Ubomi Bokufihlakeleyo
Ngokukhawuleza sifunde ukuba iqabane lijongene ne-masturbation, kuba abaninzi bayothuka. Abasetyhini kwiimeko ezinjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo baziva behlazekile, baqonde oku njengokulahlekelwa ngumnqweno. Bacinga ukuba le ndlela yokuzineliseka kwendoda ithetha ngokungahambisani kwabo ngokwesondo. Amadoda, ukufumana iqabane ngokwaneliseka, abaziveki njengosongelo kumntu wabo. Kwaye oku kuqondakalayo: i-masturbation yabesifazane igxininisa ikakhulukazi kwi-clitoris, ayikuphazamisi i-coitus, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, inokuthi isebenze njengento yokuqala yothando. Abasetyhini banako ukuxhamla amaninzi, ngoko umntu unokukholelwa ukuba umfazi ozikhathazayo, ulungele ukuthatha kwakhona. Ukongezelela, amadoda angabikho phantsi kwimeko ekufuphi ukuba abone izitho zesini zesini, zifihlwe ngenxa yendawo yazo. Ukubamba into oyithandayo ngokuphonywa kuthetha ukuvula isigqubuthelo seemfihlelo zakhe. Kwaye, oku, kuvuya!
Ukuzonwabisa kuwe
I-indastri ayidlala indima ye-caress yokuqala. Lo mkhuba wobulili ohlukeneyo, okhoyo ngokwawo. I-Autoerotism yinto yolonwabo engafani nenye na. Oku kuhlukeneyo ngokwesini, ekhoyo kunye neqhelekileyo. Ezi zimbini iintlobo zokuzikhusela azikhuphisani. Ukukhathazeka kukuba uzenzele imizuzu eyona nto. Yisisombululo esihle kakhulu sokuphumla nokuziva uqinisekile kuwe. Kungenxa yale nto ikhathaza umntwana omncinci. Xa umntu omdala, ezinjalo ze-caresses zenza enye imisebenzi.
Uziva unetyala
Oko sikufihlayo kunokubangela iimvakalelo zesohlwayo kungekhona ngenxa yokuba kuyinto embi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba siyifihla. Kwaye ngoku baye bayeka ukulala ngesondo - ngamnye uyaziyanelisa. Kule meko, ubudlelwane obambisene nabo buba nzima. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, ukwaneliseka, njengawo nawuphi na ukwaneliseka, inkohlakalo umntu ukuba abe nesizungu. Ukususela kumbono woluvuyo olufunyenweyo, ukuhlaziya i-masturbation kungaphantsi kwesenzo esiqhelekileyo sokuziphatha ngokwesini kunye nomlingani osondelene naye: nguye ozisa unonwabo olukhulu kunabo bonke. Ubulili obufanelekileyo bubonisa ukuphindaphinda. Ubulili obudala isifundo ezimbini. Xa amaqabane akwazi ukuhlaziya ngesondo kunokuthetha ngesondo, oku kuthetha ukuba ubudlelwane buye lwavela kubuhlobo. Ukuba sikhathazeka ngamaxesha amaninzi ngemini, oku kunokubonisa ukuxhalaba okukhulu. Kule meko, akusisisifiso sesondo. Oku kufuneka kuthethwe kunye neqabane okanye nokuba yingqondo ye-psychotherapist. Isidingo esinjalo sokugunda i-masturbation sinokusitshela into eyahlukileyo ngathi, ngokukodwa xa sisebuntwaneni sasingavunyelwe ukuba neemfihlelo zethu. Kwaye xa 'betyhila', umva wecala unyancipha. Ndabanjwa ngumfazi wam. Wabeka isandla sakhe phezu kwam, enenjongo yokuqhubeka naye esikhundleni sam ... Kwakungenakubekezeleka. Ndamcela ukuba ayeke, kwaye asizange sithethe kwakhona. Ndicinga ukuba uziva enetyala, ngokungathi wayengafuni ukuhamba. Nangona akunakwenzeka nantoni na. Akunandaba.
Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuhlaziya umzimba
I-science yexesha elide yayikholelwa ukuba imbewu ivela kwi-lymph, kwaye i-lymph, nayo ivelisa ingqondo. Ngako oko kwagqitywa ukuba ukunyuka kwexesha eliqhelekileyo kunciphisa ubuchopho kwaye kubangela izifo ezahlukahlukeneyo. Le mbono yahlala kwada kwaqala ekuqaleni kwe-XX leminyaka. Ngokuthe ngcembe isimo sengqondo sokwenza i-masturbation sitshintshile ngakumbi. Ngomsebenzi wabalobi beSiliva yobudala (AI Remizov, FA Sologub, AA Tinyakov, njl). Ifilosofi uVasily Rozanov uyabhala: "Phakathi kwabahlobo bakhe, i-onanist injengamahashe eArabhiya phakathi kwama-bitoyugs." Iyeza zanamhlanje aziboni ukukhwabanisa njengesisongelo kwimpilo. I-Antiquity yayidla ngokukhawuleza. EGrisi naseRoma, kwaneenjongo ezikhethekileyo zenziwa kuye. Nangona kunjalo, igama lesiLatini elithi "ukushaya umlingo" linomthunzi wokungafuni, njengoko ngokubhekiselele lithetha "ukuchithwa ngesandla". IBhayibhile ichaza indlela uThixo awahlwaya ngayo u-Onan, owathetha imbewu emhlabathini. Abanye abaphengululi bakholelwa ukuba akusiyo imfucuza, kodwa i-sex interruption. Nangona kunjalo ibali likhonza njengesizathu sokugweba i-masturbation yicawa. KwiRashiya yasendulo, yayibizwa ngokuthi igama lesiGrike elithi "malakia" okanye iSlavic "ukukhwabanisa" kwaye lilingana nokukhutshwa kukaSathana. Namhlanje, i-masturbation ibonakala njengendlela yokuzifumanisa ngesondo kunye nomthombo wokuzonwabisa. Yikuphi kule meko ayikwazi ukuba yinto efana neyobudlelwane bobulili obuqhelekileyo "kwaye sibheka kubo ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo kunye namaxesha obomi. Abanye baqhaqhaqhazela baze badibanise elwandle loluntu, abanye bavuya baze bathathe indawo yokumangalisa. Naluphi na olu khetho lunokuba luncedo kulo mbini. Bancedisa iqabane ngalinye ukuba liqaphele ukuzonwabisa kwabo, okubalulekileyo ekuphuhlisweni kwezesondo ngokuphumelelayo. Kwaye, ngaphandle koko, balawula ukuxhatshazwa komlingane ngamnye, kunye nesibini, xa umntu efuna ukulala ngesinye, kwaye enye ingenzi.
Isizathu sokucinga
Impendulo yowesifazane yendalo: wayefuna ukujika yonke into ibe ngumdlalo wesondo, ukwabelana ngokuzonwabisa. Umyeni wam wayengakulungele oku. Uthi iqabane "alizange linyuswe," ngoko indlela yokusebenza kwengqondo esebenzayo: uyayichazela indlela evakalelwa ngayo. Wayengakulungele ukuvumela ibhinqa ibe yindawo yokuthandana naye. Abaninzi abasetyhini banemvakalelo yecala. Kule meko, emva kwesi sikhokelo sokuba indoda yakho ifuna kwaye ingaba yinto epheleleyo, ukuba ayiyi kusebenza, ngoko uya kuthi ityala. Okwangoku, abaninzi abantu badinga inqanaba elithile lenkululeko. Ngako oko, ukuhlasela kweli nqanaba kudlalwa njengophulaphulo lolwalamano kunye nokubhikisha. Musa ukunyanzelisa okanye ukuvimbela nayiphi na inceba. Kutheni ungadlala nje ukuba ihlala imdlalo. Kubalulekile ukuba i-masturbation iyanandipha. Isihlandlo sokubonakalisa sibonakala ukuba sisona kuphela uhlobo lobomi bentlobano. Asizange sikrokre ukuba yintoni umdlalo omtsha ongakhokelela kuyo. Sithande ukubukela enye i-caress, okanye ukufumanisa ukuba wayenjenjalo, kwakumnandi. Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, saye salala ngenye indlela.