Umama ucinga ukuba umfana wam uhlaza

Kubudlelwane kukho iintlobo ezininzi zeengxaki. Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala kunengcikivo, kodwa ngokwenene, yonke into inokwenzeka. Ngokomzekelo, oku: umama ucinga ukuba umfana wam uhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Musa ukuyikholelwa, kodwa le ngxaki ngoku ihambelana ngokufanelekileyo kwimibuthano yabaselula. Inkcubeko kunye nefashoni zanamhlanje ziye zabangela ukuba inkwenkwe nentombazana ziya kuba nzima ngakumbi ukuhlula. Ubuninzi bokubhoboza, ijezi, iincinci ezincinci, ii-T-shirt eziqinile, iingqungquthela ezide - kwaye ngoku, ekhangele umntu onjalo ebhasi, ucinga ngokubhekiselele kwizinto zesini.

Ngoko akumangalisi ukuba le ngxaki: "Umama ucinga ukuba intombi yam ibhakabhaka," inomdla kakhulu intsha.

Yintoni enokuyenza kumantombazana amantombazana athando kule meko. Okokuqala, kufuneka uqonde ukuba kutheni umama wakho ecinga njalo. Sisiphi isizathu? Mhlawumbi kuphela kwiingubo, okanye, imilinganiselo kunye nokuziphatha kwendoda encinci kubangela ukukrokra kumama. Konke okufanayo, mama, aba ngabafazi besisizukulwana apho bekuyimfuneko ukuqonda ukuba ngubani ohamba esitalato: umfana okanye intombazana. Yingakho abantu banamhlanje, nangona kunzima kakhulu ukuyibiza, bangela abazali ukuba bakrokre.

Kwaye oko kusele kwenziwa xa intombazana iqonda ukuba inkwenkwe yakhe isengumfana, kodwa unina akavumelani nale nto.

Kubalulekile ukuchitha umsebenzi wokufundisa nomzali. Intombazana iyayazi isizathu sokuba intombazana yakhe ibonakale. Ngoko, kufuneka uzame ukuchazela umama wakho othandekayo. Oku kuya kufuna iimagazini kunye ne-Intanethi.

Ngokomzekelo, ukuba yinkwenkwe ye-emo, ngoko umntu kufuneka acacise ngokubekezela nangomonde ukuba kukho inxalenye encinci ekhuthaza iimvakalelo kunye ne-unisex. Ewe, kuya kuba nzima kumama ukuqonda ukuba kutheni umfana osegqoka egqoka intombazana, uhlala ekhala aze ahlasele, kodwa yintoni ongayenza, yinto ekhoyo namhlanje. Ngako oko, umama uya kufuneka ajonge isixa esikhulu sempahla ekuthandwayo ukuthetha ngayo ngalolu hlobo, uhlobo lweengubo kunye neenwele zezinwele. Ngendlela, intetho eyahlukileyo - yinyameko ephakanyisiweyo kunye neentrapi. Kubalulekile ukuxelela unina ukuba ukuzenza kunye nabasetyhini abazenzayo ukuba babe ngamantombazana. Kuphela nje ukuba ngumfanekiso we-Emokid. Kwaye akukho ndawo kungekho pensile emnyama kunye ne-lacquer. Kunjalo kwimimiselo engabhalwa phantsi yenkqutyana. Yaye ukuba awuyi kuyenza amehlo akho kunye ne-marigolds - yonke into, awuyiyo inkunkuma (ulwimi oluqhelekileyo "alukhoyo"). Kwaye oku kukhwankqisayo kumbindi wolutsha. Nalokhu kuyimfuneko ukuba abantwana baqhube kwiivenkile zezonyango kunye nokuzikhethela ngokwabo ipensela kunye ne-podvodki. Amantombazana nje anamhlanje athanda ngawo xa athabatha umfana kwiintombi kunye noodadewabo. Thina ngokwenene kudala siphumelele ukulingana, nakhona kwaboniswa, inyaniso, ekuqaleni.

Umama unokuyikrakra nokuziphatha komfana oselula. Ngendlela, nabazali bazizi ngolwazi malunga ne-emoculture ye-emo, akukho mfuneko ukubonisa imifanekiso nokufunda ibali elibuhlungu ngokuphathelele imivuno. Ngaloo ndlela, umama uya kufumanisa kakhulu, kwaye ke i-EmoKid iya kufuneka ihambe ebusweni bentombazana kanye, ngenxa yokuba abazali bayithandanga ngandlela-thile ingcamango yokufumana intombi kwindawo yokuhlambela kunye nemifuno evulekile. Ngoko, buyele ekuziphatheni. Inyaniso yokuba intombazana inokugxuma ngokukhawuleza ekuhlekeleni kwiinyembezi ayithethi ukuba ngu-schizophrenic. Umfana nje ngoko mfanekiso ubeke. I-Emo ihlala ifunekayo ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe neemvakalelo kufuneka zihluke. Ngoko ke, ukuba unina watshala abantwana ukuba badle kwaye inkunzi ikhule iinyembezi phezu kweplate of borsch, ungakhathazeki - yinto eyoyoyisa.

Olunye udidi lwabafana abahluke kakhulu kumantombazana banomdla wesondo. Aba bantu abaselula bahlala benomzimba ogqityiweyo kunye nokuhamba, i-bbb kunye neengqungquthela kwiingubo, kunye nezibhamu, iifuru kunye nento yonke umama athenge ngayo iingubo zoboya kunye neebhola zokunyathela. Yingakho inkosana enjalo ingayithandi. Ukongeza, aba bantu bathetha kakhulu ngefashoni njenge-antics kwaye baziphathe ngendlela engafanelekanga njengabantu. Kodwa enjalo intsha enokuthi ingaboniswa kubazali bakhe ekukhanyeni okusemandleni. Emva kwakho konke, aba bantu bahlala bebukele, abazixhasi iisokisi kwi-chandelier, bahlambe, bahlambe izinto kwaye musa ukuhamba neenwele ezinamafutha. Ngoko akudingeki ukuba udibanise kubo, ubuncinane malunga nale nto. Ukongezelela, banokukunceda ukuthabatha isambatho esifanelekileyo kunye nokwenza i-makeup, cebisa umququzeleli osebenzayo kwaye unokuxelela apho iindawo zokuzivocavoca ezihle kakhulu kwisixeko. Yaye, Mama, emva koku konke oku, bahlala bengamadoda. Kakade ke, akunakwenzeka ukuba umama uya kuba nomdla ngokukrakra ngale nkwenkwe, kodwa kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ngenye indlela. Ngubani olungcono: ukupheliswa, ukucoceka nokulungelelanisa ukusela ngokugqithiseleyo komntu wesini ukuya kumntu ofanayo kwiiOlimpiki ezingcolileyo kunye nebhotile yeplastiki esandleni sakhe? Ngoko ukuba uthelekisa la manqaku, izikali zihlala zixhomekeke kwimida yesini.

Ukongezelela, ngokuqhelekileyo, aba bantu abayingozi nakanye, ngoko umama akayi kuba nexhala malunga nentombi yakhe. Kwiimeko ezininzi, zikhula kwiintsapho apho kungekho papa kwaye sibonga ngokukhuliswa kwabasetyhini, banomdla kwaye banomusa. Kakade ke, akunakwenzeka ukuba i-sexrosexual ifanele indima yomkhuseli, kodwa, njengoko bethetha, akukho bantu abafanelekileyo.

Ngako oko, ama-moms asengacingi ukwesaba kwaye angathandabuzi ukuqhelaniswa, ukuba umntu othe wavela endlwini, phantsi kwengalo yakhe nentombi yakhe. Abafana abanjalo, ukuba abazange bavule ngokupheleleyo imbonakalo yabo, bafanelekile ukulima, bayazihlamba kwaye bahlambulule kunye nentsimbi. Ngoko intombazana, ubuncinci, iya kusindiswa kwiinkxalabo ezininzi zasekhaya.

Kwaye ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukubuyela kubomama. Eli nqaku, enyanisweni, libhalelwe yona kunokuba iintombi zabo. Ewe, abantu abaselula banamhlanje kwiimeko ezininzi bahluke ngokupheleleyo nalabo owakuthandana nabo. Yonke into ishintshile kakhulu. Kodwa ke abaphatha aba bafana. Abaninzi babo baya kuphuma. Kwaye nangona bengekho, akenzi nto ephosakeleyo. Ngoko ke, ungayithobeli ingqalelo indlela abafana bajonga ngayo namhlanje. Kulunge ukuvavanya njengomntu. Kwaye ke, mhlawumbi, izibonda zakhe kwiinki, kunye neqela leendandatho endlebeni akuyi kubangeleka, kodwa ububele. Kwaye ingxaki "Umama ucinga ukuba umfana wam uhlaza" uya kuphelelwa!