Uphefumlelwe zezi zithembiso, uphendula imibuzo ixesha elide. Kwaye kwesikrini, umzekelo, "Umlinganiselo wamandla amabhinqa ngowama-67%". Kwaye akukho nto malunga nendlela yokuyisebenzisa ngayo, indlela yokuzalisa xa kwenzeka "ukuvuza". Ngako oko, sifuna ukufunda okungakumbi malunga nantoni yamandla amabhinqa kunye nendlela yokuzalisa iimpahla zayo. Sithemba ukuba uya kuba nomdla.
Omhlophe kwaye obomvu . Ngaphambi kokuba siqale ukufunda amandla amabhinqa kunye nendlela yokuzalisa iimpahla zayo, makhe sibone ukuba ufuna kangakanani. Emva kwakho konke, kunokwenzeka ukuba indebe yobuntombi bakho kwaye uphelele ngokupheleleyo. Ngosizo lomsebenzi olula uzakufumana ukuba yintoni amandla - isetyhini okanye isintu - kuwe. Khawucinge, uvala amehlo akho, ukuba ukhethe iingubo zamaphupha akho. Unako ukuthabatha naziphi na izongezo kuyo: umkhwa, iiglavu, izitokotyi. Ulinganiselwe kuphela kukhetho lombala: lube lubomvu nolumhlophe kuphela. Yiyiphi iingubo ozikhethile: i-silt emhlophe okanye ibomvu? Kude kumgangatho, mini okanye emadolweni? Nguwuphi umbala, iisitokisini okanye iiglavu? Cinga konke oku ngaphambi kokuba uqedele ukufunda izinto. Ukuba iingubo zilawulwa ngumbala obomvu - kunye nobufazi ulungile. Ukuba umhlophe (umbala wamandla wesilisa) - amandla amabhinqa akwanele kuwe. Ngokufanelekileyo, ukudibanisa kwamandla amabhinqa kunye nobukhulu bomzimba kufanele kube ngu-75 no-25%, ngokulandelanayo, kunye neengubo kufuneka zibe zibomvu (oko kukuthi, amahlombe, isifuba, isisu, izithanga kufuneka zifakwe), kunye nomhlophe-isitya, iigwegwe, izihlangu kunye neiglavu oko kukuthi, ingalo, imilenze kunye nentloko). Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni ukuba amandla amabhinqa akwanele kuwe? I-psychologist esebenzayo kwincwadi yakhe ichaza ukuba yinto yowesifazane owamnika amandla okufumana amandla kwihlabathi elijikelezile. Amadoda ayinaloo mandla amakhulu, ngoko ke athabatha lo mandla kuthi, ngokukhupha umnikelo wokukhupha, ukunyamekela nokuthuthuzela.
Kubonakala ukuba ngaba besetyhini, abaphumeleleyo kunye nabanamandla abanamadoda. Kwaye ngokungafaniyo: ukuba sibonisa amandla ethu, sikhetha imisebenzi yamadoda, amadoda aphethwe ngamaphupha abe buthathaka kwaye ayilanga. Ngaphezu koko, indoda, evakalelwa ukungabi nkunkuma, izakuzama ukuhlawulela amandla amabhinqa ngamanye amacandelo - amandla esondo. Nguye kuphela ophelileyo ofuna amaxesha ambalwa kwaye kungekhona into yokuba inokunika omnye umfazi omnye. Ngaba uyayiqonda into eyenzekayo? Ngaphezu koko, ukusilela kwamandla kunokubangela iimvakalelo zetyala (umfazi uvakalelwa kukuba kukho into engekho kubathandekayo bakhe) kunye nobunzima obukhulu kunye nezifo zesifo somzimba.
Uvela phi? Ekuqaleni, amandla omfazi anikezelwa ngamnye kuthi ngelizwi elilinganayo. Kodwa xa ungayisebenzisi lonke ixesha kwaye ungayisebenzisi - luthando kwaye uzibambelele, yakha, uyihloniphe kwaye uyixhase indoda yakho, uyinyamekele indalo - iyaphuma. Ngokutsho kweengqondo zengqondo, amandla omfazi adlula kumntu ngokusondelana ngesondo. Kwaye amandla angaphantsi kowesifazane, amadoda angaphezulu. Kodwa nangona uhlala unyanisekile kumlingane wakho, ungacingi ukuba esi sizathu sokulahlekelwa amandla asinakukukhathalela. Kwiminyaka ephakamileyo ye-7 ungasusa amandla omntu owalala naye kanye kuphela! Kwaye akukhathazeki ukuba yena, umzekelo, uyatshatile omnye okanye uya kwelinye ilizwekazi. Ngethamsanqa, isazi senzululwazi sithi ukuxhamla kwamandla kungaphazanyiswa ngoncedo lwetheknoloji yamandla (ungayilungisa nalo mbuzo).
Gcwalisa indebe yobuntombi . Xa zonke iintambo ezidibanisa kunye namaqabane ziqhekekile, masizalise indawo yokugcina amanzi. Uya kuzuza kwiindlela ezininzi zamandla amabhinqa. Ngendlela, kufuneka usebenzise rhoqo. Fumana ukuba ungakanani amandla omfazi onayo ngoku. Ukwenza oku, ngqondweni ufumane indawo apho umthombo wamandla akho wesifazane ufihlakele khona. Kufuneka, ngokuvala amehlo ethu, sicinge thina kwindawo enhle kunazo zonke emhlabeni. Khangela, yintoni na - ukucima ientyatyambo okanye ihlathi lezityalo? Okanye mhlawumbi yinto ephakamileyo yentaba? Luhlobo luni lwemithi ekhula apho, zeziphi izilwanyana ezidibana nawe, yintoni evakalayo kwaye izandi uvakalelwa? Ukuba into ephule ukuvisisana kwale ndawo okanye ayithandi into ethile - ingqondo yicima nje, yikhuphe. Kwaye kufuneka ubone amanzi - uphawu lombane wamandlakazi. Mhlawumbi umlambo, mhlawumbi umlambo okanye ulwandle. Khawucinge nje ngendlela ovakalelwa ngayo. Ingakanani amanzi owayibona engqondweni yakho, unamandla amaninzi. Ngoku sizalisa ukunikezelwa kwamabhinqa. Cinga ukuba ungena kulo manzi.
Libala kwaye lifudumele . Uzama ukuya phansi uze ukhangele igobolondo lolwandle. Ngaphakathi kwayo, iparele kukujoliswa kwamandla akho amabhinqa. Uthabatha le pearl uze uyibeke esantsi kwisisu, uyibeke ngaphakathi, uzive ukukhanya kusasazeka emzimbeni. Ukhawuleza ebusweni, ngokubhekiselele kubomi obutsha.