Ubukho obudibeneyo bomntwana kunye nesilwanyana sihloko esinzima kwaye esinengxaki. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba ngokuza komntwana kuyimfuneko ukulahla zonke izidalwa eziphilayo kwindawo. Abanye bathi akukho ntoyikisayo apha. Into ephambili kukujonga ukuhlambuluka kwesi silwanyana, ukucoceka kwendawo yokuhlala, ukuba ungamvumeli umntwana. Kodwa ukuba ungenayo isilwanyana, ufuna ukuba nayo, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ulindele ukuba umntwana azalwe, kungcono ukulinda kunye nekati okanye inja kwithuba elithile.
Nika isilwanyana
Ukhuseleko lomntwana ngumsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu. Ngaphambi kokuba ungenise indlu yomntwana, apho kukho isilwanyana, kufuneka ulungiselele. Okokuqala, thabatha isilwanyana kwi-vet. Menze zonke izigulane ezifunekayo, ukukhubaza i-pet yakho. Funda iincwadi eziyimfuneko, apho kuchazwe imikhwa yezilwanyana zezilwanyana kunye neentaka. Ingakumbi kubalulekile ukunyamekela umbuzo wendlela ehambelana ngayo nale mihlaba okanye ezinye iintlobo ezisemgangathweni omnye nabantwana abancinci. Ukuba izimo zezindlu azikuvumeli ukuba ulungiselele ikamelo elilodwa kwisilwanyana, kungcono ukunika umntu owaziwayo ubuncinci okokuqala. Kodwa ukuba isilwanyana sinefuthe kumntwana okanye umntwana unempawu zokungabikho komzimba, ngoko kunye nesilwanyana kufuneka ube nesahlulo ngezandla ezilungileyo.
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuthi kungani ungeke ugcine isilwanyana kunye nosana kunye.
- Umlutha we calligraphy. Nangona izilwanyana ezingenakubungozi, umzekelo, i-hamsters ingaba ngabaphathi bezonyango ezahlukeneyo.
- Ubume bezilwanyana. Akakwazi ukumkela ilungu elitsha lentsapho, ubonise ubugwenxa kuye.
- Ukungafuni. Ngokuza kwintsana, uninzi lwezinto ezintsha, ukuphazamiseka, ukukhathalela. Wena, mhlawumbi, awuyi kukwazi ukubeka ingqalelo kwilwanyana lakho kunye nokugcina inqanaba elifanelekileyo lempilo.
Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kukulungele ukunika isilwanyana kwiindawo ezihamba phambili.
Shiya isilwanyana sasekhaya
Ukuba usenza isigqibo sokushiya umhlobo wakho othembekileyo kwintsapho yakho, ngoko kuvela kwintsana ekhaya kufuneka kulungiselelwe kakuhle, kwaye ulungiselele isilwanyana sakho. Mema abahlobo bakho ukuba batyelele, abanabantwana abancinci. Ngoko uya kufunda ukuba isilwanyana sakho sisabela njani kwintsana. Nangona ilungu elitsha lentsapho esibhedlele, yizisa ezinye zezinto zakhe endlwini, makhe azi kakuhle iphunga lomntwana. Xa umntwana eziswa ekhaya, ke unokuqiniseka ukuba uyayifaka kwisilwanyana, kwaye ukukhusela umntu owaziwayo, uphathe isilwanyana kwinto elumnandi.
Qinisekisa ukuba isilwanyana asenzi umonakalo kumntwana. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzinzo kangakanani, ungalishiyi yedwa ngokumomotheka. Akuyimfuneko ukubeka umntwana kunye nesilwanyana ekamelweni elilodwa, nokuba yintaka okanye intlanzi. I-aquarium okanye i-cage neentaka akumele ihlale kwii-nursery. Umntwana unako ukufikelela kuyo, uyiguqule, uyilahle phantsi. Yinakekele ukuba isilwanyana asiqhiphi kwaye asiyikutshiza umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, ayizange idlale ngamathoyizi akhe amathoyizi.
Gcina imithetho yokucoceka. Geza izandla zakho kunye nosana emva kokuqhagamshelana kunye nesilwanyana. Ukuba akukho namanzi kufuphi, sebenzisa i-napkins yabantwana. Qaphela ukuba umntwana akaqhagamshelana nokutya okuseleyo kunye neyendlu yangasese yesilwanyana.
Ekubeni kwiinyanga eziyi-8-9 umntwana uqala ngokukhawulela, ngeli xesha unokuqaliswa ngendlela yokuthetha ngokufanelekileyo nezilwanyana. Umntwana kufuneka aphathe isilwanyana ngothando, ungabonakali ulwahlulo kuye, bonisa indlela yokunyamezela indlela yokubamba ngayo isilwanyana. Chaza ukuba inokulimaza xa ikhutshwe.
Isilwanyana sasekhaya sisidalwa esidinga ukunakekelwa, ukunakwa, ukunakekelwa, uthando. Mphathwe ngokuqonda, kwaye isilwanyana sakho siya kuba ngumhlobo wenene wengane.