Indlela yokuthuthuzela intombi

Imozulu ilungile kwisitalato, kwaye ilanga emphefumlweni wakho. Kwaye intombi-yokudandatheka. Ewe, unokumdudula kunye, uthuthuzela rhoqo. Kodwa konke oku akunamsebenzi. Kodwa ngokwenene unokunceda. Usizi nje ebomini bakhe into enkwantya kwenzeka. Yintoni eyona nto imfihlelo. Kodwa ngenye indlela, sele eqala ukugqabhuka ngezinyembezi ekhishini lakho malunga nesiqingatha seyure kwaye uchaza itekisi engacacileyo. Ngoku uhlala kwimeko apho akakwazi ukuthetha, ukucinga, ukwenza. Ngoko ke akunamsebenzi ukumcela ukuba athethe zonke izinto ngokulandelelana kwaye abhenele ukuqonda. Ubhaptizwa intlungu yakhe ngentloko. Ngoko ungazami ukumphazamisa kwaye ujonge. Imizuzu elinesibini elilandelayo ifuna inceba, inesihawu kuphela kwaye ayiyi kuba nesihe. Yintoni oya kumxelela yona, akunandaba. Umsebenzi wakho kukujoyina amava. Ekubeni sonke siyizidalwa zentlalo, sivakalelwa kukuba intlungu yethu yahlula umntu, yenza ukuba kube lula ukuhlupheka. Emva kwexesha, ubuchule bamava akhe buya kuncipha kwaye amandla okufikelela kwizigqibo eziphambili aza kubuyiselwa. Ixesha lokuhamba ukusuka ekugqibeleni ukuthetha. Ingxoxo Nokuba uphulaphule kwaye uhlale ucebile, ubale, ukuba unemivuzo eyaneleyo yekhwama entsha, unokuzisa iintlawulo zakho kwintombi yakho. Ngokukodwa xa usenokuthi igama eliphambili elithi "ugu". Kungenxa yokuba xa umntu ecinga ngokuzwakalayo, uhlola ingxaki engcono kunokuba aqoke iingcamango entloko yakhe. Kodwa uya kuzisa inzuzo eninzi xa uphulaphule ngokuchanekileyo. Okokuthi, kungekhona nje ukumthuthuzela, kodwa nokukunceda ukuseka ingxaki kuye, ukuqonda apho izizathu ziphi, apho iziphumo ziphi, apho yinto ephambili, apho i-secondary is. Yena ngokwakhe akakwazi ukwenza, kuba akukho namnye wabantu onokuhlala enenjongo, ukuqonda kwinto eyenza azinamathele. Ngaphandle koko, umele ummise ukuba angaboni. Ngenxa yokuba ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba neenkcukacha ezibuhlungu kakhulu. Ekugqibeleni, kufuneka umncede aqale ukuqiqa, enze izigqibo kwaye enze izicwangciso. Oko kukuthi, ngokukhawuleza xa ephuma ukuya kwinqanaba lesibini le ntetho yomdlalo wakhe, kufuneka uhlale phantsi kuyo ngemibuzo efana nale: "Ngoku ke yintoni na?" Ngoko uyamnceda ukuba ayeke ukuhlafuna ixesha elidlulileyo aze aphendule ngoku kunye nekamva.

ZiSombululo

Umbuzo: "Yintoni endiyenzayo?" - kufuneka aphendule. Unokumnceda njani ngeli nqanaba? Qinisekisa ukuba wenza isigqibo esisekelwe kuzo zonke iinkcukacha ezikhoyo kuye. Inyaniso kukuba unokunyanzela ezinye iinkcukacha. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abayithobeli ingqalelo into abafuni ukuyazi. Kwaye intombi yakho ingacingi ukuba iqabane lakhe lingumfazi ongabonakaliyo, kwaye uqale iqela "Mitshatile." Uya kumenza inkonzo enenzuzo xa unceda ukuqonda oko akufihla khona. Kucacile, musa ukwenza ebunzini. Yena akakholelwa, okanye ukhubekile. Mlethe kumcamango ochanekileyo ngemibuzo ephakamisayo. NjengoSocrates. Ubomi Nangona intliziyo yakho iphukile ibe ngamaqhekeza amancinci kwaye uphahla igcinwe kwisilumko esinye, ubomi buqhubeka. Kwaye kukho nezinye izinto ezininzi ezenzayo, ngaphandle kokuxazulula ingxaki ebalulekileyo yokubuyela kwisibhedlele sayo ikhekhe elingalahlekiyo ( ukufumana umsebenzi weklasini, ukuya kwimodeli yesikolo). Uyiqonda kakuhle le nto, kuba le ngxaki ayikho yakho, kodwa ngabahlobo bakho. Kwaye kuye phakathi kwendawo yonke ngoku ingxaki leyo, kwaye ulungele ukufaka amanqaku kuyo yonke into engahambelani nalo mkhakha. Njengomhlobo wenene, umele umkhusele kule nto. Iiseshoni aziwa ngenxa yokuba ethanda ukuthanda uthando i-IQ iwa ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ngenxa yokuba amantombazana athande nje akakwazi ukukhathalela kangako malunga neseshoni, xa oku kwenzekayo kwisitya nakwezinye iindawo. Ukujongana nokuphazamiseka ngokupheleleyo kolawulo lokuziphatha akulula. Ngoko ungazami ukumfundela ukuphawula ongekho ukulibala ngokufunda. Mane uthathe umbutho wemfundo yayo.

Yintoni endiyenzayo?

Musa ukuqala

Ukuba uqala ingxoxo rhoqo ngeengxaki zakhe kwindawo kawonkewonke, lindele ingxaki. Amagama aya kulandelwa iinyembezi, i-mascara, uThixo akavumelekanga, iya kuba yinto engenamanzi, impumlo iya kukhula ... Ngokuqhelekileyo, iimbandezelo enye iyenzela yona kunye nawe. Ngoko ngamanye amaxesha kunengqondo ukumyeka ezama ukuqala ingoma yakhe edabukisayo.

Yincoma

Xa umntu ecela, ulungisa ingxaki yakhe kwaye ayikhohlwe enye into. Ngoko ke kunzima kakhulu kuye ukuba afumane isizathu sokuzonwabisa ubomi. Kule meko, ukuncoma okuqhelekileyo kunenani eliphezulu kakhulu. Ukuthetha okuthile okulungileyo ngaye, umxelele ngeendaba ezilungileyo. Ukukhetha isihloko somyalezo ovuyayo, jongela kwindawo apho unenkinga. Ukuba, umzekelo, waphonswa ngumfana, induduzo enjengokuthi: "Ewe, udlulile iseshoni kwinqanaba elihle" elidlulileyo "- aliyi kuhamba. Wayefuna ukukhafulela esi seshoni. Induduzo engcono yomhlobo iya kuba xa uthe uhamba kakhulu kwi-blouse entsha.

Okumangalisayo

Ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na ingxaki onokuyidoda. Ngobuchule. Zama u kuhleka. Ukuba uhlaziyekile, kwisiqingatha somzuzu uya kuhleka kunye. Ukuba uhleka ihlaya, awuyi kuba ngumthombo wentlungu. Kwakhona umphumo omuhle, kuba ulwalamano luhlala lusempilweni kunokudandatheka.

Yiba nethemba

Mkholise nje ukuba "yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle." Nokuba ungathandabuzeki, xhobisa. Ngamanye amaxesha awudingi ukuba uyayazi inyaniso, kodwa kufuneka ufune ukuphumla ekudakaleni okukhulu.