Uyacetyiswa ukuba: ukuqhuba ukuhlonipha, ukufumanisa ukuba yeyiphi into, kwaye ufike ngamagama athi: "Ndiyinconywe kuwe, njengeyona matika yomeleleyo kunazo zonke eyunivesithi, unokukunceda?" - ucinga ukuba le yindlela enhle yokwazisa esikolweni.
Njengokuba kunjalo, akavunyelwe ukulibala ukulingana okungcono kunabo bonke abanye-ootitshala, abafunda nabo eklasini kwiikredithi, njl njl. Unokuba unqwenela ngesihloko owamnike sona, kodwa wena ngokwakho uya kuba likhulu elinomqolo wabantu abangenayo, kunye namanqaku ehlakaniphile akhe angafanelekanga. Kwaye kutheni kufanele akhulume nawe? Emva koko awuyi kukwazi umntu.
Yaye ukuba uzama: xa umbuza malunga nento ethile, khawuleza unike umfana ngokubuyisela uncedo kwintsimi yakhe. Mxelele ukuba uyintombazana enetalente kwaye ungamniki kuye. Kwaye, ngaphandle kokuncedana, uncedo luyinyathelo eliqinisekileyo ekuhambeni kokuhamba kancane.
Thembela isiza sakho:
Uyacetyiswa ukuba: qhubeka phambili, ngoncedo lokunxibelelana okungengomlomo, uvumele umntu ukuba aqonde ukuba unomdla kuye. Kulo khosi kukho konke: isambatho sokuxhela, esithathwe kumhlobo omdala, iliso lokubiza kunye nomlomo oqaqambileyo - ngokubanzi, ukumazi umfana unamava onke.
Njengoko kunjalo: unganqikazi, wakuphawula kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuva isipho sokuya kuma-movie. Unokuthathwa nokuba uthathe i-pick-up kwi-hunting, okanye kwintombazana ecinga ukuba ukuhamba kunye neengxoxo kuyinto engadingekile phambi kobudlelwane "obusondeleyo". Ngaba ngaba ufuna ukubonakala ngathi?
Yithi nje kuye:
Uyacetyiswa: ungakhathazeki nonke, yenyuka kuye - kwaye uthando luya kujika ngokukhawuleza.
Njengoko kunjalo: cinga ukuba uthanda i-tennis kwaye udlala kakuhle. Phakathi kwelanga kwisitalato ubheka phezulu uze ubone ibhola elindizayo kuwe. Ngaba uyaqiniseka ukuba uya kukwazi ukumbetha kwaye uqhubeke udlala ngokuzithandela? Kwaye ke loo mfana: emva kokutshintshisiswa kwemibingelelo, ngokusemandleni akanakukwazi ukuba uthethe ntoni ngokubonakala ngokukhawuleza, kwaye kunzima kakhulu - ayiyi kuba yintliziyo, iyakhupha into ethile kunye namaqabunga.
Kwaye ukuba uzama: cinga ubuncinane isizathu esivakalayo sokuphendulela, nokuba yinto encinci "indlela yokuhamba-ye-ithala leencwadi." Kwaye, kwaye uyaqonda ukuba oku kuyisisusa kuphela, kodwa kukho inkcazelo yengxoxo. Kwaye ke kuya kuye ukuba anqume indlela yokubetha ibhola: uyamangaliswa ("ewe, ufunda apha unyaka weshumi!") Okanye unikezele ngesibindi ukuhamba nani.
Ksenia Ivanova , ngakumbi kwisiza