Ngoko intombi yam yenza iiphoso ezininzi, apho wayezigula khona. Wayehlala engathandabuzeki ngokunyaniseka nangokunyaniseka, nangona kwakungenangqiqo. Wayemthanda kakhulu. Kwakubonakala ngathi uya kufela yena. Ngoko makhe sibone indlela yokuziphatha ukutshata.
Okokuqala, konke kulungile ngokumodareyitha. Musa ukuchitha isiqingatha semini usebenzisa i-makeup okanye ukhetha ingubo. Ubuhle bakho bube yendalo, kuba kusasa kusasa ufuna ukuvuka kunye nawe, kungekhona ngesidonsa esicwecwe. Amadoda awaze athathe i-photomodels, nokuba ngaba bayayithanda. Zama ukuziphatha ngokusemthethweni ukutshata.
Okwesibini, ngeentlanganiso azibuze ngaye malunga neenkcukacha zobomi bakhe, ayizalanga kule mibuzo! Musa ukucela ezininzi, kwaye uzame ukuphepha iimpendulo ngqo kwiimbuzo yakhe. Gcina imfihlelo. Emva koko loo mntu akayi kukwazi ukumelana kwaye uya kuhlala efuna ukukucombulula.
Okwesithathu, yiba nesineke. Ewe, ngumonde wesixeko esithathayo, kwaye uya kunceda ukumsindisa loo ndoda. Ukuba akayibizi, musa ukusungula into engekho okanye ukuqagela. Ungesabi ukumbiza, kungekhona ukuba uziqhube udidekile. Kodwa ke, ungambonisi ukuba awunamdla okanye uthanda naye, ukuze utshatile uzama ukuziphatha ngokuthobeka. Ewe, uyayithanda, kodwa awuwumisi! Kubalulekile ukhetha igolide yeentsingiselo.
Okwesine, musa ukumxelela ngezigulane okanye iingxaki zakho, ukuba ufuna, uya kuqonda apho kufuneka akuncedise khona, kwaye apho ufuna ukuwavelisa. Makhe azikhathalele aze abonise ukuba uyayidinga. Kodwa ngelo xesha ufikeleleke ngaphandle kokufikelela. Kwaye nakhu!
Ukuqeshwa kuyinqweneleka ukhetho lweendawo ezipholileyo kunye ezintle. Kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ungayi kuba yintlanganiso. Ngengqiqo. Ekubeni le ndoda isele ikhona kwaye ikulindele. Ukutshata, kufuneka uziphatha ngokukhawuleza njengoko kunokwenzeka.
Ukuhlala etafileni, phumula, uziphathe ngokukhululekile. Yaye khumbula, utyebise kaninzi, kodwa ukwenze ngokunyanisekileyo, ngaphandle kokuxubusha imisipha yobuso bakho.
Yonwabe kwaye ungacingi ngemiphumo. Ngomhla wokuqala, thobekile, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo unxibelelana. Yiba mnandi ngokumnandi, ehlekisayo, enobugcisa kunye nohlakaniphile. Mbonise ukuba uyazi ukubona izinto ezintle ebomini, kwaye ungabi nethemba.
Nika ithuba lokuba umntu abe nomuvo wokuthi uyamxabisa noko akwenzela yona, kufuneka aziphathe njengeqhawe.
Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule amagama amathathu ekunxibelelana nomntu okhethiweyo: uvelwano, ingqwalasela nokuqwalasela. Amadoda asoloko efuna ukuvunyelwa ngumfazi. Bonisa umdla kuyo yonke into ayithethayo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ephinda "Ndiyakuqonda," "inomdla."
Uziva ubuthathaka kumntu wakho. Makhe acinge ukuba unamava kwaye oko kukukwenza ube ngumfazi wamaphupha akho!
Ngethuba lokuqala, ukhankanywa yimbonakalo yakho. Ngokomzekelo, indoda yam yathi wayithandana kunye nokummotheka kwam. Ngosuku lokuqala wayexakeke kuloo ndawo. Ndandingakwazi ukuthetha igama lam kunye nokumncumo ngokunyanisekileyo. Emva koko, sathetha ixesha elide kwi-ICQ kwaye savuma ukudibana. Ngethuba le ntla nganiso, ndandiphulaphulaphula, wayethetha ngaye, ngamanye amaxesha ndibuza imibuzo. Andizange ndiphendule abanye babo ... Le ntlanganiso isasesikhumbuzweni sakhe kwaye siyakhumbula kaninzi. Oku kugqitywe ngenombolo ende, eye yahlala iinyanga ezili-7. Sivame ukuthetha ngendlela esimele ngayo ubomi bethu obuqhelekileyo kwaye sabelane ngeenqobo kunye neenjongo ezifanayo. Ufuna ukutshata nomntwana, kwaye ndifuna inkwenkwe nentombazana ... Nangona singahlali ndawonye, undijonga njengomfazi kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, unjalo. Kubonakala kum ukuba akukho nto enye yokuphupha ngayo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ezi ziyiziqhelo jikelele. Ebomini, konke kunzima kakhulu, kodwa zama ukuzigcina kwaye uza kubona umphumo.