Ezahlukeneyo
Ayikho imfihlo yokuba amadoda nabasetyhini bazijonga ngendlela eyahlukileyo ngokubhekelana ngesondo, iimpepha ezahlukeneyo, iimfuno ezahlukeneyo. I-sexologists kunye neengqondo zezinto zengqondo bathi kuloo madoda, njengabasetyhini, isondo sokwabelana ngesondo sinokuhluka. Kukho iintlobo ezintathu zeempawu: eziphakamileyo, eziphakathi kunye ezilinganayo. Iqondo eliphezulu lezesondo lixhaphakile kumadoda kunabasetyhini, oku kungenxa yokungafani kwenkqubo ye-hormonal. Kodwa umyinge kwaye uyingqinisiso livela phantse ngokulinganayo, kokubili kumadoda nakwabasetyhini.
Iimpawu zesimo ngasinye zenza imfuno yesondo. Ngokomzekelo, phezulu, ngokuqhelekileyo indoda okanye ibhinqa idinga ukulwa ngokwesondo. Ukwahlula umntu onesi simo sinokuba nempawu ezininzi. Omnye wabo-umsindo ophilileyo, ukhululekile ekwenzeni abantu abatsha, ukulungelelanisa ukuvakalelwa. Kodwa le miqobo ayikho isiqinisekiso sokuthi ungumntu onamandla okulala ngokwesini.
Nangona kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufumana iqabane onokuzanelisa iimfuno zakho ngaphandle kokubangela ukukhathazeka kuye.
Izidingo ezahlukeneyo
Njengomthetho, imfuno yesondo ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bomntu buphezulu. Xa umntu esencinane, udla ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye unobungqina obhekene naye. Ngexesha elide, umxhwele kumlingane ohlala ehlala njalo xa ungapholile, ngoko uya kuba ngumlinganiselo. Indoda inokuthanda nokuthanda umfazi iminyaka, kodwa ibonakala ihlalise, inelisekile ngezonxibelelwano zesondo ezingabonakaliyo, ezingathinti ngaso sonke isikhathi umgangatho wesini.
Umfazi, ngokuchaseneyo, kunye nokuqala kobudlelwane kuqala kuqala ukubonisa umdla kwimpilo yesondo. Nabantu abanobuhlungu banokuthi emva kwexesha, ubulili kwisibini sibini sinomdla ngakumbi, kwaye imfuneko yolu qho.
Ngalesi sizathu, kuhlale kukulungele ukuba amabhinqa afune umntu onesimo esinokwakheka ngokwesondo kunesakhe. Ngoko, ibhinqa elinomsindo ovuthayo, indoda ephakathi nephakamileyo. Oku kuya kubanceda bahlale bevumelana ngokuvisisana ngesondo iminyaka emininzi.
Imfihlelo yolonwabo lolwabelana ngesondo
Ubungqingili bezesondo, ngokuqinisekileyo, kubalulekile. Kodwa umsebenzi olwalamano luba luleke. Umzekelo, kuyimfuneko ukhethe isigqi esiphezulu sobomi besondo. Isibini ngasinye sizodwa, ezinye zifuna ukunxibelelana rhoqo ngesondo, abanye banesondo ngokwaneleyo kanye okanye kabini ngeveki okanye kwinyanga. Imithetho ecacileyo nemithetho ayikho kwaye ayikwazi.
Kodwa kukho izinto ezichaphazela umgangatho wobomi bezesondo, umzekelo, ikhefu elide phakathi koonxibelelwano bezesondo luphikisana ngqo nakumntu wonke. Ubomi besondo obungavumelekanga bunempembelelo embi kwindoda namabhinqa. Umdala lo mbhangqwana, umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa ngokupheleleyo ngethuba lokubandakanyeka kwisondo esipheleleyo okanye ukuzonwabisa xa uvumela ikhefu elikhulu kwiintlobano zesini.
Kufanelekile ukwazi ukuba ubomi bobulili bomntu obini azinakulingana ngokulinganayo lonke ixesha. Ngamanye amaxesha uthando luyancipha, kwaye lube lukhuni ngamandla. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi zinto - ukukhathala, ukuxinezeleka, ukukhathazeka okubi, iingxaki, ukuxinezeleka. Indoda ayifuni ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kwiqabane ngexesha, kodwa akanakukufisa njengokuba wenza iminyaka eyi-10 okanye engama-20 edlulileyo. Abafazi bavame ukukhula bebanda kunye neqabane zabo xa beba nothando. Ukuthintela oku, udinga ukunakekelwa okuninzi komnye nomnye, ukuzimisela ukwenza izivumelwano kunye nokuzimisela ukuxoxa ngeengxaki.
Isimo sengqondo somntu wesini somtshato sisigxina apho unokukwazi ukuqonda indlela abahambelana ngayo. Kodwa ungacingi ukuba ukungafani kwiimfuno zesondo kuyisithintelo esingenakunqandeka kwinjongo. Uthando luvame ukwenza izinto ezimangalisayo. Ukongezelela, ukuguquka kwesimo sengqondo kunye nexesha - ngoko, kwintombi inokuvusa umdaka onomdla, kwaye indoda, ngokuchaseneyo, inokumodareyitha. Ukuba ubunzima obusondeleyo kubomi bubonakala bunzima kakhulu, ngoko iingcali ziya kuza kunceda - i-urologists, izifo zengqondo, izazi zengqondo kunye nezocansi. Phantse zonke iimbini zifumana ithuba lokufumana ubudlelwane bezesondo obugqibeleleyo, ukuba uzama okufutshane.