Okokuqala, ngokuchasene neenkolelo eziqhelekileyo ukuba ibhinqa kufuneka lifike emva kwexesha elingaphaya kwemizuzu engama-15, akufanele ukukhawuleza konke - oku kungacacile, ngoko ubonisa ukuba awuyihloneli lakho okanye ixesha lomnye umntu.
Ungagqoki ngokungafihlisiyo, ungadluli - ubulili bakho bufanele kugcinwe. Amadoda, ewe, unjenge-neckline encinci kunye ne-mfutshane emfutshane, kodwa ungabi uhamba-ze. Kumele ugqoke ngesitayela. Iinkcukacha ezithandekayo zengubo yakho akufanele zikhwaza, kodwa nje ukukhohlisa (umzekelo, i-blouse eneqhosha elingenanto elingenanto). Ngexesha elifanayo, thintela iimpahla ezinxibekileyo, izambatho zendlela yokuguqa, kwaye ungahambi kakhulu kunye nezixhobo. Zama ukuyeka ukhetho lwakho kwiingubo ezineemigca ehambayo, ukuchithwa kwesifazana, ukusuka kwintsimbi epholileyo, ehambayo okanye epholileyo. Izambatho zifanele zibe zihle kwaye zikhululekile, zama ukubeka izinto ezintsha, njengoko ziyakwazi ukuhluleka - izicathulo ziyakubhuqa, izambatho - ukukhusela ukunyakaza nokunye njalo.
Ubonakala bakho bufanele, buyenze-buyomodareyitha, kunye neenwele kunye neenwele - kwiimeko ezintle. Kodwa ugweme izipikili ezide kakhulu, abafani namadoda. Sebenzisa umgubo onobuqhetseba obumnandi. Kodwa iphunga lingafanele libe li-unobtrusive.
Kulula ukuthetha, kodwa ngelo xesha uziphatha ngokuthobeka. Smile, uhleka, kodwa ungadluli - ungahleki yonke into ayithethileyo. Zama ukonwabela uxhulumaniso, phumula, kuba ngumhla nje, esinye seziqephu zobomi bakho. Indoda ingumhlobo ombi.
Yiba nobumnandi, uhlekisayo, uqikelele, unobulumko. Ungabi nongcamango, khalaza ngento enye okanye enye-indawo yokutyela, i-waiters, intombi, ubomi kunye njalo. Amadoda ahlaselayo. Yonwabile, uvuyo, unxibelelwano kufuneka luqhube kwiiqhosha ezinkulu.
Yidla ngokumodareyitha. Awudingi ukutywala ukutya, udelele kakhulu, kodwa ngokuhlwa ukuhlafuna isaladi eluhlaza, ukuhlamba ngamanzi, kuyona ingcinga embi. Kwaye ngoko-ke-ukugqithisa. Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala kakubi nakweli - phantsi kwezenzo zabo unokwenza okanye uthethe into ozozisola ngayo kamva.
Yenza kumntu oncomekayo oncomekayo - udumise indawo yokutyela, eyayiyikhethayo, ingubo yakhe kwiingubo kunye nokunye. Kodwa ungabonakali umdla kumntu wakhe kangangokuthi engacingi ukuba sele esele anqobile. Okunye okugqithiseleyo kukubonisa ukungakhathaleli. Oku kubi. Ukunamathela kwixabiso legolide.
Ukunxibelelana, thintela iinkcukacha ezingadingekile zedluli lakho elidlulileyo, umzekelo, zeziphi izifo onalo, kunye naluphi uhlobo lwabafana odibene nabo kunye nezinto. Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane obu bungaphezulu. Ungazami ukuxelela ngokukhawuleza malunga nawe wonke umdlalo, hlala kuye ngandlela-thile imfihlelo, efuna ukuyivula. Musa ukumxelela iinkcukacha zobomi bakhe bobuqu. Yeka ixesha eliya kuba yimfihlo, ingaba liphikisana okanye cha. Musa ukuzola onke amaxesha, kodwa ungahlali - unxibelelwano kufuneka ulinganiswe. Kwaye izihloko zeengxoxo mazibe mnandi kubo bobabini.
Ungabi nolwazi kwaye ungazami ukufumana konke ngaye ngomhla wokuqala. Ngubani oya kuthanda oku? Musa ukubuza malunga nobutyebi bakhe, iingxaki zeentsapho nezinye izinto ezizodwa ezingathethiweyo ngomhla wokuqala. Konke ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Xa ucela malunga nento ethile, yiba lukhuni, ucinge ngaphambi kokuba ucele.Bonisa ukuba uyazithemba kwaye unelisekile. Gwema ukugcoba, ukugxeka - ungamxeleli ukuba kufuneka ulahlekelwe iipounds eziliqela, njl .. mhlawumbi uyazibona. Ukongeza, amadoda ayithandi abafazi abangazithandayo, abanelisekanga ngokwabo.
Ukuba kunyanzelekile, ukwazi ukusibelelana, ukunyamekela oko umntu akutshoyo, bonise umdla kuye, bonisa ukuba ufuna ukuthetha naye. Ukuba uthetha ungaphazanyanga, akuyinto enhle nangayiphi indlela. Nangona uqiniseke ukuba uphosakele kwimiba ethile, ke konke okungafaniyo. Ingxabano ayilona nto ilungileyo ngomhla wokuqala. Musa ukujonga rhoqo, kodwa akufanele ukhangele yonke ixesha okanye. Unokucinga ukuba into ephosakeleyo kuye, okanye ukuba awuyikunyamekela.
Umdlalo wobuhle kakhulu. Kodwa ungabi ngowomhla wokuqala ukuhlekisa ngaye, ngakumbi ukuba uhlazo lubuhlungu. Lo ngumqondiso wemikhwa emibi. Musa ukuzithoba nabanye abesilisa, ngaphandle koko unobungozi bokujonga umoya. Zama ukuyiphatha ngephutha. Umzekelo, thintela unyawo lwakho "ngengozi" ngeenyawo zakhe phantsi kwetafile, udanisa naye, ungesabi ukuphatha isandla sakhe njalo njalo. Makhe ahlawule.
Zama ukugqiba intlanganiso kuqala kwaye ungasemva. Emva kokuba le ndoda ikuyise ekhaya, umbulele ngokufudumeleyo, kodwa ungamvumeli ukuba ulungele ukuyeka yonke into kwaye udibane naye ekufowuneni kwakhe kokuqala. Kufuneka abone ukuba uyamthanda, kodwa akayena "intambo yomhlaba", ukuba uneminye imisebenzi, abahlobo, njl.
Emva komhla, musa ukuya endlwini yakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukuya kuwe ukuba ulala ngesondo emva komhla wokuqala, kuxhomekeke kwiimeko. Kodwa akufanele uze wenze inkcazo yentombazana yokuzonwabisa ngobusuku obunye. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umfazi, ukulala ngesondo, ulandela iinjongo ezithile - ufuna ukucinga, enethemba lokuphuhlisa ubudlelwane. Kodwa apha yonke into iyakwenzeka ngokungafaniyo, konke kuxhomekeka kubantu nakwiimeko. Kungcono ukuba ungalalani ngesondo ngosuku lokuqala, kuba ngokwemibare, ulwalamano oluqala ngokulala ngesondo, kaninzi aluba lukhulu. Faka ubudlelwane bezesondo ngosuku lokuqala, kuphela ukuba ufuna ngokwenene. Kwaye kwimeko enjalo, musa ukukhawuleza ungene ngaphakathi echibini kunye nentloko yakho yothando, udlala, uvane nomntu, umcekise, ulibazise umzuzu, udibanise. Indoda kufuneka iqonde ukuba akusiyo yonke into elula kakhulu ukuba kufuneka uyinqobe. Kodwa nangona emva kwesondo, zama ukulahlekelwa yintloko yakho.
Ungaqali ukumbiza kwaye ungabhoyi iintloko emva komhla. Ukuba akukho nto iyenzeka kamva, ke ungenzi inkinga yehlabathi kulokhu. Ungafani nabanye abantu. Yinto engavamile, ukudlala, ukulungisa Yahluke, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo-ngokwakho. Zama ukwenza imbonakalo emihle. Apha ayenjalo, amaqhinga amabhinqa, umhla wokuqala - ixesha elifanelekileyo kakhulu lokuwasebenzisa! Jabule!