Ukudlala ngothando okanye, njengokuba kuthiwa ngabantu, inoveli elula ithathwa njengeyona nqanaba elonwabisayo kunoma luphi ubudlelwane. Ngoko ke, akukho ntombazana enokulibala malunga nobugcisa bokudlala ngothando. Into ephambili into yokuba loo nto yaqonda ukuba zonke ezo zithando zijoliswe kuye. Ngamanye amaxesha ukudlala ngothando kwindawo yoluntu okanye ngolunye ulandelayo owaziwayo nendoda akubona bonke abafazi. Ezinye zezesondo ezilungileyo zibhetele kangcono kunikezwa ngothando lomntu, isiseko esiza kuzama ukukufundisa namhlanje.
Imvakalelo yothando
Uthando, kwindawo yokuqala, kufuneka lube sisiseko sokudlala ngothando nomntu. Ewe, ukuqala umdlalo wothando nomntu ngaphesheya kweso siqendu ngamagama athi "Ndiyakuthanda!" Akufanelekile. Beka yonke into ecaleni kwaye uqale ukubhala ngokulula kunye nokunganyanzelekanga nomntu oyithandayo. Kule ngxoxo enqwenelekayo kufuneka ube neenkomfa, amacebo angenangqondo kunye nezinye iintlobo zesigaba sokuqala sokwakha ubudlelwane. Into ephambili ayiyikugoba intonga, ngenxa yokudumisa kunye nomsindo oqhelekileyo mncinane kakhulu.
Ubuqhetseba kwimeko
Ngaba uqinisekile ukuba uya kudibana "nobomi bwenene", ungakhathazeki ngokuthi "uya kukubiza?" Kwaye uyaqiniseka ukuba akatshatanga. Kodwa, nangona konke oku, khumbula ukuba ubuhlobo obuzinzile kwixesha elizayo kufuneka buqaliswe ekuqaleni kwisityhilelo (kuzo zonke iinjongo zegama). Kungenxa yesi sizathu, ngokuthe ngcembe kufuneka uguqule i-flirt yakho eyiyo kwifom ye-frank. Umngcipheko kulo mcimbi ubonakala ungenangqondo, kwaye ingakumbi ukwesaba ukuba iqhinga elivela kuwe liza kuqala lifumene impendulo yalo kumntu wesilisa. Ukuba kufuneka ukhaliphe ucaphune "amahlaya angenangqumbo" kwaye uphonsa kwi-stavalier yakho enezithombe apho ubhalwe khona kwi-swimsuit. Ndikholelwe, olu hlobo lokudlala ngothando lusebenza ngakumbi kuneentliziyo ezinobumba kunye nezilwanyana ezincinci kwimifanekiso.
Ngaphandle kokuhamba ngaphaya
Amadoda ayinakuqonda imilayezo engabonakaliyo, kuba isondo esinamandla, ngenxa yobulumko kunye nengqiqo, kunzima ukutshintsha kwintetho malunga nezopolitiko ukuya kwibali ngeentsimbi zangaphantsi, ngakumbi ukuba umntu uthetha nawe kwikhompyutheni esebenzayo. Kodwa into enjengokuthi "nzima" ayisoloko ithetha ukuba oku akufanele kwenziwe, ngenxa yokudlala ngesobala kwindawo yokusebenzela, enemibala engavumelekanga kunye nemfihlo, imimoya engaphezulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, apha kuyimfuneko ukuhambelana nezikhokelo ezithile ezibekiwe ukwenzela ukuba ungayifaki into yokubonga kwakho ibe yimeko engathandekiyo. Ungathumeli ii-imeyili ezilishumi kwi-imeyile esebenzayo ngamagama athi "Unomnandi ..."
Inyathelo ngesinyathelo
Ubuncwane bobubele bufanele buphucule ngokuthe ngcembe, beshiya yonke into ebangel 'umdla ngokugqiba. Ungayenza le mdlalo ngemilayezo engathandabuzekiyo yothando kunye nokugqithisa, ekugqibeleni uye kwenye ifoto kwi-swimsuit ye-frank, kwaye ekupheleni kosuku umntu ofudumeleyo akumele avele kuwe ukuthetha ngokuqhubeka kweveliveli yakho (ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, usetyenziswe ukuqhubeka le nto). Umzuzu wokugqibela "okwenene" akufanele ube ngumoya ongekho ngaphantsi, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuyilungiselela kwangaphambili, ucinga ukuba ukhangeleka ngayo inkcazelo encinci. Ngendlela, yeka ukuzithoba nomnxeba kwintlanganiso yangempela ayifanelekanga, kuba ungumfazi oqhelekileyo "ukudlala nendoda."
Ibhokisi yeDialog
Ukudlala ngothando kusetyenziswa ingxoxo phakathi kwabantu ababini, ngoko ukuncoma kunye nemilayezo "kwinqanaba elilodwa" ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kungabi mnandi. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, izazi zeengqondo zeluleka ngothando lwamaqhinga okusebenzisa imilayezo ebizwa ngokuthi "evulekile", equle umbuzo ochanekileyo kwaye ifuna ukuqhubeka kweengxoxo. Ukuba iimpendulo zamadoda zifutshane kwaye zomile, ungacasuli - ngamanye amaxesha kunzima umntu xa ejongene nomfazi ukuba azakhele ngokwendlela yothando. Musa nje ukuyeka isigxina seendlela uze unike indoda ithuba lokuba uphendule umbuzo, ungambonisi ngemilayezo. Kwisabelo sakho, kufuneka uphendule ngendlela ephefumlelweyo kwiimpendulo.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, imilayezo yakho yothando imele ingayifaki indoda, ngaphandle koko ukuhamba kwemfono kungaphelelwa. Ewe, kunye nicer ukulinda impendulo kumntu ngokwakhe, kunokuba ufune!