Iingxaki zentsapho ekuzalweni komntwana wokuqala

Ngokuzalwa komntwana, utshintsho olubalulekileyo luvela ebomini bowesifazane - izinto ezibalulekileyo zokuphila kunye nezimo zengqondo kuzo zonke izinto ezenzekayo zitshintsha. Iingxaki zentsapho ekuzalweni komntwana wokuqala ziyihloko ngokwenene kubo bonke abazali.

Oomama abancinci kunye nabazali kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi bomntwana basesimweni sokudideka ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye kuyaqondakala! Ukunganakwa kunye nokungazinzi kwezinye izinto kubangelwa kukutya.

Kunzima kumama omncinci ukuba atyelele imeko yakhe entsha. Emva koko, ngoku akayikucinga kuphela ngeminqweno yakhe, kodwa kunye neminqweno yomntwana, ngubani, njengomthetho, atyhulwa ngaphandle kwendlela yokuphila. Enyanisweni, akunakwenzeka kubazali ukuba baphendule ngokumomotheka ekuhambeni komntwana kubomvu, okanye ngokukhawuleza bekhala, emva kweeyure ezintathu ngokulandelana. Ingxaki zentsapho ekuzalweni komntwana wokuqala zinikwe ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwingqondo.


Ungakulibali ukuba ngaphezu kweembopheleleko ezifunyenwe ezixhaswa kwinkathalo kunye nokukhuliswa komntwana, nabasetyhini banemisebenzi yasendlini endala ebenikwe ixesha elide, njengokucoca, ukupheka, ukuhlamba, ukutshiza kunye nokukhipha ukutya. Kodwa kunjalo ufuna, njengaphambili, ukuzibeka esweni. Kodwa ukuya kwi-salon enobuhle okanye ukutyelela iklabhu yempilo yiphupha elikude kwaye lingenakwenzeka lamamazana amaninzi.

Ukuxazulula zonke iingxaki ezi ngasentla akulula, kodwa kunokwenzeka. Kwiinkqubo zentlangano, kukho into efana nokuphathwa kwexesha, okubhekiselele ekungabikho kwexesha lokuzikhethela, kwaye ubuninzi beengxaki ezikhankanywe zixhunyiwe, yintoni ke njengesikhokelo sokuthatha amanyathelo masithathe amacandelo nemigaqo-siseko lawulo lwexesha.


Umbutho wendawo kunye neendawo

Kubalulekile: nayiphi na inkunzi, nokuba yintlontle, inokuthathwa i-5-J0 imizuzu umdlalo othakazelisayo okanye umsebenzi omtsha. Ngethuba lo mdlalo, ungalokothi ufumane onke amathoyizi ngokukhawuleza, ukususa ezinye zazo kwi-shelf engenhla, engenakufikeleleka, ukwenzela ukuba inkunzi ikhumbule. Emva kwexeshana, amathoyizi "afihliweyo" aphuma, kwaye "adlala" asuse. Kulo mzekelo, umdlalo uza kuzisa umntwana kwaye akayi kubuhlungu ngokukhawuleza.

Kwikamelo ngalinye apho u tyelela khona emini, uququzelele uhlobo lwendawo yokudlala lomntwana, apho uya kudlala ngexesha wenza into yakho. Njengoko isikhungo semidlalo sinokusebenzisa amadivaysi amaninzi, umzekelo, ukunyuka kwezingane, i-highchair okanye i-chaise longue, umdlalo wezemidlalo, iingubo ebalabala okanye i-diaper, kunye namathoyizi abeka kuyo.

Ukuba ufuna ukufuduka kwelinye igumbi ukuya kwelinye, faka indawo yengane yakho yebhola phakathi, ukuze ubonwe kwaye uve, uthethe kwi-crumb, ngeendlela zonke ukuxhasa umphumo wobukho bakho.

Apho udla ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokuqhelekileyo igumbi elinjalo igumbi lokuhlala okanye ikhitshi, yakha indawo yonke yokudlala ephethe "izitishi" ezininzi, "ngasinye sikhululo" umntwana uya kuhlala aze athuke. Emva koko, umdlalo "wesitishi" usuqulela kwisinye esilandelayo, umzekelo, i-swing - umbhoxo - indawo yokuphumula-indawo yokudlala, njl njl.


Ukulandela imodi yexesha

Kubalulekile: Khokelwa yiimfuno nokuziphatha komntwana, phulaphula kwaye ujonge njalo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Amehlo athathwayo - ixesha lokulala, ukuhleka kunye nokusebenza, ngoko unako ukudlala, ukuba umntwana unempilo ephuphayo - alala naye embhedeni okanye utshele iindaba zokuzonwabisa. Nangona kunjalo, nayiphi na imbuzi iya kuza kulawulo oluthile kwaye ayiyi kudala amathuba okuphuhliswa kweengxaki zentsapho ekuzalweni komntwana wokuqala.

Qhubela kwi-formula eyamkelekileyo: ukuvuka - ukutya-ukulala.

Ukulandelelaniswa kwezi zixhobo kuyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yomntwana kunye nesimo sakhe sengqondo. Ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi bentsana, ulawulo lwakhe luguquka rhoqo, kwaye ngoko ulawulo lwakho luya kutshintshwa rhoqo. Nangona kunjalo, ukwazi isenzo sezenzo kunye nokukhethwa kweemvumba zakho, unokwakha ishedyuli yakho yezinto ezifunekayo imihla ngemihla, kwithuba elifutshane.

Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana afunde ngokuqhelekileyo ukulandelelaniswa okuqhubekayo kweziganeko ezithile. Ngokomzekelo, kuqala ukudla, umdlalo kunye nokuhlamba, ngoko imifanekiso encinane, ngoko incwadi kunye nokulala, iphupha. Akukho nto ingabalulekanga ukuqinisekiswa koomama. Yenza yakho i-algorithm yesenzo. Ngokomzekelo, ukupheka kusasa, ukuya esitolo, ukucoca ngokuhlwa, ukuhlwaya kwantambama. Ukwazi ingqwalasela elandelayo yesifundo esilandelayo, awuyi kuchitha ixesha lokuthatha isigqibo ngokukhetha enye.


Ukucwangcisa lakho ishishini

Kubalulekile: musa ukuzama ukuqhubeka kunye neyakho yangaphambili, "ukungahambi umntwana", xa unako ukwenza ikhulu elinamanqaku ekhulu kwizinto ezicwangcisiweyo kwangaphambili. "Izwi:" Sisekho ubusuku bonke phambili ... "ngoku ayilunganga. Yiya kwisigqi esincinane esheshayo, ehamba kakuhle kwaye ehambelanayo. Khumbula ukuba ngeli xesha isikhokelo semvelo ngumntwana wakho, kwaye wena, abazali bakhe, njengezi-satellites, kufuneka ujike imini nobusuku, ukhusele kwaye uncede.

Xa uceba isicwangciso senkqubo sosuku, ungabandakanyi amatyala amaninzi kanye kanye. Ungazami ukusombulula yonke imisebenzi ngokukhawuleza. Zibophe uludwe olufutshane lwezinto othanda ukuzenza namhlanje. Yilungise, yongeza okanye ususe izinto xa ubona ukuba awukho kwishedyuli.

Cwangcisa ngaphezu kwama-2-3 amatyala ngosuku. Ngaphandle koko, ezininzi zaqala, kodwa ishishini elingagqibekanga liya kukucinezela.

Ukuba unesiphene, unethuba lokuvuka kancinci ngaphezu komntwana kwaye wenze kwakhona ezinye zezinto ozicwangcise ngaphambi kokuba avuke, ukuba i-owl inako-isebenze kakuhle emva kokubeka umntwana ukuba alele. Kukho nawuphi na, ukungabikho kweeyure zokulala kubhetele ukuzalisa emini, ukubethelela ihora okanye ezimbini kunye kunye nefidget encinane.


Umbutho wexesha layo

Kubalulekile: zama ukunyamekela ngexesha lakho lokukhulula. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, hlawulela ngokulinganayo, umyeni wakho kunye nawo onke amalungu entsapho yakho. Ukwenza oku, ungagxininiseki kwizantya nobuninzi bokuzalisekisa uxanduva lwakho lwangaphambili. Ukuba ngaphambili wawupheka ngaphandle koxinzelelo ngoLwesine i-carp ebhaka, kunye neCawe - ikhekhe "iNapoleon", ngoko umzuzwana ungena kwizinto ezininzi ezisemhlabeni, umzekelo, kanye nenyanga ukuzithoba kunye nezihlobo kunye ne-charlotte. umyeni wefilimu entsha, ehleli kwi-sofa ekumamkelekileyo. Kubonakala ukuba, ukungabi nento yokutya ngokucokisekileyo kwindlela elula kuya kuba ngaphezu kokuhlawulwa.

Kwi sifundo ngasinye, ungathathi ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-20. Ngokukodwa ukususela kwithuba elithile mhlawumbi awuyi kuba. Ukuba ishishini elihleliweyo lithatha ixesha elide, liphule kwixesha elilinganayo ukwenzela ukuba uqhubeke nokuqala kwakho emva kwekhefu.

Ngokomzekelo, ukucoca indlu: siqala ngokusula uthuli, ngoko siza kuhlamba umgangatho, ekupheleni kweketyu - hlamba izitya. Zonke ikhefu, ngokuqinisekileyo, zinikele ekuziphatheni kwe-karapuz kwaye ziyamnakekela. Ngeli xesha, unokufumana ithoyilo entsha, uqoke ipiramidi okanye ufunde incwadi, uyondle, utshintshe i-diaper okanye utshintshe i-panties yakho.

Vumelana ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuma kwaye ujonge indlela isobho eliphekwe ngayo, okanye ukujonga umshini wokuhlamba usebenza.


Ukudibanisa amanyathelo

Kubalulekile: Hlanganisa kuphela amacala ahambelanayo. Zomibini iimeko kufuneka zihlekise kwaye zimnandi kumntwana, kwaye, kunjalo, ayikuxhasi. Uhambo lweeyure ezintathu ukuya kwidolophu yokuthenga kunye nesigxina akusona umzekelo omhle.

Zama ukuxhamla ukudibana kweeklasi eziqhelekileyo kuwe kwaye uthatha ixesha elide. Ngokomzekelo, unokwenza umzimba xa uhamba epakini, imisebenzi yabantwana echibini, udlala nomntwana ekhaya okanye usondla. Ibhafu edibeneyo okanye isitya iya kuba luncedo kubo bobabini.

Musa ukutshatyalaliswa kakhulu yiminqweno yakho. Qaphela ukuba umntwana ukhululekile kwaye ukhululekile.


Phambili

Kubalulekile: ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukwahlula imicimbi ebaluleke. Gxininisa uphawu loxinzelelo. Umzekelo, ukuba ungadli, ngoko awuyi kuba namandla kuwo wonke into, ukuba awuphumli, uya kuhamba ucatshukiswa, kwaye konke oku kuya kuba kubi kakhulu. Ukuba awuyikuhlamba izinto zezingane, ngoko umntwana akayi kuba nantoni na yokukhwela ngomso. Ngamanye amaxesha ufanele uthumele isenzo esithile (esishiye kuwe emva koko) kwindawo yokuqala ngexesha, kuba ngekamva ungeke ube nelithuba lokwenza.

Hlukanisa onke amatyala ngokukhawuleza nangoku. Yenza okokuqala konke okukhawulezayo, kwaye ke, ukuba unayo ixesha lokukhulula okanye ngokuthe gqolo kulo lonke usuku - ngoku. Beka izinto zakho kunye nomntwana kuqala. Ukukhetha phakathi kwesidlo sakho kunye nokuhlamba ngesini, unganqikazi-hambani udle isidlo sasemini.


Ukunikezelwa kwamagunya

Kubalulekile: kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufuna ukwenza ntoni, kunzima kakhulu ukujamelana nayo yonke inqwaba yemithwalo yemfanelo, abadala kunye nabasanda kuzuza. Kwaye kubonakala ngathi uhlangabezana nayo yonke into, kodwa umgangatho wokwenza izinto uya kuba ngaphantsi koko ufunayo. Yikuphi, okuza kukunika uxhalabiso olubi. Yaye inkqubo yakho yeentetho ayiyi kubulela ngenxa yomthwalo womsebenzi. Funda ukusabalalisa uxanduva phakathi kwamalungu onke osapho lwakho. Zama ukuzithemba ngomsebenzi owawunako kuphela. Kwaye, nceda, ungagxininisa ingqwalasela yakho kwinto yokuba inguqu yabo yokusebenza ayisoloko ifikeleleka kwindawo oyenzayo.

Ekuqaleni, sasaza yonke imisebenzi phakathi kwamalungu entsapho-bonke abahlala nawe kwindlu enye. Ngethuba lexesha, ngamnye wabo uya kukwenza uluhlu lwemisebenzi ongayidingi ukukhathazeka ngayo. Hlalani ngezikhathi ezithile ukhumbuze ngokukhethekileyo "ukulibala" malunga nokungazalwanga okanye ukungagqitywanga. Unganqikazi ukutshintsha imisebenzi yakho okanye ukucela uncedo kumaxesha anzima.

Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuba umyeni wakho kunye nezinye izalamane zithathe inxaxheba kulondolozo lwentsana. Akudingeki ukuba ube ngumntu kuphela kwintsapho enokutshintsha i-diaper okanye uhlambe umntwana. Zama ukudonsa abanye kule mi sebenzi ebonakala ngathi nzima. Ngexesha elide, iqondo lokulawula kwabo liya kuba liphakamileyo njengaloo.

Ukuba kunzima ukuba ubeke ezinye iziganeko ezifuna uxanduva olukhethekileyo lokuba "umama" kwabanye, zithintele kwisethi yemiyalelo engayi kukubangela inkxalabo, kodwa ungesabi ukwandisa imida yentembelo! Ngokomzekelo, unokucela umyeni wakho ukuba ahambe nomntwana olala ngokulala esitulo sabakhubazekile okanye edlala Ukhona kwiikhabhi kumbhobho .Ngokuqinisekileyo nokuba nootata ongenamava uya kuhlangabezana nemisebenzi enjalo.