Indlela yokuba ngumfazi wangempela

Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, loo mnqweno wawuya kuzwakala ingenangqondo. Abasetyhini bazalwa, kwaye akukho mntu wayenemibuzo malunga nokuba ngaba ngumfazi ngaphezu kwakho. Ngoku sizimisele kakhulu ekugqibeleni, ngexesha elifanayo siyazixhalabisa. Ngelixesha apho umfazi enokuthi abe khona, nokuba ngaba uzalwe ngumntu, isayensi yokuba nguye unelungelo lokuba khona. Kungenxa yoko ukuqeqeshwa okuhlukeneyo kunye neeklasi eziqhelekileyo ziyaziwayo, apho abafazi bafundiswa ukuba baqonde iimvakalelo zabo kunye neengcamango zabo, fumana amathuba amatsha, ukulahla iingxaki kunye nokunye okuninzi. Uninzi lwezi klasi luya kuba luncedo kakhulu, kodwa akusiyo yonke intokazi engathanda ukutshintsha into ebomini bayo iya ku "zifundo ezihlaziyileyo". Ukuba ungathandabuzeki, kwaye mhlawumbi, kufuneka uqonde ukuba kutheni iikhosi ezinjalo zadalwa, ngubani nabancedayo kunye nokuba bahambe nini.

Ngubani?
Iinkqubo ezahlukeneyo ngoku zaneleyo. Abafundanga, kodwa kunoko, bayinto yokuzilibazisa. Ukuba uwela ezandleni zengcali, i-hobby iya kuba luncedo kakhulu.

Okokuqala, ezo zifundo zihlukaniswe ngobudala kunye neengxaki. Kukho ukuqeqeshwa okujoliswe ekusebenzeni nabasetyhini abangaphantsi kwe-25, kukho abo baye bawela i-40th cut and for those who master the subtleties of life after 60 years. Kwimeko ethile, bafundisa iimfihlelo zokunxibelelana namadoda, ukuchaneka kokuchanekileyo kweenjongo, kwezi zinto zilandelayo, ugxininiso lwangaphakathi kunye nokudalulwa kwezibonelelo ezifihlakeleyo - ukususela ekuqaleni kwendalo, ukuya kwisini kunye nothando ngokwakho.
Ezi nkqubo zenzelwe ukuxazulula iingxaki ezithile, umzekelo, unokukhetha iklasi yeeklasi ezinikezelwe kwisihloko somtshato, ukungcatsha, abantwana, isondo, ukudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nosapho, ubuhlobo kunye nolwalamano nezihlobo. Kubonakala ukuba banceda ukulungisa iingxaki eziqhelekileyo.

Kwimigangatho eyahlukeneyo yobomi babo, ngamnye umfazi ubhekene nemibuzo eyahlukileyo, engekafiki kulula ukufumana iimpendulo ngaphandle kokuncediswa, ngoko ukuzivocavoca okunjalo kunokuba luncedo kuwo wonke umntu. Kufuneka ufike kubo ngexesha.

Yintoni oyikhethayo?
Ekubeni kukho iikhosi ezininzi, iisemina, ukuqeqesha, kufuneka ukwazi ukukhetha inkqubo eya kuba luncedo kuwe.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba unenkxalabo enkulu malunga neengxaki, kuyaqondakala ukuba ufumane iklasi efutshane emiselweyo kwisisombululo sayo. Kungaba nantoni na, ukusuka kwiimfihlelo zokwenza i-sushi kwiimfihlelo zokuphuma kwixinzelelo. Ngethuba elifutshane uzakufumana ulwazi oluphezulu kunye nokusebenza, kwiiyure ezimbalwa uza kuyazi kakuhle ukuba wenzeni kule nto okanye kuloo meko. Le ndlela ifanelekileyo kwabo bangenako ukulinda.

Ukuqeqeshwa kuthatha ixesha elide-ukuya kwiiveki ezimbalwa, abaqwalasela ingxaki enye, kodwa nezizathu zokubonakala kwayo, izicwangciso ezahlukeneyo, iingxaki ezinxulumene nazo. Ngokomzekelo, iseshoni yoqeqesho malunga nolwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi uya kunika ulwazi malunga nesayensi malunga nokuthinta kunye nesimo sombuso, malunga nokungafani phakathi kwezesetyhini kunye neengqondo zesintu, malunga nokuziphatha ngokwesini kunye neephoso eziqhelekileyo. Apha kuya kuba nethuba lokubhala phantsi i-theory eyomileyo, kodwa nokulahlekelwa kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo zenzeka kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo. Ziluncedo kulabo abanamahloni ngokwaneleyo kwaye balahleka lula, kuba uya kuphuma ehlabathini kunye neeseti zeetemplates, ezilula ukuhamba kwimeko entsha kwaye kulula ukuyilungisa.
Iimina ezidlulileyo ukusuka kwiiyure eziliqela ukuya kwiintsuku eziliqela, zenzelwe abantu abaninzi abanamava. Ngokomzekelo, abo baqedile iikhosi eziliqela kubaqalayo kwaye banolwazi kwiindawo eziliqela. Iisemina aziqukethe inxalenye engakumbi, kodwa ihlala inethuba elikhulu lokutshintshana amava. Ezi ziganeko zifanelekile abo bafuna ukudibanisa ubomi babo kunye nemisebenzi yoqeqesho okanye abo banqwenela ukuba baqonde ngakumbi umbuzo othile.

Iinkqubo ngabasetyhini - soloko zivakalelwa. I-Logic ayibalulekanga njengento ebalulekileyo yobomi. Abasetyhini bafundiswa ukuba bangabesabi kwaye bangabi neentloni ngeempawu zabo, ubunzima kunye neephene, bafundiswa ukuba bathembeke kwaye bavule. Ezinye iinkqubo zinceda ukutyhila kubasetyhini ezo zixhobo ezifihlakeleyo ezinokutsala ubomi obutsha nothando, kunye nomsebenzi ophumelelayo kunye nolwalamano oluhle kunye nolonwabo nabanye.

Kwimeko nayiphi na, kukho iisemina ezininzi, ukuqeqesha kunye neeklasi zamakhosikazi ukuba wonke umntu akwazi ukufumana lula. Indlela yokwenza inwele, indlela yokusebenzisa kakuhle iimfumba, indlela yokuziphatha kwiimpendulo, indlela yokulungisa ukuhamba, indlela yokufunda indlela yokuthetha kakuhle, indlela yokwenza ulwalamano oluhle, indlela yokuba ngumfazi wesibini kunye nolonwabo-le mibuzo neminye eminye iya kuncedwa ngabaqeqeshi beengqondo beengcali. Abasetyhini kuphela kufuneka bakhethe kwindawo ekuphuculeni kuyo.