"Simele," sithi ngokwethu, ukwenza izicwangciso. Kuphela apha ngenxa yesizathu esithile akukhawulezi ukuba kuqhutywe: iphupha elilandelayo (ukukhula, ufunde isiNgesi, uqale ukutya ngokuchanekileyo, ufumane umsebenzi onomdla) uya kwisefu elikude le-subconscious phantsi kwesayinitsha "ngolunye usuku". Iingcali zengqondo zithi ingcambu yengxaki iphezulu kwinqanaba lokukhuthaza. Indlela yokwenza amaphupha abe yinyani?
Isigaba 1 - ukubonakala. Ukubonisa nje ngokufunayo akukwaneli. Kubalulekile ukuba "ungene" kwiphupha lakho - ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza, kunye nazo zonke iinkcukacha. Ufuna umfanekiso obalulekileyo? Sondela kwisibuko kwaye "uzibonele" uqobo, uvale ukukhanya komzimba, ukuthobela kweemisipha, ilanga elikhanyayo kwesikhumba esiqhenqileyo, ukubonga kweenxa zonke. Ungesabi ingcinga yakho - inokuba yinto enamandla yokunqoba ubuqili nobunzima. Uzayeka ukusebenza ngaphandle "okungenanto" kwaye uhambe kucace "Ndifuna, ngokuba".
Inyathelo 2 - "setha kwakhona izicwangciso". Ubomi bethu buqulethe imigaqo kunye nemikhwa-eyaziwayo okanye engabonakaliyo. Bakha indawo eyaziwayo yokuthuthuzela, eyinokusihlaziya ngokuqhelekileyo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha lo thuzelo luba ngamaketanga ekutshatyalaliswa kweenjongo zethu. Ukuba awuphumelele ukuzama ukuqala ishishini elitsha - zama ukuphula izicwangciso zokuziphatha zangaphambili. Ukuba usetyenziselwa ukusela ikhofi ngaphambi kokuba uqale umsebenzi onzima - buyisele endaweni yomdaniso wemizuzu eyishumi kumculo. Esikhundleni somsebenzi wokuvalela kusasa ekuseni, yenza iindidi ezimbalwa ezungeze indlu. Zama - kusebenza ngokwenene!
Inyathelo 3 - yakha icebo. Iinkcukacha zakho ziza kuba - ngokukhawuleza uza kufezekisa umphumo. Nawuphi na umgomo wehlabathi uloyiko, kodwa ukwesaba kuya kutshabalala - ukuba wenza imfundiso ecacileyo. Ukunyaniseka okwexeshana kodwa okuqinisekileyo kuya kubakhokelela ekuphumeleleni.