Bangobani?
Ngoko, ngokukhawuleza uvumelane: ubuhlobo bendoda enye ibhinqa le-iodine, asiyi kuqwalasela. Ngenxa yokuba Kule nkalo, indoda ayiyithandi, kodwa isithandwa, iqabane elizayo okanye umlingane. Isici esiyinhloko sahlukileyo somthandi kukuba utshatile. Inkosikazi engaziwa, njengomthetho, ibhinqa likhululekile. Ukuba kungenjalo akucaci ukuba yintoni inokuyitshozela kwisandla somnye umntu. Ngaba abanelisekile neqabane labo kwaye ngoko ke banquma ukuba nomthandi? Leyo ayiyona indlela yethu. Indoda enganelisekanga, unako ukutshintsha, b) utshintshe. Kodwa ukutshintsha kwakhe kusengathembekanga.
Enye inketho: ungumfazi okhululekileyo, kodwa ufuna ukutshintsha isimo sakho. Kodwa kukho enye kuphela "kodwa": bonke abameli abangaphantsi okanye abancinci besondo esomeleleyo phakathi kweentlobo zakho zeentsimbi kunye nobuhle bezithwalo zendandatho yegolide kwiminwe yesandla sokunene kunye nesitampu kwipasipoti kwiphepha "umtshato", kakuhle, nothando kunye nokulinda ngesidlo sakusihlwa umfazi (mhlawumbi omnye okanye ababini abanye abantwana). Ukutshilo kuwe "unomdla omncinane" malunga neli lizwe elihle kunye nokungabi nabulungisa okulawula kuyo, ufuna ukukhangela enye yala madoda enesigxina: masibe ngumthandi wokuqala, uze ukhangele i-quo. Kwaye apha simele siyeke, kuba amathuba ekugqibeleni yonke into iya kuba yinto kanye nento oya kuphupha ngayo, ngokuqinisekileyo, zikhona, kodwa umlinganiselo wabo ungama-one ukuya kwekhulu! Okanye na mawaka! Kufanelekile ukukhankanya umzekelo onobuchule osekelwe kwinyaniso elula: umfazi olungele ukulinda ehleli efestile, xa uthanda kwakhe xa efika kwaye ngubani obeka ubomi bakhe esibingelelweni se-shansik encinci, akakwazi ukuba ngumthandi ofanelekileyo.
Kule meko, zonke izithemba zibekwe kwindlela yokugqibela: wena ungumfazi okhululekileyo ongafuni umtshato, kodwa ngokubhekiselele kwinani elincinci le-caress kwaye uyamthanda akakho konke. Kwaye ukhangelele, ukusuka kubantu abakujikelezeyo, ukhetha lowo, nakuba ephethe zonke iipropati ukusuka kwinqanaba langaphambilini, u-gavel, onobuqili, okhangeleka kwaye kwimithwalo yakhe inokwakheka kwezinto ezingenasisiseko kunye noluthando onokukubonelela ngalo. Apha ungakuvuyela ngokuqinisekileyo wena kunye naye! Unako konke okusemandleni ukuba ube inkosikazi enhle, kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, unayo yonke indlela yokuqhaqha isithwaba semfuyo yentsapho kunye neeholide yokunxibelelana nawe. Kungenxa yakho ukuba ikhowudi yethu ibhalwe. Ngokusekelwe kuyo yonke imithetho yolu hlobo, kubandakanya amalungelo kunye neemfanelo. Isifundo - kunye nesizathu!
Unelungelo lokusebenza nokuphumla
Ngendlela, ngomsebenzi nokuphumla, oza kulungelelanisa ngokusekelwe kwiminqweno yakho. Ukuhlala ixesha elide emsebenzini okanye usebenze ekhaya ngehedyuli yamahhala, ubaleke kwiihambo zenyanga okanye uchithe ubusuku kwiqela kunye nabahlobo - ukhethe naphezu kwezicwangciso zakhe. Okokuqala, akaqhathanisi neshedyuli yakho xa efika kwaye engenazo izilumkiso. Okwesibini, kholwa mna, uya kuqala ukuqonda kwaye akuhloniphe ngakumbi xa ebona ukuba awunakulungiswa kwizinto ezingabonakaliyo kwaye ebomini bakho kukho ezinye izinto ezithandwayo kunye nabantu. Okwesithathu, ukuba inkosikazi enhle ayithethi ukuthanda umdla. Abathandayo beza bahambe, kodwa wena wedwa. Ngaphezu koko, akudingeki ufihla itafile ngokufika kwakhe (ngenxa yale njongo unomfazi, umkhwekazi, unina). Ibhizinisi lakho lixesha elihle kunye naye.
Umsebenzi : akuyimfuneko ebuhlotsheni bakhe nomfazi ukuqhuba umda. Ekugqibeleni, nguye owakha ubomi bakhe phantsi kolawulo oluqinileyo lomyeni wakhe, kwaye ulungele oku. Ukongezelela, ngokuqinisekileyo awufuni ukuba iintlanganiso zakho ziphendule amabali akhe amade malunga neengxaki zeentsapho? Umyeni onolonwabo nguye oyithandayo!
Ilungelo kumthandi
Ngaphandle koko, yintoni intsingiselo yobomi? Akakwazi ukukunika ingqwalasela efanele? Indlela yokuphuma kule meko ilula kakhulu: fumana omnye umthandi. Cinga ngako: umthandwa wakho akagcini uthembeke - ubuncinane ulala nomfazi wakhe (uthi akenzi oko? Ukhohlisa!). Kwaye kutheni ufanele ugwebe umgangatho wakho wendalo, umxholo kunye ncinane?
Ukuza abathandi ababili babalingana nomyeni omnye kwaye oku kuhlolwe!
Umsebenzi : Umthandi omele uxelele ukuba umthandi wokuqala uceba ukuseka elinye. Ngexesha elifanayo, ugxininiso kufuneka lubekwe kwingqesho yakhe nokungabikho kokunyamekela kwakho. Iqala ukuvela - umkhumbuze ukuba awuyindoda nomfazi, kwaye akuyena yedwa. Ngoko umgaqo wemigangatho ephindwe kabini yesicwangciso - inokwenzeka kuye, kwaye awukuthi, apha ujikeleze ngokubanzi.
Ukujika nokushiya - ungaxolisi. Andizange ndiyixabise-inetyala.
Ilungelo lezipho
Ufuna into yokunika umntu? Mkhulu! Kodwa akufanele ucinge ukuba oku kubeka nayiphi na imbopheleleko kuwe. Sekunjalo, kufuneka uthabathe kumntu ezo zipho onokuzenza xa unokujika ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa okhethekileyo. - izinto zokunethezeka kunye nazo zonke izinto ezingabalulekanga, kodwa idibaniso elihle. Iigwele, iingubo, iingubo-nceda. Imali yokuhlawula iindleko, cha. Kwimeko embi kakhulu, ujika ngokukhawuleza ukusuka kwindlovukazi ibe ngumfazi ogcinwe. Ukuzisola ngesihloko esithi "uyayikrazula isiqwenga sesonka esivela kwintsapho" kufuneka ifakwe kwimvelaphi. Inkosikazi-ethandwa kakhulu, kunye nendoda ethathe isigqibo sokuba nenkosikazi ecaleni, kufuneka ikwazi ukubonelela kuphela intsapho, kodwa nayo ikosikazi.
Umsebenzi : akuyimfuneko ukutshintsha iingxaki zobomi kumthandi. Ufuna ukubetha umfanekiso-isando esandleni sakhe, kodwa ukumgxeka ngenxa yokuba ngumfazi wakhe.
Ilungelo lentsapho
Ngenye imini uyaqonda ukuba ufuna ukufumana intsapho apho indoda ethembekileyo iya kuba yinkxaso nenkxaso yakho, kwaye abantwana-ubomi bovuyo ngokwenene. Kulo mzuzwana, lixesha lokuxelela umthandi malunga nezicwangciso zakhe zexesha elizayo kwaye uhlale uhlobo oluhle, lubekwe ekukhangekeni. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokukhangela indoda kunye nomthandi, kodwa thina sinamabhinqa athembekileyo kunye nemiphumo yokuphenya kweli phepha kuya kuba ngaphantsi. Akulungile ukukhubeka, kuba ukuba akunike oku, akanako. Kwaye ukuba ukholelwe ukuba uya kuqhawula umfazi wakhe, asiyikucebisa! Kukho amadoda amaninzi ehlabathini, kwaye isikhundla somthandi osondele kwindoda enjalo side kwaye singenanto.
Umsebenzi : ukuba uthetha ukuphelisa ulwalamano lwakho, ungamthinteli. Mhlawumbi wayesazi ukuba umfazi unye! Ngesidima, mbulela, ukugcina kwimemori ixesha elihle. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukhona kuyo yonke i-buditidealnoy inkosikazi, phendukela kule nto akunakwenzeka ukuba ufanele!