Indlela yokucima indlela yokuzibulala

Zingaphi izihlandlo ebomini bethu siye safuneka sithintele iimvakalelo zethu? Njengokuba into ebenza ukuba bangabonakali, baxelele ngabo. Intukuthelo, intukuthelo, uthando ... zingaphi ixesha elifihliweyo emva kokuthula.

Kodwa ukugcina iimvakalelo zakho entolongweni yimpazamo eqhubekayo. Umoya udinga indlela yokuphuma, ngaphandle koko ilitye lelitye, elibandakanya ukukrakra nokuxhalaba, lunye luya kutshabalalisa udonga owakhileyo, kwaye oku kunokubangela buhlungu abantu bakho abathandekayo, kunye nabo ezintliziyweni zenu bephupha ukuba noxhumano, ukuqonda. Ukuze wenze oku, kufuneka ukhulume rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka nabo, ubatshele oko kukukhathazayo okanye oko kukucaphukisayo, emva kokuba iingxoxo ezinjalo zihlala zivakalelwa ngaloo nto ukuba ilitye lawa emphefumlweni.
Ungalokothi ukhathazeke kukuba ungekho nto. Lo ngumqondiso wobungqina. Kwaye kufuneka ube ngumntu ovulekileyo, kuba le yindlela yokufumana uvuyo nolwazi.

Ukubonakalisa isimo sakho sangaphakathi esithombeni kuyindlela enhle yokujamelana nokuxinzezeleka kwangaphakathi. Dweba konke okukukhathazayo, into oyithiyileyo, ukuyichaza phantsi komfanekiso. Musa nje ukudweba abo okhusele okwesikhashana, kuya kudlulayo kamva, kunokwenzeka. Eyona nto ibonakalisa inzondo kwimpikiswano ngokwabo, ukungaqondani phakathi kwakho ngendlela yefu elimnyama, umzekelo, okanye ngesimo santoni yakho esitshoyo. Kwaye emva koko, ushise, uhlambe ngamanzi abandayo. Uya kubona, kuya kuba lula kuwe. Emva kokuba uzive ungcono, yenza umfanekiso ochaseneyo. Umfanekiso wobomi bakho obungenasiphelo esizayo, yintoni ophuphayo kwaye ufake kwindawo ethile eyimfihlo, de kube konke oku kuzalisekile.

Iimpawu ezithi zibonakale zingaqhelekanga ekuqaleni, ngezinye izihlandlo zinika impembelelo enkulu. Ukuba uvakalelwa kakubi, yenza into ngaphandle kwesiqhelo. Ngokomzekelo, uye ehlathini ngokuhlala ubusuku, uthathe intente nawe. Fumana ngokuvumelana nawe ngokwakho kuqala, cingisisa, wenze ukuzivocavoca, usethe njongo yakho ukufezekisa into ethile ekhoyo apha kwaye ngoku. Khawucinge ukuba uza kubuya njani ekhaya kunye nomzimba omhle kwaye uhlaziywe. Okanye ubhalisele ukunyuka kwemihla emithathu. Emva kwezenzo ezinjalo uya kuziva ukhululo oluhle, kwaye ubomi buya kudlala kwakhona ngemibala eqaqambileyo.

Ukuba awuyeki ukugcina yonke into kuwe, iyakwazi ukuya kude kangangokuthi imeko yakho yengqondo ibuhlungu kwaye udinga uncedo lwabaqeqeshi. Musa ukukhokelela kule nto. Kulungile uphile ubomi obugcwele kunye obuxakekile ngoku. Zivakalise ngokubanzi njengoko unako. Ngezemidlalo, ngokusebenzisa ubugcisa, ngcokola ngentsingiselo, qaphela into oyithandayo, fumana ukubizwa. Ukuba kunzima ukuba uvule ngaphakathi nangaphakathi, ngokungathi kukho umqobo ongabonakaliyo, ubhalise izifundo kwizifundo zobumbele, njengebhonasi uya kufumana i-charisma enhle. Kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, yabelana ngeemvakalelo zakho ekuqaleni, qalisa idayari, jonga ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwaye ubhale yonke into ovakalelwa ngayo. Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi ngelinye ilanga ufuna ukulifunda komnye umntu. Emva kwakho konke, zonke iingcamango zakho sele zenziwe ngokucacileyo kwaye akukho mngcipheko wokuthetha into engalunganga, ukudala imbono ephosakeleyo yento ozama ukuyithetha. Ngoku yonke into ilapha, kule diary. Cinga, awunandaba nabathandekayo bakho. Ngaba, beyazi ukuba ububi kangakanani, bekungayi kuvuleka kuwe? Ngaba abazange benze konke amandla abo ukukunceda? Mhlawumbi abayazi nje ngaphakathi nangento ephosakeleyo kwaye bona ngokwabo bahluphekile, bakhathazeke ngawe okanye bazama ukugqithisa ifu lokungaboni kakuhle okuphakanyisiwe phakathi kwakho. Qalisa.

Ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo zakho kubalulekile nje ngomphefumlo womntu. Akudingeki ukuba uqokelele ingqumbo ngaphakathi kwintlungwini, kungekudala okanye emva koko uza kukutshabalalisa ngaphakathi ngaphakathi okanye iya kuthulula i-avalanche eyingozi.