Wonke umntu ufuna ukuba nomyalelo ocacileyo kunye nococeko endlwini, kwaye ubomi bubekwe kakuhle kwaye bukhululekile. Kodwa kutheni amanye amabhinqa anako ukugcina indlu kwindawo epheleleyo (okanye ubuncinane uzame ukuyifumana), kodwa abanye abakwazi? Ayikho impendulo engafanelekanga, kodwa singathetha ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kwiimpawu ezininzi ezi zinto zifakwe kumantombazana ukususela ebuntwaneni babo bokuqala. Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukubuyisela umyalelo ukususela kumncinci kwaye uthethwa kwiingcebiso zootitshala kunye neengqondo zeengqondo.
Njengoko unomama udla ngokuvuyisa emehlweni omntwana wakhe, xa kuzinzileyo kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ngokwabo uqobo uyalila i-carpet nge-vacuum cleaner okanye ubeka izicathulo zakhe ebhokisini yelinen. "Kuyafana," bacinga ngabazali, "yintoni umntwana okhulayo okhulayo!" Ngaphandle kwesikhumbuzo sethu, umyalelo uzisa ... "Ayazi ukuba intombi yabo okwangoku ingacinganga malunga ne-order order. Kungomntu onomdla: indlela yokucoceka ngayo "iidinki", ukugwinya inkunkuma kunye nendlela izicathulo "ezilala ngayo" ukuba ziphumle ngaphambi kokuya kwelinye uhambo ukuya enkulisa. Kuye, lo mdlalo - akukho nto. Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba ngokukhawuleza xa intombazana ibuhlungu ngayo yonke into, ayikwazi ukunyanzelwa ukuba ihlambulule izinto emva kwayo okanye ilandele ukucoceka kuye. Ngelo xesha uya kuba nolunye uphando, olunolwazi oluninzi, olude kakhulu, kude nomsebenzi wezoqoqosho kunye nomnqweno wokubuyisela umyalelo. Ngoko ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uqaphele umntwana wakho ukuthambekela kokubuyisela umyalelo okanye cha, le mfanelo kufuneka ikhuliswe kuyo. Kakade, eso siganeko asilula. Emva kwakho konke, kufuneka ufundise umntwana ngokunyamezela ukuba atshintshe kwisenzo esisodwa esisebenzayo, kwaye oku kudla ngokunikezelwa kubantwana basesikolweni ngaphambi kokubandezeleka okukhulu kwaye kubangele ukuxhathisa. Kodwa ukuba usebenzisa iingcebiso zethu, ngoko, mhlawumbi, kungekudala, qiniseka ukuba "inqubo ihambe."
UMAMA KWENQUNO YOMPHATHI
Zonke kwiindawo!
Umntwana uya kuba lula ukufunda indlela yokucoca iimidlalo kunye naye (kuyimfuneko ukuqala uqeqesho ukuze ulandele), ukuba uyayilungiselela kwangaphambili ngamacandelo kwaye uthathe elowo kwindawo yakho. Umzekelo, iibhokisi ezinokuthi "i-Lego" ziza kufakwa kwireferensi engezantsi yebhuksi, iipuzzle ziza kulala phakathi, kunye ne-zoo ephangaleleyo, thabatha ibhokisi. Into ephambili kukuba konke oku kufumaneka kumntwana. Endaweni nganye, gcoba umfanekiso, ubonise uhlobo lweetayiti efumaneka apho. Iyakunqunywa kwiimpawu zomnxeba wendlu ukusuka kwiikhabhi, isilwanyana okanye imifanekiso ye "animated" enezandla kunye neenyawo. Imifanekiso enjalo iya kunceda umfundi ofunda esikolweni ukuba aqhubele phambili ngokukhawuleza, zeziphi izinto ozozibeka. Kodwa kungabikho kweintsana ukucinga ukuba iindawo zokudlala kufuneka zixoke, ukuba le nto ibhekwa njengendlela, kwaye iyona nto ingathintelo ekufezeni le myalelo.
Izimpawu zoMkiso
Umntwana oneminyaka engama-school school ufanele axwayiswe kwangaphambili malunga nesidingo sokutshintsha umsebenzi. Ngamanye amazwi, mxelele malunga nemizuzu emihlanu ukuba lixesha lokumisa umdlalo kwaye uhlambulule. Kodwa nje le mizuzu emihlanu kuphela engayi kumntwana phezu komphefumlo, mnike ithuba lokuhamba ngokufudumele kwilizwe lefantasy libe yinyaniso ebomvu. Ngendlela, isilumkiso ngokwawo akufanele sibekwe ngendlela yolawulo lokuqala. Musa ukumtshela ngetoni yokulambisa kunye nesibonakaliso esinobuso ebusweni bakho: "Kwimizuzu emihlanu ..." Kungcono ukuza kunye nomqondiso othile onomqathango onokukunceda ukuba ukhange ingqalelo yenkomo ngendlela edlalwayo. Umzekelo, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukubeka izinto ngokulandelelana, soloko ukhanyisa isibane setafile okanye ubeke intsimbi. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kukhuthaza abantwana ukuba bathathe inyathelo elisebenzayo. Kuhle ukuba umntwana uphendule nawe ngolunye uhlobo lwesenzo esinqunyiwe ngaphambili, umzekelo, ngeminwe emihlanu ephakanyisiwe. Abazali abanesiphiwo esithile abanokufumana isingoma okanye ingoma enokuthi yenziwe nge-duet ngaphambi kokuqala kwemicimbi yezoqoqosho.
Umdlalo wokucoca
Xa inkwenkwe ikulungele ukubeka umyalelo ngokuzenzekelayo, ncokola naye kwifom edlalwayo. Masibeke iibheyi phantsi kwe-akhawunti yakho, ebizwa ngezwi elihle. Inqaku kunye nomyalelo wokuqalisa ukucoca unkosikazi omncinci unokuhanjiswa ngumdaka wakhe ozithandayo. Okanye zama ukumema umntwana ukuba aphendule i-bulldozer ukuhambisa iimpapu kwikona yezinto zokwakha. Yonke le nto iya kupholisa umsebenzi omncinci womntwana, kwaye ayiyi kulungiswa entloko yakhe njengento engenakukugwema.
KWIIMVAVANYO NEZINTLOKO
Ukuba ufuna ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ahambe, kufuneka uqale ngokuphuhliswa kokuziphatha okuqeqeshwe ekuqaleni nasekupheleni kosuku. Oko kukuthi, kufuneka uqondise iinzame zakho kuqala ukuba uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wenza izenzo ezithile emva kokuvuka nangaphambi kokulala.
Amasiko ancedo
Uza kunceda kakhulu umntwana wakho kule nto, ukuba ubeka eli xesha ixesha elithile elingenakunyakaziswa. Ngokomzekelo, vumelani ukuba ngamazwi: "Mhle, ilanga lam!" Intombi ivuka kwaye iqala ukugqoka. Unokuhamba kunye nokuxubha amazinyo akho kusihlwa nge quatrain evela kuMoidodyr. Akukubi ukufundisa umntwana ukuba alungiselele iimpahla zengomso ngaphambi kokulala kwaye azibeke endaweni ethile. Inyaniso kukuba iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zinika abafundi besikolo ukuba bazive bathuthuzelekile kwaye bekhuselekile, kwaye oku, kubavumela ukuba baziphathe ngokuzimela nangaphantsi kwesiqubulo esithi "Ndiyakwenza oko."
Inhlonipho
Ukuze unqobe ubunkani bomntwana wakho, ngakwesinye icala, kwaye ulahle iibhokhwe - kwenye, unikezele imisebenzi ethile kwaye ubize ngokubanzi kunokwenzeka. Makuvumeleke ukuba "umnini-mnyama" oneminyaka emithandathu abe noxanduva lokutshintsha zonke izixhobo zombane xa ushiya indlu ekuseni. "I-Meterworld" iya kuba nexanduva lokukhonza itafile ngesidlo sasekuseni, kunye "nomlawuli weembotyi" - ukulungiselela ubhedi kwindawo yokulala. Siyabulela oku, umntwana uya kuziva ukuba kufuneka kwaye ngexesha elifanayo uqale ukuphuhlisa izakhono zobomi obuninzi bomntu.
IMIQESHO NEENQUBO
Ukukhuliswa kwabafazi abanamakhaya kungenakucingeka ngaphandle kokufumana abantwana kunye nezakhono ezifana nokukhonza ngaphandle koluncedo lwabantu abadala.
Izambatho eziduduzayo
Zithengela kuphela ezo zixhobo kumntwana anokuzigqoka ngokukhawuleza ngokwakhe (iingubo kunye neengubo ezingekho kwiibhanti, kodwa kwiimigangatho e-elastic, i-sweaters ngaphandle kokuzimela, iibhatyi ezinamaqhosha amakhulu kunye ne-zippers, njl.). Qinisekisa ukuba ugcine yonke into, ngaphandle kokungafani, izinto zomntwana, azinxibe kulo xesha, kwiindawo ezifikelelekayo kuye. Ukuba uhlangabezana nengxaki ebizwa ngokuthi "kwaye andiyi kulugqoka, ndize ndife!", Mnike umntwana ilungelo lokukhetha kwizinto ezimbini okanye ezintathu. Mvumele nje asebenzise eli lungelo kungekhona umzuzu ngaphambi kokushiya ekhaya, xa imeko sele isondele, kodwa kusengaphambili.
Inyathelo ngesinyathelo
Ukuthintela "imfazwe yokugqoka", hlukanisa yonke inkqubo yokugqoka kwiinqanaba eziliqela. Okokuqala, xubusha nomntwana, ngoluphi umyalelo afuna ukugqoka (loo shati phambili okanye iisokisi, isitya okanye isikhala). Emva koko thabatha iphepha, unqume imifanekiso yeengubo ezivela kumaphephancwadi uze unamathisele (ngokuthatha inxaxheba komntwana) ngokulandelelana. Masibe neso sikhombisi ngaso sonke isikhathi sixhomeke phezu kwebhedi lomntwana, ukuze ahlale ekhona phambi kwamehlo akhe. Ekuqaleni, qiniseka ukuba umntwana ubona okuphambili okuvunyelweneyo, kwaye ngexesha elifanelekileyo uya kuyenza ngaphandle kokujonga kwakho.
AKUKHULU, NOKWENZA
Zama ukumisela ngokuphumelelayo impumelelo yomsebenzi osebenza kancinci: "Kungekudala, ndincede ukuba unqakraze le qhosha, kwaye ngoku ukhule kwaye sele uhlangabezana naloo nto!" Okanye "Iyure eledlule ehamba ngekridi ungadlula kuphela kwi-ATV, kwaye ngoku akukho nto ! "Le yimeko ebalulekileyo kwimfundo efanelekileyo ye-hostess house yomntu omdala. Kukho iindlela ezongezelelweyo zokukhuthaza, umzekelo, i-asterisks okanye imifanekiso. Kodwa kufuneka zigcinwe kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, ngaphandle koko umntwana uya kusetshenziselwa ukwenza kuphela umvuzo. Umzekelo, ukuba intombi ihlambulule ibhedi yakhe okokuqala ngqa ebomini bakhe, isiganeko esinjalo singabhalwa nge "ezinkulu ezintlanu" ezifakwe kwiphepha elibomvu. Unokuphinda kwakhona oku lishumi. Kodwa ngolweshumi elinanye, kufuneka ndithi: "Ngoku ukhulile, kwaye ulungele ukucoca umbhede wakho ongeke ufune ukuvavanya."
Musa ukulibala ukuba abantwana bokuqala esikolweni banomdla wokuba bezoshishino. Kwaye ukuba ungasebenzisi kakubi ukunyanzeliswa okucacileyo, awuyi kulwa nomnqweno womntwana wokubandakanya umsebenzi ochaphazelekayo kuluntu. Kwaye sele sele sele ujwayele umntwana ukuba abeke izinto ngokufanelekileyo, wena ngokwakho uza kufumana njengomvuzo oziqhenyayo ngempumelelo yakho yentsana. Yaye uya kuqonda imisebenzi yakhe engenakuphepheka njengeluncedo, kwaye ngoko ke kuyonwabile, umsebenzi.
Amacebo
1. Musa ukulungelelana nomntwana, kodwa uthetha naye ngezwi eliyimfihlo. Unobungozi bokunciphisa ukuthembeka kwakho, ukuba unganqikaza ukuthetha naye ngamazwi: "Mhlawumbi uya kuqokelela amathoyizi, eh?"
2. Kubantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emihlanu, nayiphi na imisebenzi kufuneka iphendulwe ibe ngumdlalo.
3. Akukho mzekelo ungayimisela imithetho eqinileyo engenakuphulwa phantsi kwesigwebo sohlwayo. Vumela ezintweni ezincinci uza kuba nokunye.
4. Hlukanisa nayiphi na inqanaba kumacandelo kwaye ulungiselele ingqalelo yomntwana ekusebenzeni ngamnye.
5. Musa ukuthetha amabinzana afanayo: "Intombazana entle." Yiba ngokuthe ngqo ekudumiseni.
Oko kufuneka ukuthetha
1. "Kungekudala siya kushiya indlu. Ndivele ndipakishe izinto zam. Ngaba ulungiselele isikhwama sakho? Wena ngokwakho kufuneka uthathe isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukuthatha ukuthatha i-nursergarten. "
2. "Masidlale ibhola. Makhuphe ii-socks kunye nee-T-shirts zibe ibhola, kunye nebhokisi yokuhlamba impahla.
3. "Yiyiphi incwadi esiya kufunda ngayo xa ulungele ukulala emaminithini?"
4. "Ekuseni! Ewe, khumbula isicwangciso sethu. Kulungile: susa umbhede, uhlambe amazinyo akho, ugqoke. Ndibuza ukuba ungayisingatha njani umsebenzi wokuqala? "
5. "Andizange ndikholelwe ukuba intombazana eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala isenokukhupha ii cubes ezininzi ukusuka phantsi ngokukhawuleza!"
Yintoni umphumo
1. Ukwazisa umntwana malunga nokulindela ngokucacileyo nangenhlonipho kwaye ngexesha elifanayo umnike ukuzimela.
2. Umsebenzi othabathayo uya kuba mnandi kwaye ixesha elizayo akuyi kubangela ukuba umntwana abe nombhikisho.
3. Oku kunika umntwana ukuziva ukuba uyayilawula imeko, oko kuthetha ukuba akayikunyanzelwa ukuba enze njalo.
4. Isingqino esicacileyo nokuphindaphinda kwezenzo kuqinisa ukuthobela nokuphuhlisa izakhono ezizimeleyo.
5. Ukuvavanya impumelelo yesikhashana, uyamnceda ukuba aqaphele ukubaluleka kwakhe kunye nokwazi ukukhula.