Ukulungiselela abantwana kwi-kindergarten ishishini elinoxanduva. Ngethuba lethu, akulula kakhulu ukuchonga umntwana kwi-kindergarten (ngenxa yokungabi nendawo yendawo, umgca unokudonsela iminyaka emininzi), kodwa nakweyifunayo. Kodwa oku akuyona yodwa ingxaki. Awukwazi ukuza uze ushiye umntwana kwiqela. Mhlawumbi, uxinzelelo olukhulu kunomntwana luya kuhlukana nomama (rhoqo kunye nexesha elide). Kwaye kungena kwiqela, eliya kufuneka lijoyine. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba emva komnyaka nesiqingatha, ukungabikho komama osondeleyo kungekhona kumntwana onzima njengaphambili. Okokuqala, ngenxa yokuphucula ngokwaneleyo. Ingane ayisayi kunceda, ingabonisa, ichaze kwaye yenza okunye. Ukongezelela, umntwana ukhula ngakumbi, kunokuba unxanelwe ukwazi ulwazi lwehlabathi elikujikelezile. Kwaye ngoko, kuthatha oko kwenzekayo, oku kuthetha ukuba ukungabikho komama kuya kudlulela ngaphantsi.
Kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuphaphazela abantu abangaziwayo kunye abangaqhelekanga kuya kubakho ubuncinane ukuya kwiminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwe-3. Qaphela ukuba lo mbandela uhambelana nakubantu abadala, vumela ukuba ukhulume ngabantwana.
Ukulungiselela abantwana kwi-kindergarten, abanye oomama basebenzela ukuncedwa kwengcali yengqondo. Bonisa umntwana kwiingcali. Ngokuncedwa kweemeko zemidlalo elula kunye neemvavanyo, uya kuxela kakhulu malunga nokuphuhliswa kwengqondo kwengane. Kodwa unako ukulawula ngokwakho.
Kukho nawuphi na, umntwana ufuna ukulungiswa kwengqondo yokungena "kuluntu". Umntwana kufuneka ashiywe ixesha elithile kunye nabantu abasondeleyo nabaziwayo: ugogo, abazalwana kunye nodade abadala, abahlobo abathembekileyo, mhlawumbi benomntwana omhle. Ngexa uhamba, zama ukutsala umntwana wakho ukudlala nabanye abantwana. Kufuneka asebenzise iindlela ezithile zokuziphatha eziya kufuneka kwi-kindergarten: ungakhethi amathoyizi, ungakhubekisi abantwana kwaye ungazikhubekisi. Qaphela umntwana wakho. Ngaba udibana nabanye abantwana? Okanye ingashiywa? Uloyiko ngabasemzini kwaye udibanise?
Hamba nomntwana ukutyelela, ngakumbi kwiintsapho apho kukho abantwana abancinci. Yiya nje ukutyelela, kwaye ungamemeli umama kunye nabantwana kuye. Ngenxa yokuba ekhaya, abantwana bayaziva. Into ebizwa ngokuba "ngokukhululeka", kunye nabaphathi beli meko. Le nto iya kuba yinto ebonakalayo kwimeko yeqela. Umntwana usabela njani? Akunamanyathelo okuvela kumama? Unqabe ukutya oko u-anti ongaziwa? Kuyafaneleka. Ukuba umntwana udla ngovuyo, ngokuqhelekileyo uyadlala nabanye abantwana, ngoko yonke into iyahlelwa.
Ukuba awuyikucwangcisa ukunika umntwana kumanesi, kwaye uya kufana ne-kindergarten ekudala, ngoko-ke olunye uhlobo lweqela lokuqala lophuhliso lungaba lulungiselelo oluhle. Kwimijikelezo kunye nabantwana ababenokudansa, ukudweba, ukuphuhlisa imidlalo. Zonke ezi zakhono onokuzifaka kumntwana nakwikhaya, kodwa kwiqela uya kuxoxisana nabanye abantwana kwaye asebenzise nabanye abantu abadala. Ngelo xesha, umntwana uya kuzinyameka, kuba sele kufuphi.
Khumbula ukuba wonke umntu omncinci uyedwa. Kwaye nokuba inkani yakho inqaba ukudlala nabanye, mhlawumbi yinto nje yengqondo yakhe. Ukuba umntwana uthanda ukudlala yedwa, musa ukunyanzelisa. Ukuba kuye - oku kusemgangathweni, akukho nto enokuyenza. Kungenzeka ukuba indawo yomntu ongaphandle yindoda efanelekileyo kakhulu kwaye kungekudala yena uza kufikelela kwabanye abantwana.
Into ephambili ayiyiyo kuphela ukulungiswa kwengqondo kwabantwana, kodwa kwakhona ukufundisa izakhono eziyimfuneko. Ngaloo ndlela: ukukwazi ukugqoka, ukuzibhincisa (ngoncedo oluncinci kubantu abadala), njalo njalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu unokugcina umfanekiso olandelayo. Umama uza kusihlwa ukuze athathe umntwana ekhaya, kodwa iibhotsana zentsana azikho emlenzeni wesokudla (kunene ngakwesobunxele, ngasekhohlo ngakwesokudla), ibhatyi ayinakunqanyulwa, i-panties ayigqoke ngasemva, inqabunga ihlanganiswe ngasemva entanyeni, kunye neendlela ezisezantsi emzimbeni. Kwaye inqamlezo iyimibhobho ... ayiyiyo yakhe. Fundisa umntwana ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ugqoke ngokukhawuleza ngokwaneleyo. Ngokwenza njalo, zama ukuthabatha iingubo ezintle (ubuncinci beeqhosha ezincinci, i-pantyhose encinci, imilenze yamacandelo, njl.).
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aye kwindlu yangasese ngokufanelekileyo (ibhodlo okanye indlu yangasese kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yobudala), gcina imithetho yokucoceka kobuqu. Geza izandla phambi kokutya, emva kokutyelela indlu yokuphumula, hlamba emva kokulala, zitshintshe ithawula, udle ngokufanelekileyo njengoko kunokwenzeka.
Kubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa kunzima kakhulu, ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba akufuneki ukuxelisa abanye abantwana kuzo zonke izinto. Ngaphandle koko, uya kugcina rhoqo, umzekelo, indawo yokukhwabanisa kwama-icicles ukuthatha umntwana ekhaya ekhaya ngokuhlwa.
Zama ukuchazela imigaqo yokuqala yokuziphatha kumntwana. Awukwazi ukuba nolwazi xa ungathandi into ethile (ukutya, ukudlala, njl). Awukwazi ukukhetha amathoyizi, uphukise abanye abantwana kunye nezinto.
Zama ukwenza lula kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana ahlale e-kindergarten, ngakumbi ukuba akafuni ukuhlala apho. Mbukele uze ufumene bonke ubuthathaka. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana unzima ekuboneni ukuhlukana kumama nakwikhaya, cinga ngemeko ethile yomdlalo, umzekelo, ukuba inkwenkwana yinto yokuvavanya, njengokwiqhawe lomfanekiso wakhe ozithandayo. Kwaye ekupheleni, njengomvuzo, uMama uza kuza. Okanye ushiye umntwana ngento ethile, umzekelo, kwintombazana enezintlu ezincinci okanye isikhala. Ukuba umntwana unxibe kakhulu kwaye unxibe ngokukhawuleza, yenza ipowusta encinci apho ungayifaka (okanye unamathele, unqumle kumaphephancwadi) iimpahla ngendlela efunekayo ukuba zigugile. Yibambelele eludongeni kwigumbi lokushicilela okanye kwibhentsana lomntwana. Udibanisa izicathulo ezisekunene nasekhohlo? Cofa kwiifoto kwenye kunye (cacisa ukuba kufuneka babe ngaphandle kweenyawo). Qaphela, cingela uze uzame ukunceda.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, utitshala ofanelekileyo weqela uya kubakhokela ngokukhawuleza abantwana, kwaye abanike ingqwalaselo ephezulu. Kodwa musa ukuthembela kuyo, nantoni na eyenzekayo, kwaye umntwana uya kufumana imeko ehlazo okanye engathandekiyo. Emva koko, ukubeka iliso bonke abantwana ngexesha elifanayo, nokuba ngumfundisi onamava kunye nomongikazi akakwazi ukuyenza. Ngoko ke, inkqubo yokulungiselela abantwana kwi-nursergart ibaluleke kakhulu.