Umfazi onesizungu onomntwana

Awunalo nobomi bomntu, awufumani umntu oyintanda, kwaye umntwana omncinane unomnqweno omkhulu kakhulu. Yaye ukuba uceba ukuzala xa uneminyaka engama-25, ubukhulu obuphezulu bokuba uza kubeletha umntwana ophilileyo, kwaye ukuba uneminyaka engaphezulu kwe-30, ngoko ukhangele ngokucophelela impilo yakho. Kule nqaku "Umfazi onesizungu onomntwana" uxelela indlela yokuzala waza ugcine umntwana wakho kumfazi omnye.
1. Ukulungiselela.

Ukuba ibhinqa ayinalo umntu osisigxina apho ehlala ehlala khona, ngoko unokufumana izifo ezahlukahlukeneyo zesini. Khumbula, ingaba kukho i-pathologies kunye nentsholongwane enokuthi, iya kutshintshwa kumntwana wakho. Kwaye ixesha lokunyanga lide kakhulu. Ngaphambi kokuba ufumane usana kufuneka udlule kwiimvavanyo ezininzi, nangona zibiza, kodwa impilo yakho iya kwaziwa ngokupheleleyo. Emva koko, kufuneka ukhethe indoda onokuthanda ukuba nayo umntwana wakho wexesha elizayo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba le ndoda iphilile ngokupheleleyo. Yaye kungekhona okokuqala, kuvela, okanye akunjalo nantoni na, ukuba akuyena umntu onokuthanda ukuzala.

Ukuze umphumo ube ngu-100% kuyimfuneko ukuba bobabini abalingani bafuna oku. Enyanisweni, kukho ukhetho lwesibini - umnikezeli ... i-berm yasebhankini, xa ubhekisela kule klinikhi ejongene neenkonzo ezifanayo - kufuneka uqikelele ukuba le yinkonzo eninzi kakhulu kwaye inokwenzeka ukuba inkqubo enempumelelo ayinkulu kakhulu.

2. Ukukhulelwa.

Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kufuneka ube phantsi kweliso lugqirha uze uthathe uvavanyo oluqhelekileyo ukuze ukwazi ukufumana ukuba yintoni impilo isiguli. Ewe, kuhlala kukuhle ukuva ukuba unobomi obutsha kwisisu sakho. Usana sele seluneendlela yokuthetha-ukunyusa.

3. Ukuzalwa nokugcinwa komntwana.

Kwaye apha, ekupheleni - ukulungiselela ukuzala. Abanye besetyhini banesabiso, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba umntu onothando abe nawe kunye nenkxaso ngexesha elincinane. Yaye ukuba unesizungu, ngoko kufuneka ube namandla kakhulu, ngengqondo. Xa umntwana ubonakala, kufuneka uzinikezele lonke ixesha. Kufuneka uzilungiselele ukuba uya kumondla umntwana wakho rhoqo emva kweeyure ezingama-3-4 kwaye uchitha ubusuku obungalali ubusuku bakhe-oku kuhlala iminyaka emi-2. Nsuku zonke kufuneka uhambe naye, uhlambe kwaye ungeze izambatho zakhe. Konke okokuqala ngethuba iintsuku zoomama kuya kubonakala kunzima kakhulu. Ukusukela ebomini obunjalo obunokungabi nantoni unokuba noxinzelelo. Kwimeko eqhelekileyo, unokubuyela emva kweminyaka eyi-1.5, mhlawumbi ubude.

Ngeentsuku zokuqala umntwana uza kuqala ukuphilisa intonga kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuyiphatha imihla ngemihla kwaye bonke abafazi abanako ukukulungele oku, ngoko banethemba lo msebenzi kumyeni. Kwaye ukunyusa umntwana kakuhle ngobisi, umama kufuneka adle kakuhle. Iindleko zokugcina umntwana zinkulu kakhulu: i-diapers, ukutya, i-diapers, i-creams ezikhethekileyo kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi. Yaye kunye nokwanda kwenani lomntwana, iimfuno zeemali zalo ziyakwandisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana unokugula aze adinga amayeza, eyongezelelweyo indleko. Kwakhona, zonke iintlobo zamavithamini kunye nokusila ziya kufuneka rhoqo emva kweenyanga ezintathu.

Ngaphambi kokuba, xa eneminyaka eli-1 ubudala, kufuneka uzinike uviwo kuogqirha abaninzi: njengogqirha, u-neuropathologist, oculist. Kumele ukuba badluliswe rhoqo. Bonke oogqirha bezingane kufuneka bahambe unyaka ngamnye ukulinganisa, ukulinganisa umntwana kunye nokugonya. Emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa zobomi, umntwana uya kufuna ingqalelo. Ewe, kuyamnandi xa ubona indlela umntwana wakho amomotheka ngayo okokuqala, ukuba uthetha njani. Ithuba elide kunikezelwa ngumntwana xa eqala ukufunda konke: hamba, kuthetha, kunye nokunye.

Nangona umntwana esemncinci, akayiqondi ukuba ufuna uyise, kodwa xa ukutyelela enkulisa kuqala, uya kucela ngoku. Kwaye kufuneka ulungele le ngxaki. Enyanisweni, kunzima xa kungekho ntata kufuphi, kwaye ke kutheni uza kudlala le nxaxheba. Into ephambili kukuba ufundisa kakuhle umntwana wakho kwaye umnike lonke uthando lwakho nothando.

Ukuze ube ngumama wokwenene nonothando, umntu kufuneka abe namandla kwaye abe nomonde, ngoko unyana wakho ngokuzayo uya kuvuyiswa ngobomi obunomdla obanike wona.

UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekileyo kwisiza