Njengoko kwavela, kwakulula kakhulu kuwe ukuzondla wena, ukugqoka kunokuba ukhangele indlela yena ngokwakhe ezama ngayo ukwenza konke. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho uzama ukwenza into ngokwakhe, yiba nomonde kwaye umnike ithuba lokuzibonakalisa.
Indlela yokukhulisa ukuzimela komntwana? Abazali abaninzi babuza umbuzo ofanayo. Siza kukunceda ufundise umntwana wakho ukuzimela.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana, xa besondliwa, zama ukuthatha isipuni kubazali babo. Nika umntwana ithuba, yidle ngokwakho. Nangona ubona ukuba umntwana uphosa ukutya, musa ukuthatha i-spoon kuye kwaye ungamgxothi nangayiphi indlela. Hlala ecaleni kwakho uze udle nomntwana wakho. Emva koko, abantwana bazama ukuphinda baphinda baphinda baphindiselele abazali babo.
Ukuqhelisa umntwana ebhodweni, okokuqala, ufunde naye into entsha, makamthinte, adlale. Thatha idodoli uze ubonise umntwana indlela ahamba ngayo ebhodweni. Kwakhona uzame ukugcina indlela yakhe yokuziphatha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa abantwana befuna ukuya kwindlu yangasese baqala ukukrazula. Thatha la maxesha uze uwabeke ebhodweni. Zama ukuchazela umntwana wakho ukuba ukuba uya kwindlu yangasese, i-panties yakhe iya kuhlala isomile. Into ephambili kukuba uhlale unesineke kunye nokuzola.
Ukufundisa umntwana ukuba agqoke ngokwakhe, athenge iimpahla ezingavumelekanga, ngaphandle kokuzibophelela kunye neengxaki eziyinkimbinkimbi. Kwaye izihlangu zakhe mazibe kwiVelcro. Ngenxa yengubo enjalo, umntwana uya kuqala ukugqoka ngokuzimela.
Ukuba ngokukhawuleza ubona ukuba umntwana akanako ukugqoka, mncedise kule nto. Yima kunye nomva emva kwakho kwaye uthathe izandla zakhe. Kwaye uqala ukugqoka. Emva koko, umntwana wakho uya kuba lula ukuphinda ukunyakaza kwesandla sakho.
Ukuze umntwana abeke ezo zixhobo, kufuneka uchaze ngokuchanekileyo. Endaweni yegama eliqhelekileyo, susa iimathoyi, zama ukumchazela apho kufuneka abeke khona. Emva kwakho konke, umntwana ngokwakhe akayi kuqonda ngokukhawuleza oko ufunayo kuye. Mxelele umntwana, umzekelo, ukubeka umshini wokutshintsha umgca ophuzi ebhokisini, uze ufake idonsa kwisityuli. Ngoko umntwana, uya kuqalisa kancane kancane, khumbula konke kwaye uya kucoca iitoni ngokwabo.
Akunzima kakhulu ukufundela umntwana kwisibhedlele. Mcele ukuba akhethe ilinen yelinen. Beka isibane sasebusuku egumbini lakhe, kuba abanye abantwana besaba ukulala ebumnyameni. Ngaphambi kokuba ubeke umntwana ukuba alale, makabeke ithoyizi lakhe elithandayo ukulala, aze aye kulala. Kuye kwaye ukuba ngokukhawuleza umntwana wakho weza egumbini lakho ebusuku, musa ukumgxotha, mhlawumbi wayenomphumo oyingozi.
Siyathemba ukuba iingcebiso zethu ziyakunceda ukuba uzifundise kakuhle umntwana.