Kakade! Ulutsha, ngaphezu kwakho konke, impilo. Kwaye ekuguga into eyona nto iyinto engcamango malunga nolutsha, kwaye ukuba avuki, kufuneka sihlale sijonge ngaphambili. Yithi "ngubani oza kuthetha" ... ndithi, nangona andiwulandeli lo mgaqo nonke. Ndikhothamela ngamandla okuthanda kwabo abo, bajika, bazibukele. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Kuya kuba nempilo - kuya kubakho ulutsha.
Kwimizuzu emibini edlulileyo, umlandele wesigaba uAlla Pugacheva wabonakala phambi kwethu emgangathweni omtsha-umfazi wamanje wamanje ophumelele kwimisebenzi yakhe yobungcali kunye nobomi bomntu. Ukulwa nomculo we-Olympus, waba negalelo kwihlabathi lobuhle, ukukhulula iziqholo kunye nokuqokelela izicathulo zeemodeli, kwaye waba umbhali wenkqubo kwi-Radio Alla. Ngelo xesha, inhlalakahle yentsapho yayingathinteki - wayenentombi enothando kunye nabazukulu beentlobo ezimbini. Sazibuza ukuba wenza njani.
Ukwazi njani ukugcina umtsalane wakho? Ndifunga, andazi. Mhlawumbi, ngenxa yokuba andizange ndikhwele umntu, andizange ndixoshe nantoni na, ndiyenze into endiyithandayo. Ndiyamnqula abaphulaphuli, kuba kum inqanaba lendlela yokunxibelelana. Uncedisa ukuba ndihlale ndimncinci kwaye ndihle.
Zivame ukuba uzivumele ukuphumla? Ndiphumla iiyure ezingama-7 ngosuku - ndilala. Kwaye andinakukwazi ukuphumla kuzo zonke izinto ngenye indlela, ngenxa yesinye sezizathu: intloko yam isebenza ngexesha lonke, ndicinga ngento ethile, kwaye ke, ngokuqinisekileyo, ithululela ingoma entsha. Kwakusenokwenzeka ukuba: washiya i-dacha, ugogo uya kulungiselela konke, kwaye awucingi nantoni na ngaphandle kokuba ubalekele emlanjeni, ugibele, ugibele ibhasikidi, kunye nentloko yakho-engenakuthelekiswa, ukungabikho nto. Oku, okwenziwe, akuzange kwenzeke ixesha elide. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, ukucinga malunga nokulungileyo-oku kungokunye okunye.
Uphi na ukuthanda ukuphumla phi na?
Kwiminyaka engama-20 edlulileyo ndafumana indawo enjalo - iZurich eSwitzerland. Ndiyathanda ukuba khona ngenxa yokuba ndibe nomhlobo "weza ezantsi": Ndaza ndedwa, ndenyuka ukusuka entabeni ukuya esixekweni esidala, emva koko ndabuya-sixhenxe ndikhupha. Kulapho umoya uphilile kum, ndandiziva apho kwaye ndibuye emva kweentsuku ezili-10 kamva, njengepalal of rose. Enyanisweni, andizange ndihambe iminyaka emininzi, nangona ndifuna ngokwenene. Ngoku ndiphumla ngokukhululekile kwi-dacha yam, oku kuya kunceda ukuhlala ngendlela.
Ngaba ulandela nayiphi na ukutya? Izidlo ezininzi ebomini bam ziye, andiyi kukucebisa enye yazo. Kukho iithayibhile ezikhethiweyo zeekhalori, kodwa ndicinga ukuba ufuna nje ukutya okuncinci, ukuhambisa ngaphezulu, ukuphefumla umoya omtsha, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuba ngexesha lokutya kwakukho isimo esihle. Emva koko zonke iikhalori ziya apho ufuna khona. Kufunyenwe, ngubani okumele acele malunga neesidlo! Ndizama, ke, ukugcina ...
Ukutya okulungileyo kukuvala umlomo wakho. Ukuba sele sele ufumene, yidla ngokuzonwabisa. Ngaphantsi cinga ngako. Kuya kuba yimpilo.
Abanye bakholelwa ukuba impilo inikezelwa ngasentla. Ngaba ukholelwa kwixesha elizayo?
Ndiyakholelwa kwimpumelelo kwaye ndivuyiswa kukuba isifo sam sele sinobuhle, masithi njalo. Ubomi bam bunomdla, bunzima kwaye bunemihlali. Kubonakala kum ukuba into ebhaliweyo malunga nomntu ngamnye kwincwadi yeenjongo. Kufuneka nje ukuba ukwazi ukufunda.
Ngaba ukholelwa kwimikhosi engaphezulu?
Ukholo kuThixo ngezindlela ezininzi lindixhasa kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi zigcina. Ndiqinisekile ngokupheleleyo ukuba ndinesithunywa esinamandla, ukuba uThixo uyabona kwaye uyayiva yonke into. Kakade, ngaphandle kwemithandazo? "UBawo wethu" Ndiyazi. Ndiqala usuku kunye naye ndikugqibe. Ndiyincwadi encinane yomthandazo kunye nemithandazo yasekuseni, imithandazo yabakhenkethi, kwimpilo, kwiintshaba. Ndiyakholwa ukuba loo mandla kufuneka ibe kufuphi nomntu, bazive bekhuselwe.
Unentombi enhle. Ukwazi njani ukuyikhupha ngexesha elifanelekileyo lokutyelela? Nangona u-Christina wayehlala kunye nogogo, umama uZinaida Arkhipovna, mna, ngokwenene, naye ndabandakanyeka ekukhuliseni kwakhe. Umama wamkhupha ngokumangalisayo. Kwaye lam inxaxheba kukuba ndamchazela kakhulu ebomini bam, ndifuna ukuba azimele. Watshela ngomsebenzi wakhe, wamthabatha uhambo, wabona ezininzi, wayesazi ukuba kunzima kangakanani. Emva koko, imfundo ngomzekelo wakhe yinto ebaluleke kakhulu. Unokufundisa ngokuchanekileyo, gcina imfoloko kunye nomese, kodwa awukwazi nje ukufundisa indlela yokuphila, umsebenzi kunye nabantu. Sinobudlelwane obuhle naye.
Ungaziphepha njani iingqungquthela ezibukhali xa usebenzisana nabantwana nabazukulu?
Ngale nto akukho ziingxaki. Mhlawumbi, ebomini bam umgaqo wabekwa: kungekhona ukudala iingxaki kwiintsapho. Sifumana ngokukhawuleza ngandlela-thile, kuba ukuba intombi inganeliseki ngento ethile, into engalunganga kuye, ngokwemvelo, ndiya kumhlangabeza, ndizama ukugubungela iikona. Ukuba abazukulwana bakho banento engalunganga, hlalani phantsi kwaye niyiqonde. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umzukulu omdala ngezinye iinkhathi unemibono kunye nezenzo esingazithandiyo. Kodwa ngeli thuba kufuneka nje ukhumbule ukuba nathi sinalo ebusheni bethu, kwaye zama ukuthetha naye ngolwimi olunye, ukunika imizekelo eya kuba luncedo kuye ebomini. Mhlawumbi, kwezinye iimeko, siphinde siphumelele xa kuvela izibonda ezinzima.