Izazi zezenkolo zaziphazamiseka ngumbuzo, zeziphi iimpawu ezithandekayo kwizesondo eziqinileyo kwaye yintoni na, ngokombono wabantu, ukungabikho kwamabhinqa. Ukucaphula, umfanekiso olandelayo wenziwe.
Ukusilela kwezilwanyana eziphambili
Neumeha
Kwindoda, enye yezimpawu zamabhinqa ezilahlayo kukuba ukungakwazi ukulima kunye nokukwazi ukupheka. Enyanisweni, umntu unokuxolela kakhulu umfazi, kodwa kulula kakhulu kuye ukuba loo nto ibhinqa indlu kwaye yafunda ukupheka kwangaphambili. Akukho namnye owamrhoxayo isiqubulo esithi "indlela eya entliziyweni yomntu ulele esiswini".
Tranhera
Abaxhamli abangakwaziyo ngokufanelekileyo nokuphatha kakubi uhlahlo lwabiwo-ntsapho abayithandanga igunya elifanelekileyo kwaye bahlonele abo abayeni okanye noninazala. Ukuba intombazana ethandekayo yayo inokuthi "yinciphise umvuzo wayo wenyanga enye ngosuku lokuthenga, akayi kuba mnandi kumntu onzulu. Ngenxa yoko, izazi zentlalo zincoma ukuba zilungelelanise ukunyamezela kwazo kwaye zifunde indlela yokusebenzisa ngokuchanekileyo nangendlela eyiyo izinto eziphathekayo eziye zangena kwizandla zabasetyhini.
Umthandi wesidlo
Ibhinqa elithatha isitya kunye neqabunga elilodwa lesaladi okanye umfazi ohlala ebeka intsapho yakhe kwisondlo sokutya ngendlela yohlaza okanye ukutya okuluhlaza, akubangeli abantu. Kule ndlela kuphuma okulandelayo. Hlala phantsi ngokutya okuphucula impilo kunye nokulahlekelwa isisindo, akufuneki ukuba usasaze ngokusingqongileyo kunye nokuthula. Ukusuka kwabanye, awuyi kulinda inkxaso kunye nodumo, ngoko kufuneka uyenze ngokuzimela.
Ugcwele isithwathwa
Amadoda kwimibono yabo aphikisanayo kwaye azinzile. Abayithandi abafazi abasoloko behlala kwiidlo, kwaye abayithandi loo mizuzu yabo, enesisindo esininzi. Yiyiphi ebudeni bokuthandana, njengengcongolo, kwaye ngoku iyanzima kakhulu. Khumbula ukuba abantu bakho abatsha kunye nabayeni bakho banokukuxolela i-kilogram yee-ezintathu, kwiimeko ezili-12 eziqhelekileyo, akudingeki ukuba ubale ngaphezu koko, kuba umonde wesilisa awupheli.
Ukuxoxa
Amadoda ayithandi xa abafazi okanye abafazi baxoxisana ngolwalamano lwabo kunye neentombi zabo. Kwaye akunandaba nokuba wathini kuye ngabahlobo bakhe. Ngaloo nto inobungozi kwaye uyithandekile entliziyweni yakho izinto, ukholelwa ukuba abaxhomekeke kwiingxoxo eziqhelekileyo kwaye bajongwa kakhulu. Kwaye ngezinye iindlela ulungile.
Kopysha
Igumbi lakho lokugqoka lizele iimpahla, kodwa usoloko uthi akukho nto enxibayo. Ungowabo bafazi abagqoke iiyure ezintathu, kodwa ngenxa yoko ufumana umonde womntu. Le ndoda iya kulinda ixesha elide, kodwa ephantsi kwentliziyo yakhe iya kuqwalasela oku kuhamba kwakho njengokunciphisa.
Ibhokisi leNgxoxo
Ngaba nawe uyathetha? Kwaye ukuthetha kwifowuni kunye nentombi yakhe kunokuchitha ixesha elingaphezu kweyure? Emva koko uyathandazela ukuba ubuyele kwisihloko sencoko kwaye sele sele isicangca sesibini sithethe kwakhona ngco ncoko. Amadoda ayithandi aba baxoxayo, badinwa ngeengxoxo ezingenanto kunye neengxoxo zentombi. Musa ukugqithisela rhoqo kunye neendlebe zabo. Jabulela umntu wakho ngokuthula.
Iimpawu eziphambili kumfazi
Yintoni ebangele amadoda kubafazi?
- Amadoda ayayithanda xa abafazi bembethe izithende eziphezulu. Abafazi abanjalo banomdla.
- Amadoda adumisa xa ibhinqa linamathela kwimpahla kunye nomfanekiso wesitayela somsebenzi.
- Amadoda afana nala mabhinqa awaziyo imiphumo yomfanekiso, ngobuchule, awaguqula kwaye ezinye izinto zembatho ziyakwazi ukugxininisa isidima sabo.
- Zama ukumomotheka, ukumomotheka ebusweni bakho kuya kukhuthaza ukuqhagamshelana okungcono kunye nendoda. Indoda inokukwazi ukuba nomfazi onomomothekayo, kunokuba ibe nombono onzulu okanye obunzima.
- Ngokwamadoda, ibhinqa lifanele lithandane. Musa ukwenza ngokuthobeka kakhulu, kodwa kungabikho ngokuchukumisayo kwaye kungenjalo. Umzekelo, ukhangelelwano olufutshane, oluthatha imizuzwana engama-7, ngoko ebusweni bukrokrazhile, ngokukhawuleza ukuphosa iinkophelo, kwakhona ukubukeka ngothando kunye nokutshintshela enye into. Ngokwamadoda, ezo zakhono kunye nokwahlula ibhinqa elikhangayo eliqhelekileyo.
- Ibhinqa limele liphulaphule indoda. Kubalulekile ukuphulaphula ngokuqwalasela kunye nomdla. Kukuqonda nokuphulaphula oko akathethayo, kwaye kungabi bukhohlisi.
- Iingcali zezobudlelwane bezenkolo, xa bexubusha nabayeni, bathi abantu banomdla kulabo bafazi abahlala esithombeni, bephonsa umlenze emva kweenyawo zabo. Kwindoda edibanisa naye, le ndawo ibhinqa kakhulu.