Ukudlala ngothando ngenye yezindlela eziphambili zokumazi umlingane onokwenzeka. Le ndlela evulekileyo ikuvumela ukuba ukhangele indlela ohambelana ngayo kunye nekhethiweyo. Ngomdaniso, umzekelo, ukudlala ngothando kukuphela kwithuba lokuthandana nomntu ongaziwayo. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuthandana ngothando kunokunceda ebomini nasekukhulumisaneni.
Siya kukunika ingqalelo iinkcukacha ezininzi malunga nomntu wesilisa kunye nowesifazane.
Ukuninzi kwengqalelo
Amantombazana abathanda ukudlala ngothando, ngokuqhelekileyo baninzi beva ukubetha kunye nabo ngokwabo babamba iindwendwe zamadoda ezintle. Ngethuba lophando lwabonakaliswa ukuba ukuba umfazi uthumela amatshwala angamatshumi amathathu nantlanu ngothando lomntu ngeyure enye, ngoko mhlawumbi uya kuba nomntu othandanayo nalo mntu. Iimpawu ezininzi ezingama-35 - abaninzi baya kuthi le nto ininzi, kodwa kungekhona kwintombazana, kuba uyayenza i-non-stop-winks, amomothekayo, inyanzelisa intloko yakhe, yenza iincoma.
Iimbono ezintathu zanele
Ukuba indoda ibamba iso lakho kathathu, cinga ukuba i-uvass yonke yavela, kuba wayecinga ukuba uyithandile. Kodwa oku akwaneleyo, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba amehlo akhe agxile kuwe ubuncinane imizuzwana emithathu. Lo mbono uthathwa njengothando, xa ungaphantsi, ngoko oku kuyinto efanayo - imizuzwana eyi-1,18.
"I-Goose paws"
Ukuba kukho ukubukeka kothando, ke ulindela ummangalisa womntu nge "goose paws". "I-Goose paws" ivela kumacangca yamehlo, xa umntu ehlekisayo, uthetha ngemvakalelo yakhe. Ukuba, kwimeko yokungonwabi, ukumamatheka komntu kunokwenzeka nokuba yintlonelo-inkohliso.
Kungcono ukusebenzisa i-Intanethi
Ukuba ungakhange ujonge amehlo aloo mntu, ngoko kulula ukudlala ngothando naye. I-imeyl, i-SMS, i-skype, i-ICQ kunye namanye amanethwekhi asekuhlaleni achaza indlela yokunxibelelana nolutsha lwa namhlanje. Amantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe atshintsha iifoto kunye nemilayezo yobume obusondelene nabo, ngelixa bengabonakali kwaye bacinge indlela yokuzalisa ixesha elide lokuthetha.
Ukudlala okanye ubuhlobo
Kufuneka ufunde ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwothando nomhlobo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho iimeko apho umntu edibanisa ngokubonakalayo ubuhlobo bomntu kunye nomdlalo wothando, ngenxa yokuba ukungaqondani kubonakala phakathi kwazo. Ukuba umfana we-vasyaetsya ngumhlobo kuphela, akufanele ubencwisana naye, unike ithemba.
Qaphela amanqanaba
Ukuba into yeesokisi ibukeka "kwindlela yakho, ke ithi ithetha kuwe nomphefumlo nomzimba, kodwa, kwaye ukuba" jonga "kumacandelo ahlukeneyo, kuthetha ukuba uye wachukunyiswa yiyo.
Ifa livunyiwe
Xa sifuna umntu, siqala ngokuzenzekelayo ukukopisha imikhwa yakhe, imiqondiso, ngamanye amaxesha sisebenzisa amagama-izidumbu ezivakalayo kuye. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukuqonda ukuba uyamthanda umntu okanye hayi, umlinde, mhlawumbi wathatha kuwe umkhwa okanye ezinye i-word-parasite. Ukuba ubona umntu okokuqala, ububele bakhe bungabonakalisa ngathi - unako ukumbamba iingalo zakhe, ngokuqhelekileyo ujonge i-watch yakhe okanye ubeke unyawo lwakhe emlenzeni wakhe, kodwa konke oku kuya kwenza okufanayo. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba uyakulingisa, ke lo ngumqondiso olungileyo.
Ukudlala ngothando kukuhle kwimpilo
Njengoko iimvavanyo zibonakalisile, ukudlala ngothando kunokuchaphazela impilo kunye nokuzikhusela. Oku kuchazwa yinyaniso yokuba egazini labantu abathanda ukudlala ngothando, isalathisi seeseli zegazi ezimhlophe ziphezulu kunabo abaphepha ukuthandana.
Yazi umlinganiselo
Nangona kunjalo, ungahambi kakhulu, kuba ukuba isondo esahlukileyo ixesha elide ukujonga kunye / okanye ukudibana nembono, intsingiselo iya kulahleka. Ukuqaphela kuyinto eyona mpazamo ephambili yokudlala ngothando.
Indlela yokuqhelana ngothando
Yazi iimpawu zokudlala ngothando ukuze udibanise ubungane ngokudlala ngothando. Iimpawu eziphambili zokudlala ngothando - indoda isoloko ifika kwiinwele kwaye ixhamla kuzo; Umlonyeni wakhe, ungadlulisa ngolwimi; uyathinta umlomo wakhe ngeminwe yakhe; uyamomotheka ngokumomotheka nokukhusekisa; kuwe ngokufuthi uthinte, ngokukodwa amaqhosha; wink kuwe; kukubonisa ngokuncoma.
Amantombazana athwala amanqatha awo, adlula amaxesha ambalwa. Amadoda angakwazi ukunweba, abonise i-biceps, kodwa ukuba avele ngokubanzi emapokothini ukuze athululele izandla.