Kodwa, ngelishwa, abaninzi banokumkela kwaye bakholelwe othandweni. Uninzi lwabantu luhlala lufuna ukubonakalisa uthando lwabo - balungiselela iimvavanyo ukujonga iimvakalelo.
Uthando lo kuqala. Uziphosa ngaphakathi kule mvakalelo emangalisayo, njengesiqhwithi se-whirlpool kunye nentloko yakho. Emphefumlweni uphila ubomi kunye nokuzithemba ukuba olu luthando lokwenene lobomi. Kodwa, uyaqhekeka. Emva koko kuza uthando lwesibini, okwesithathu. Emva kokuphelelwa kwexesha, ukuba ube nemizuzu evuyayo kunye nexesha lokudabuka nokudumala, intliziyo yakho ihlanganiswe ngokukhusela. Akumangalisi ukuba awukwazi ukuvula ubudlelwane obutsha kwaye ulindele ubungqina bothando. Ngoko kwenzeka kunye namadoda. Ndiza kuthetha ukuba baninzi abasengozini.
Wonke umntu uphupha ukuva amazwi ngothando. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo, xa lo mzuzwana ufika, awunalo ngokwaneleyo la magama. Unqwenela ubungqina.
Ukubonakalisa uthando lwakho kumfana onje? Ungayibonisa njani uthando nonke?
Ngaba iimvakalelo zinokulinganiswa nombolo yezipho? Uthando, okokuqala, luquka ukuthembela nokuthembeka. Ukuba umntu ufuna ukuba uzibonakalise iimvakalelo zakho - Kungakumbi ukuba akakuthembi nonke kwaye akakholelwa kukunyaniseka kwakho.
Yintoni enokuthetha bhetele malunga nokunyaniseka kweemvakalelo kunokunyamekela, ukunyamekela nokunyamekela umthandayo. Izipho zifanele zivela kwizinto ezimsulwa ezingenanto yentliziyo, kwaye zingabi zibetha ngokuzenzekelayo ngentonga.
Xa uthanda, uya kunyamezela zonke iimfuno zomntu othandekayo. Njengokuba ubungenakunzima kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ungabangela ubuhlungu - uya kukhangela iindlela ezininzi nangakumbi zokubonisa ubungqina bakho kumfana. Kodwa, umbuzo ungomnye - ungakanani na? Ngaba uya kuvuyela loo mntu onamandla kakhulu ukuphatha ubuhlobo bakho. I-Mercantility ayibonakalwanga nje ngokubonisa izipho. Ubudlelwane kunye nothando - oku kubangelwa ukuba abantu bobabini banikele bonke, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, bangafuneki nantoni na. Kodwa, xa umfana esho njalo ukuba akakholelwa kwiimvakalelo zakho, kodwa ubeka ngokuzeleyo kwaye, ngokoqobo, "ukubetha ikhanda lakho kwiqhwa" ukubonisa ukuba uyamthanda, ngaba lo lu thando oluqotho? Ngaba oku akunjalo ukubonakaliswa kobugovu kwinxalenye yelutsha lakho?
Kutheni ungazinikele ekuthandeni kwaye ujabulele omnye nomnye?
Ndiza kukunika umzekelo webali elinye. Ekuqaleni, wachazelwa ngokuchanekileyo egameni lendoda, inxaxheba kweli bali.
Isibini esitshatileyo. Babethandana. Kwaye, njengoko loo mfana ngokwakhe evuma, yonke into yayilungile ubudlelwane babo, de bafuna ukuqala ukubonisa uthando lwabo ngomnye nomnye.
Ubungqina bokuqala benguye uhlazo. Babonakala ngathi: wenza ukuba abukeke kwiphathi yena wahlambalaza abahlobo bakhe; Gcina isandla sakho phezu komlilo okanye wenze i-puncture kwindawo esondeleyo. Intombazana yahamba kuzo zonke iimvavanyo, njengeSpartan yangempela.
Ixesha ngalinye lizalisekisa iimfuneko zalo eziziphethe kakubi. Wayekholelwa ukuba kuthetha ukuthanda kwakhe. Ekubuyiseleni, kwafuneka akhuthazelele iintlungu ezahlukahlukeneyo apho intombi yakhe yayicinga ngayo.
Ukuvavanywa kwangoku kwintombazana kwahlukana. Le nsizwa ibona ukuba ukuhlukana kukubungqina obuhle kakhulu. Ukuba wayemthanda.
Basenomdla komnye nomnye, kodwa imigaqo yobuwula ayibavumeli ukuba babe kunye.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukubiza ulwalamano lolwalamano xa iqabane lakho linyanzelisa ngamabomu ukuba uhlupheke kunye nosizi?
Kuyi sidenge. Ukuthanda kuthetha ukuthembela. Ukuba uceliwe ukuba ubonakalise uthando lwakho kumfana, mbalekele kuye apho amehlo akho abukeka khona. Ufanelekile, ukuthandwa. Xa udibana nesiphelo sakho, uya kuqonda ukuba uthando alufunanga ubungqina.