Ukuba okokuqala ngentsuku zobomi umntwana wakho wayenentloko enkulu, umzimba omncinane kunye neenyawo ezinde, ngoko ngonyaka wonk
- ukujikeleza kwentloko kuye kwaba mncinci kunomlinganiselo webele (kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kucingelwa ukuba lo mmahluko kufuneka ube malunga nokulingana neminyaka yomntwana). Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana uneminyaka engama-1 ubudala, ke umgca wesifuba ngowama-1 cm kufuneka ube mkhulu kune-circumference yentloko, ukuba i-2 kuya kwi-2 cm, njalo njalo;
- Ubume bentloko buya kutshintsha kwaye inxalenye ebusweni isele ibangele ngaphezu kwengqondo;
- izitho ziba zikhulu ngakumbi kwi-trunk.
Ukongezelela, ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi amazinyo okuqala anqunyulwa ngumntwana, kwaye ngonyaka unyaka ufikelele kwi-12 (ngokuqhelekileyo i-8 incisors kunye ne-4 molar). Ukongezelela ubisi lwebele, unyaka umntwana sele uzame kakhulu - iifuno, iziqhamo, i-porridges kunye nenyama. Ukutya kwakhe kuhamba ngokugqithiseleyo, kwaye sele sele eyakhele inkcazo kunye nokukhetha kwakhe. Abazali abaninzi bagcina iidayari zonyaka wokuqala wobomi babantwana babo, apho babhala khona ukunyuka kwenyanga ngokunyuka, ekukhuleni, kwaye ngokubanzi yonke into ebonakalayo kumntwana (oku kuphendulwa kokusungulwa kokutya okudibeneyo, kunye nexesha lokutshintsha, kunye nezandi zokuqala kunye namazwi athetha imivumba , njl).
Ngoko ke kufuneka umntwana akwazi ukwenza ntoni ngonyaka? Kodwa ngokukhawuleza ndifuna ukwenza ukugcinwa kwezi zalathisi eziqhelekileyo zabantwana bexesha elizeleyo kunye nazo zonke iintsana zikhula kuphela ngewashi yezinto eziphilayo kwaye ziyakwazi ukubambisana nabanye abantwana ngokoqobo ngenyanga.
1. Vuka ngaphandle koncedo kwimilenze. Uninzi lwabantwana abaneminyaka eyi-8 ukuya kweye-9 luyakwazi ukuma ngokwabo kwi-footestal kwaye sele bezama ukuhamba eludongeni, kunyaka, njengomthetho, iintsana zizinzileyo zivukile kwaye zingenaso inkxaso, zisuka phezulu, zixhomeke kuyo.
2. Ukuhamba ngokuzimeleyo. Ekupheleni kowokuqala, ukuqala konyaka wesibini, umntwana ufunda ukuhamba ngokuzimeleyo, abantwana abaninzi, behamba ngokuhamba kakuhle, basenokukhetha ukunqumla. Izindlela zokukhawulela nazo ziphucula, akuyona nje indlela yokuhamba, kodwa ukuqonda izakhono ezithile, zibandakanya ukujika kwekhanda nentloko, kunye ne-trunk, kunye namahlombe. Ukukhwabanisa kubaluleke kakhulu ekuphuhlisweni komntwana kwaye akufanele ukuphuthelwa kweli nqanaba, kuba "ezine" umntwana wakho ukhululekile kwaye "uzinzile" kunokuba ulungelelanise kwimilenze emibili. Musa ukukhawuleza yakho i-crumb, makomelele kwaye ufumane ukuzithemba kuwe, udinga kuphela into enye-ukuba ube nomonde kunye nokukhuthaza ukumamatheka. Ukongezelela, ukuba nokuba umntwana sele ehamba, ke ungayidluliseli, ngenxa yemithwalo engapheliyo, kunokubakho ukukhawuleka kwemilenze, kunye nokuwa kwamaxesha onke, okungekho mntwana onokuyenza ngaphandle, kuya kuba noloyiko lokuhamba.
Xa uneminyaka yobudala, ukuhamba kweemvumba zakho kuya kuphuculwa konke, ukuba isinyathelo sokuqala seentsana sihlala senziwa ngamanyathelo amacaleni, kunye nemilenze kunye neengalo ngokubanzi, ngekamva uya kuqala ukuhamba ngendlela entsha: ngokuguqa izibambo kwiinkalo kunye nokunyanzela kwi-trunk, nokuphakamisa imilenze emadolweni. Ukuhamba kuya kukwazi ukuqhutyelwa ngakumbi, inkunzi yakho ayiyi kukwazi ukuhamba phambili ngenjongo yokuhamba phambili, kodwa iphinda ihambe phambili kunye nomva wayo kwaye ujikelele, uye kwi-toy eyenomdla kuye, kwaye awunaso ixesha lokujonga emva, ukuba umncinci wakho akayi kuhamba kuphela, kodwa ugijime, kwaye ukhuphuke uze wehla ezinyathelo.
Ungalibali ngokukhuseleko. Kwiimvavanyo zokuqala zokwenza amanyathelo okuqala, kufuneka uwasuse zonke iifayili ezisezantsi. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, susa izinto zekhonkco okanye uzihlukanise usebenzisa izilungisi zekhonksi ze-silicone. Umgangatho womgangatho kufuneka ube yinqanaba.
3. Umntwana kufuneka abe nombono webhoyi. Ndifuna nje ukwenza ukugcinwa, kukuba nombono webhodi, kwaye akufuneki ukuba uzibuze yona, kuba oku kusencinane kakhulu, kodwa akuyi kuthatha ixesha elide, kwaye uya kucela yona. Xa umntwana efundiswa ukuba "ubusuku busika", ungenzi i-crumb uhlala iiyure kuyo, okokuqala ukuzama ukuyihlwaya kwiphota kufuneka kuqalwe emva kokulala, okanye malunga neyure emva kokutya, khumbula ukuba umntwana ukhawuleza ngexesha elifanayo . Ukuba umntwana wakho uyamelana naye, ungammphoqeleli, mhlawumbi uya kuqala ukuqonda "ibhodlo" njengendawo yokujeziswa, khumbula ukuba nayiphi na into eyenza ukuvelisa imele ibe nefuthe elihle kwimivumba yakho. Kwiimpumelelo zokuqala kuyimfuneko ukukhuthaza u-crumb, kuba kubalulekile ukuba azi ukuba abazali bakhe baqhayisa ngaye kwaye wenza konke okulungileyo. Imvakalelo emihle kunye nomonde kunokuguqula iintaba kule ngxaki, kodwa kuyimfuneko. Akunakwenzeka ukuba kulungiswe inhlekelele, ukuba ngokukhawuleza umntwana usulule ibhulukhwe yakhe, kodwa ukubonisa ukuba awuthandi, udinga, kodwa ngefom elula, ngaphandle kokumemeza nokugxeka.
4. Phinda ukunyuka kwamanye abantu abadala. Abantwana kule minyaka bafana nezipongane zithatha zonke iinkcukacha, zikulungele ukudlala izandla kunye naseSoroka-Beloboku, zinokubeka enye ikrabhu kwenye, njengoko abazali babonisa.
5. Ingane yakho kufuneka ikwazi ukusela kwindebe ngaphandle koncediswa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana banomdla kakhulu kwaye bazama ukuxelisa abantu abadala kwinto yonke, kwaye ke, bafuna ukufunda yonke into ngokukhawuleza. Okokuqala ukuzama ukunxila, njengesiqhelo, kugqityiwe ngokugqitywa komntu wonke kunye nayo yonke into, ngoko-ke yibani nesineke nesomileyo.
6. Yazi kwaye ubonise onke amalungu entsapho yakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo abaneminyaka elilodwa ubudala bakhumbula kakade kwaye banxibelelana ngokunyanisekileyo nabahlengikazi kunye noogqirha abaye babalimaza ngenxa yabo. Kodwa abantu abayibona ngokuphindaphindiweyo, abahlala kwaye badlala nabo, bakhumbula kwaye bathanda kakuhle, yingako baphatha uyise nonina kunye noSasha ngesobho sabo ngokuzonwabisa; ujike kubo xa uceliwe ukuba ubonise apho unina okanye uyise.
7. Ukuqonda nokufezekisa iimfuno ezilula zabazali. Le yinye yezinto ezifanele ukuba umntwana akwazi ukuzenza kunyaka.
8. Ukubiza amagama alula. Ukuqala ukususela kwiinyanga ezilisithandathu, iintsana ezininzi sele zithetha amagama anjengexesha elide elindelweyo, njengamaMama noTata. Kwaye indala, ububanzi kunye nobubanzi isigama sabo siya kuba. Ngomnyaka umntwana kaninzi unamazwi angama-30 ebomini bakhe bemihla ngemihla, lo ngumama, uTata, kwaye uphuze, kwaye kuyimfuneko, kwaye kukho, i-meow, kunye nanoma nini ... .. xa unxibelelana ngakumbi nomntwana, ukwandisa ngakumbi isigama sakhe . Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aphulaphule izandi zendalo, kuba zihlukeneyo kwaye zinomdla.
Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba umntwana ngamnye ngumntu kwaye akafanelekanga alinganayo nomyinge. Khumbula - umntwana wakho uhlakaniphile, intanda kakhulu!