Imfihlo kwihlabathi lonke
Uhlobo olungakumbi olungenasiphelo kolwazi olunikezwa "abanqwenela kakuhle" ngamahemuhemu. Ngamanye amaxesha ulwazi malunga nawe lunokudlala kumxhamla, osebenza nabo abanomdla, ukubonisa ingqalelo kumntu wakho nokuphucula umfanekiso. Kodwa, ngelishwa, baninzi baqhelana kakuhle, bangela ukuxhalaba okanye ukuphazamiseka. Iimvumi zibonakaliswa ngokungacacanga nokungaqiniseki. Ukusasazeka, abantu basebenzisa amagama: "kubonakala ngathi", "mhlawumbi", "Andiqinisekanga, kodwa." Nangona kunjalo, akabonakalisi nasiphi isimo sengqondo sengqondo esichasayo "kwixhoba" lamarhweba, kodwa ukwabelana nje ngezinto aziva kwabanye. Umhlaba kukuba ukungabikho kolwazi. Nangona ungaqhelekanga ukungazifihlisi kunye nabantu abangaziwayo kwaye ukhetha ukusebenza emsebenzini, kunokuba ujongane neenkcukacha zobomi bakho, kufuneka uhlale unelisekile inqwenela abanye. Batshele ngawe ulwazi olusisiseko malunga nolwasekhaya: malunga neemeko zentsapho, ubukho babantwana, izinto ezithandayo, njl njl. Xelela oogxa bakho ngeentlobo ezincinane ebomini bakho, kwaye ke unako ukuthula ngento ethile. Akukho mntu ucinga nangendlela encinci eyaziwa ngayo ngobomi bakho.
Amacala amabini enye yemali enye
Ngokungafani namahlebezi, ukuhleba ngumbala oqaqambileyo wombala: ukugcoba, ukugweba, ukuthukuthela. Akukho nkxwabo evela ekuqaleni, ihlala isineenkcukacha zangempela. Kodwa, njengoko kwaziwa, ukudluliselwa kwegama emlonyeni kuya emlonyeni kwanoma yimuphi umkhiqizo wemizi kunempembelelo yefowuni eyonakalisiweyo. Ukuba ngaba uhlala uhlebe, ngaba sisihlandlo sokucinga ngokuziphatha kwakho kwiqela. Abanye abantu basecaleni lokusasaba malunga nabo. Ngokomzekelo, ukunyaniseka okugqithiseleyo, umnqweno wokuziqhayisa ngeempumelelo okanye ukukhalaza malunga nokugqitywa kukunyanzeliswa ukuba uvulele abantu abangabazi. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo awuyi kuzuza kulo "uvumo" olunjalo, kunoko-ngokuchaseneyo, ukuvuleka kunye nokuthembela kwakho kuya kuba sisiseko seendlebe.
Konke malunga nokuphendula kwakho
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuphendula ukuhleba. Omnye wabo kukuthula. Ukulula kwayo kukuba akudingeki senze nantoni na. Ngexesha elifanayo, le yindlela enamandla kakhulu yokuchitha iiseli zesisindo. Ubuso bakho makungenakwenzeka, ukuze kungabikho nenye imisipha yakhe ebonisa ukuba ukhona ukuhleka. Abantu banqwenela izibhengezo, kwaye ukuba ubaxelela ukuba "akuyi kubakho inzala," baya kuphelelwa ngumdla kwiindlebe. Ngaloo ndlela, kungcono ukusabela kwisingxobo esingenakukulimaza, ngaphandle kwemoya engcolileyo. Ukuba awukwazi ukuhlala uxolo xa abanye abazungeze bakho bathambekele kwigama lakho lokugqibela, kwaye awunayo ingxaki ngeentlungu zokuhlekisa. Ngokomzekelo, thola isangqa soogxa bebathetha malunga naluphi uhlobo lwe-bullshit lithetha ngawe ngabantu abathile, kwaye nikela ukuhleka ndawonye ngalo. Ukuba kwakunokwenzeka ukubala ukuba ngubani odibanisa inkohliso, sebenzisa ukunyelisa kwakhe ngeenjongo zabo. Emva koko, kukho iimeko xa kubalulekile ukuba uqalise "idada" ngolwazi oluphambene nenkohliso, njengoko amahlebezi aya kulahlekelwa yonke intsingiselo aze ayeke ukubeka ingozi kuwe.