Abanye abameli besondo esomeleleyo ngamanye amaxesha bayazibuza ukuba baya kubiza njani umtshakazi ozayo, kungekudala baza kutshata kwaye baya kuba yintoni iqabane labo. Kungcono ukuqagela iKrisimesi, kuba ngeli xesha le nto inqatshelwe ukukhutshwa kwemimandla engaphezu kwemvelo. Indlela yokuqagela uya kufumana kwinqaku lethu.
Indlela yokunika ikhredithi intombazana eKrismesi
Kukho imithetho emininzi engcono ukuhambelana nokuqaphela. Njengoko uyazi, icawa ayigunyazisiyo kwaye iyayivimba imilingo, ngoko ukuze ungamcaphukisi uThixo, kungcono ukususa iimpawu zesikhashana kwaye uthathe umnqamlezo. Musa ukubuza umbuzo ofanayo maxesha amaninzi. Zama ukuqagela apho kungekho mntu unokukuyeka. Vala ukukhanya kwaye ukhanyise ikhandlela, hlala imizuzu embalwa ukuthula okupheleleyo kunye nomculo ekuvumeni.
Ukuhlanjululwa ngokuthanda intombazana
Unokufunda i-destiny yakho ngoncedo lomlilo. Yiya kwintsimi, cela malunga nekamva elincinci kunye nomlilo. Emva koko, uqaphelisise ilangabi. Ukuba itshisa ngokukhawuleza, kwaye i-sparkles iyashisa phezulu phezulu komhlaba, uya kufumana umfazi omhle, othobekileyo kwaye onengqiqo, aphile naye ubomi obonwabileyo. Kodwa ukuba ilangatye litshisa nge-bang, kwaye i-swirl iyangena kwaye ayifuni ukuphakama, ngoko uya kufumana umfazi onomlingisi, ubudlelwane buya kubundlobongela, kunye nokwahlukana nokuxabana.
Okudumeleyo kukuvumisa ngamanani. Kuya kukunceda ukuba uqonde ukuba uthanda owakhethiweyo. Thatha ingcambu yelayisi. Beka isandla sokhohlo kuyo kwaye ubuze umbuzo ongaphendula ngokucacileyo "ewe" okanye "hayi". Emva kokuthulula iibalwa ezimbalwa kwitafile uze uzibale. Inombolo leyo inokuthi "yebo", kwaye inombolo engavumelekanga ibonisa "akukho".
Impendulo yombuzo wakho ingafumaneka kunye noncedo lwencwadi. Kungcono ukuthatha iBhayibhile okanye incwadi ngezinto zokomoya. Buza umbuzo ofuna ukufumana impendulo. Emva koko, qagela nayiphi na iphepha kunye nomgca okanye vula nje incwadi ngokungaqhelekanga kunye nomnwe ufumane umgca. Umgca uya kukunika impendulo kumbuzo.
Umtshakazi angaphupha ephupheni. Ukwenza oku, ngaphambi kokulala udla ikhukhamba enetyuwa okanye nayiphi na isidlo sesonka. Ayikwazi ukuhlamba. Emva koko, uthi: "Intombazana ibomvu, uze kum kwaye uphuze." Ephupheni, kufuneka uphuphe ngomtshakazi wakho wekamva.
Awazi ukuba yeyiphi yamantombazana okukhetha abafazi bawo? Isaphetha siya kunceda. Bhala kwiibhubhu amagama omama akho, uze uwabeke kwisitya samanzi. Yiyiphi ibhubhu eya kukhula ngokukhawuleza, loo ntombazana kufuneka ikutshatile.
Ukuqikelela ngokungcatsha kwentombazana: indlela yokufumana ukuba intombazana iyatshintsha
"Ingaba iyatshintsha okanye ayikho?" Lo mbuzo ucelwa ngokuqhelekileyo ngabo bonke abantu abahlala emhlabeni. Ewe, kwimeko enjalo ubuvumo lwakho luncedo. Thatha iphepha kunye neeklasi ezimbini. Kwiphepha faka zombini ikhandlela, kwikhandlela elilodwa, uqagele igama lakho intombi okanye umfazi wakho, kunye nomnye - owakho. Emva koko, khanyisa ikhandlela uze uthi amagama alandelayo: "Umzimba wendalo ngumlilo kunye nekhandlela, ndincede ukuba ndiyazi ukuba umfazi wam unomnye." Ukuba ikhandlela lakho liphuma kuqala, ngoko umzekelo wokungcatsha uphezulu kakhulu, kwaye xa ikhandlela lentombazana yakho iphuma kuqala, ngoko ihlala iyinyani kuwe. Okudumelayo kukuqikelela nge-apula. Nika esi siqhamo kumthandi wakho kwaye ujonge i-stub. Ukuba akukho ncindi ekhohlo kuyo, iqabane lakho lilungile. Yaye ukuba inyama ininzi, intombazana inomthandi.
