Indlela umthandekayo abonisa ngayo iimvakalelo zakhe kunye nokunyamekela kwakhe ukunyamekela kungenakulinganiswa nentsingiselo yakhe yangempela. Ukusebenzisa iziphakamiso zethu, uya kubachazela iziqulatho zeentlobo zeempawu kunye nokufumanisa oko inkwenkwe yakho ifuna ukukusho, ngethuba elikukhawuleza ngayo.
Ngoko, usezandleni zakhe kwaye udibene kunye kwilizwe elinomdla weemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo. Kodwa, ewe, awuzange ucinge malunga nokuba ungayifunda kangakanani ngendlela efana ngayo nomfana. Ngesi sizathu, sinqwenela ukukuzisa kwiingcamango ezisisiseko zeentsingiselo zeentlobo zokudibanisa kwaye kukunceda ukwazi omthandayo kangcono kwaye ufumane into efihliweyo emva kwendlela yakhe yokukuvuma.
Umfana ubamba isikhumba sakho.
Umfana unxibe umva we ntombazana evela ngaphantsi kwaye unxineke kuye ngokumxininisa.
Ixabiso lolu hlobo lokumkela lubonisa ukuba umfana ufuna kuwe "nje ukukhawula", kodwa kunye nesondo. Ngoko ke, ukubandakanya okunjalo, apho iingqamlezo zontsebenziswano zibini zixinekile kwaye, njengokuba kunjalo, zisebenzelana, zingaboni ngokucacileyo umnqweno wokuchitha ubusuku nawe. Ngendlela, i-intanethi oyintandokazi iyanciphisa izandla zakhe ezincinane, zinamandla ngakumbi.
Ingqwalasela ingakumbi kufuneka ihlawulwe ngelo xesha, ingaba umfana uthintela ngelixa evuma intloko yakho. Ukuba ewe, khumbula, ngaphezu kokusondelana ngesondo, usadinga ukuba nobudlelwane bokomoya nawe. Ngamanye amagama, ukuba ulwalamano lwakho lusezingeni lokuqala lokuphuhliswa kwalo, uthabatha kakhulu, kodwa ukuba uhlangene ndawonye iminyaka engaphezu konyaka, uyazi ukuba sele sele elungele ulwalamano olunzulu.
Waqala ukuphuma emva ...
Umfana usondela emva kwaye ugqiba intombazana efuna ukumthanda.
Nangona umkhonto wakho engakakutshelanga ngemvakalelo yakhe, le ndlela yokuzibandakanya iyathetha. Ngelinye igama, uthanda nawe. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwimeko efana neengcongolo zomfana, njengengubo efudumeleyo, "gquba" imilenze yakho, idityanise, icinezela kwaye ixinzelele kuye, ngokungathi ijoyine nawe. Iimilinganiselo zolu hlobo lokuthobela zanciphisa enye: umfana uya kukugubungela ngasemva, ubonisa umnqweno wokuhlala ekhusela kwaye ekukhusela kuzo zonke iingxaki. Ngaphezu koko, ngale ndlela, ubonisa ubungqina bakhe kunye namandla. Ngamanye amagama, okhethiweyo wakho ungokoqobo ongayi kuphinda akhuphe ithuba lokukukhumbuza kwakhona malunga nale nto kwaye ubonise ukuba uya kuhlala ukhuselekile ngokupheleleyo naye.
Ngendlela, le ndlela yokumkela ineenkcazelo enye, edibene nenyaniso yokuba ukuba iqabane lakho lihlala liza kuwe lisemva kwaye liyakunxusa-lithetha ukuba ufuna ukuba ubudlelwane phakathi kwakho bube sisondele ngakumbi. Okokuqala, oku kubangelwa kukuba intanda yakho inokubonakala ngathi uyamoyika okanye ungafuni ukuvumela iimvakalelo zakho kwaye wabelane naye. Yingakho unamahloni ombambisayo owambeka kwisimo "ubuso nobuso", kwaye ucinga ukuba awuyinyani naye.
Ukudibanisa kwi-massage.
Le ndoda, inxibe intombazana leyo, uyikhuphe ngobumnene emhlane emva kwezandla zayo.
Le nguqulo ye-hugs ithi iqabane lakho liziva livakalelwa kakhulu kunene. Emva koko, umva ongabonakaliyo nxalenye ebuthathaka kakhulu yomzimba womntu. Ngoko ke, yonke into echaphazelekayo kule nxalenye yomzimba iyanqabisa kwaye iyamnandi. Ngendlela, ungamangalisi ukuba emva kwexesha elithile i-caresses yakhe iya kufumana iimeko ezichaphazelekayo. Kuhlala kulungele ukukhumbula ukuba iingcamango ezinjenge-massage, ukuthintela kunye nesondo, ezixhunyiwe kwisigqi esisodwa, njengomthetho, ziyakwazi ukukhokela ngamandla abameli bezesondo ezinamandla.
Kwakhona, le ndlela yokudibanisa ingatsho ukuba i-chevalier iyakucasula kwaye inomsindo ngento ethile, ngoko ufuna ukuphumla. Kwaye nangona kunjalo ukuba akafuni ukukuvuma kumava kunye neengxaki. Kodwa ukunyakaza okulula kunye nokuphucula ukuphunga - le ngenye yezindlela ezilungileyo zokufumana ukulinganiswa kwemvakalelo. Yingakho abameli bezesondo eziqinileyo, kwizinga labo elingagqithanga, ngexesha loxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo, ngokukhawuleza baxabise intanda yabo, benze kuye ukusilalisa. Ngendlela, ukuba ucinga nje ukuba intanda yakho inomsindo ngento ethile, zibuze yona into emkhathazayo, kwaye yena ngokwakhe uzinikezela ngokuzihlaziya. Ndikholelwe, umhlobo wakho uya kuqonda ukuba uyamkhathalela.
Nge-pritopom priplopom ...
Lo mfana, ngexesha lokumbamba isandla sesandla sakhe ngokukhawuleza uhlawule intombazana emva.
Le ndlela yokudibanisa ineentsingiselo ezimbini ezibalulekileyo. Eyokuqala kubo kunentsingiselo ebaluleke kakhulu: akayithandi njengowesifazane. Apha ukhumbule umzekelo wendlela abantu abanomdla bamkela ngayo abahlobo babo. Ngoko kule meko ayiboni ngothando. Ngamanye amagama, ukuba umntu okhethiweyo kaninzi ubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe kuwe ngenye yeentlobo zeembambano, khumbula ukuba oku kubonisa ukuba ulwalamano lwakho alufaki kwindlela elungileyo kwaye akunakwenzeka ukulindela i-future bright and free . Intsingiselo yesibini yale ndlela yokumkela ithi xa umzekelo, i-boyfriend yakho ikunika indlela yokubonakalisa iimvakalelo zakhe kwindawo kawonkewonke, unokufuna nje ukubonisa wonke umntu malunga nolwalamano lwakho alubi nakakhulu kwaye ukhululekile. Ngendlela, kodwa ukuba uyancenga ngale ndlela, xa uwedwa, apha umfanekiso ungabonakala ngathi: akanakunqwenela okanye unomsindo ngento ethile.
Kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, izigqibo ezikhawulezayo akufanele zenziwe. Mhlawumbi uhlaselo olunjalo - lo luphela nje kwimithetho jikelele, kwaye akusiyo isizathu sokufumana amaxesha angaphambi kwexesha. Ukuba kukho ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo kukho izizathu ezininzi. Umzekelo, kufuneka wenze intetho yentuthuzelo emtshatweni womngane, kwaye okuthandayo ngale ndlela uzama ukukuxhasa. Ewe, okanye owakhethiweyo akayithandi kwaye akayiyo yonke into esetyenzisiweyo ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe zokubonisa, ukuze abanye baqaphele ubuhlobo bakho. Lapha uzama kanzima ukuzicingela njengobungane. Okanye okugqibela, okwangoku, okhethiweyo wakho uyaphazamiseka kwaye akanakukubonisa ngokupheleleyo uthando lwakhe ngawe. Ngoko ungathathi onke amanani angalunganga okubambisana nolu hlobo kwi-akhawunti yakho!
Kwaye ekugqibeleni ndifuna ukuthetha ukuba zonke iintsingiselo zeentlobo zothando zibandakanya, okokuqala, zithetha ngendlela kunye nomkhwa wakho othandekayo, kwaye ke ngoko ke bayichaza intsingiselo yabo. Ngoko ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubonakalisa njani iimvakalelo zakhe, ukumbumbathisa, ummbambe ngokuqinileyo ngeesile - kwaye yonke into anokucinga ngayo ngeli xesha liza kukuphosa ngokukhawuleza iingubo zakho!