Thina, bafazi, sisoloko sigxininisa ingqalelo kwinto esiphiwe ngayo ubomi, kodwa ngesizathu esithile kwizinto esingenayo kwaye endaweni yokufunda ukubonga ubomi bethu konke esinakho, kwaye yile ndlela kuphela, ekhokelela ekuvuyiseni. Kufanelekile ukulahlekelwa yinto esiyithathayo (uthando, abathandayo, impilo, abahlobo) kwaye ngokukhawuleza siqala ukuyiqonda njengolonwabo olukhulu. Nangona kunjalo, nangona konke oku sinako - kunzima ukuxhathisa ukuba singaqali ukukhutshiswa kuyo yonke inkcazelo encinane kwiintsapho zabo, ukugxeka wonke umntu kwiingxaki zethu. Yaye le nkxalabo kwiintsilelo zeentsapho iya kuba ngumkhwa.
Indlela yokufunda ukutshata nomyeni wakho
Iintlobo zezikhalazo zowesifazane rhoqo, kunye nentukuthelo kwiimeko ezininzi ngamadoda. Kodwa kutheni abesifazane befuna ukukhalaza ngabayeni babo kunokuba, ngokuchaseneyo, bahlale bethula ngokungaphumeleli kwabo, kwaye bagxininise isidima sabo kuphela? Isizathu sihlala ngokucacileyo kwiintsapho zabazali, ekubeni ukususela ebuntwaneni ubona isimo sengqondo esifanayo sibonwa ngumama ku-ubaba, umzekelo, "Udidekile ebomini bam! ", njl njl. Ukuziphatha komfazi omdala kunokusasaza kwintsapho yakhe. Yaye lonwaba ngumkhwa xa umntu efumana kuphela izinto ezilungileyo ezizungezile aze azilonwabe. Ngaloo ngqiqo, wonke umntu unokufumana uvuyo.
Ulonwabo lwabasetyhini luxhomekeke kwindlela intombi ekwazi ngayo ukuqonda amandla akhe (kwanona nkcukacha encinci), kwaye ufunde nendlela yokuyihlola ngayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba umyeni wakho utshintshe, uphuze okanye uhlasele, ngoko ibinzana elithi "ulonwabo lwabasetyhini" lilahlekelwa intsingiselo yalo kwasekuqaleni. ngenxa yokunqongophala kokuqala kwezakhono ezingezizo nolwazi - ngokuqinisekileyo i-nigden ifundiswa indlela yokwakha intsapho eqinile.
Okwangoku, le yenzululwazi yonke, leyo idinga ingqiqo enkulu yomonde-okokuqala, njengomthetho, ukusuka kumfazi. Umzekelo, wanika umyeni wakho uluhlu lwemveliso, kwaye wabuya esitolo ngesonka esisodwa kunye namazwi athi "kukho ukutya owacelayo." Unokuzigxeka ngokukhawuleza iinjongo kunye nomlotha wakhe, kodwa unokwenza kwaye "unyuke ihashe." Umzekelo, ukubonakalisa uvuyo ebusweni bakhe kuba indoda yaya evenkile ize ibonise ithemba lokuba uya kuqhubeka evuya. Unoktrusively ufumanisa ukuba kutheni le venkile ayinayo imveliso eyimfuneko (mhlawumbi yaphelelwa yisikhathi), oku kungenziwa kulo mzekelo - okuza kugcinwa (okanye iimarike) kufuphi nalapho izinto zingabizi, njl. Wena, usebenzisa ixesha elifanelekileyo xa umyeni uya kuhamba ngexesha elizayo lokuthenga-zithatha ixesha (uthathe ibhola lokuphumla okanye wenze umququzelelo womzimba), ngoko indoda yakho iya kukulungele ukuzalisekisa izicelo zakho, kuba ekhaya umfazi omhle nonothando. Kwaye awukwazi ukukhuphela ngaphandle kokuba emva koko kuvela ukuba indoda yakho yindoda yokuzalwa yendalo, inokukwazi ukuyigcina, kwaye mhlawumbi ibalasekile ukupheka!
Mhlawumbi indoda yakho ayiyazi indlela yokulungisa ikhabethe elidala, kodwa iya kuzama ukufumana imali yokuthenga i-wardrobe entsha. Uya kuzama ukwenza oku kuwe! Mhlawumbi, ngaphandle komdla, izipikili, kodwa uhlonipha umlingani wakhe emsebenzini, kuba ungumququzeleli omhle kunye nendoda ehloniphekileyo. Khumbula, eneneni, yile nto kwaye wathandana nayo kanye kanye: ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka, ububele, ukunakekelwa, njl njl. Kodwa emva kwakho konke, ubomi bethu buqulethe izinto ezincinci, ngoko kubalulekile ukufunda ukujonga nje izinto ezintle. Kufuneka nje ufunde ukujonga umntu obathandayo ngamehlo amatsha - njengangaphambili, xa udibene kunye: ngokumangaliswa, ngokumnandipha, ngokuzonwabisa - ngoko yonke into entsha kwaye inomdla kuwe. Emva kwayo yonke into, xa umntu ethanda, uyakhuthaza kakhulu umsebenzi ovelisayo!
Abaninzi abafazi bazama ukufumana umyeni wakhe kuphela iintsilelo, umzekelo, isisu esikhulu, i-freckles, ingxoxo engcolileyo, njl., Kodwa zama ukuthanda ezi mpazamo, kuba uninzi lwazo, zibe nobumnene. Kule meko, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumnceda umyeni wakho.