Amava okuqala ngesini somfazi akusiyo kuphela into yokuqala yesondo, kodwa kunye nomzuzwana wokuzalwa kwesimo sengqondo somfazi. Kwiimeko ezininzi, kuvela kwintlanganiso yokuqala yesondo ukuba owesifazane unengcamango engqondweni yakhe ngesondo ohamba naye ebomini bakhe bonke.
Kutheni ulwalamano lokuqala lolwabelana ngesondo luyisiseko sokwabelana ngesondo
Abaninzi abasetyhini basichaza ngokubanda kwabo ngokuchanekileyo kukuba amaqabane abo ayenzihlazo ngexesha lokulala ngokwesondo. Ingqondo engumfana iyayiqonda ukuchithwa kwengqondo. Ukwesaba nokwesabisa, okwenzeka ngexesha lokudlwengula, kwiimvakalelo ezivuyisayo kunye nezingenakuqondakala ezivela xa beza kumntu othandekayo.
Amava okuqala ngokwesini
Kwintombazana, ukulala ngesondo ngezinye iinkanuko ngezinye iinkanuko. Ngexesha lokuqhawuka kweempahla, intlungu inokuvakalelwa ukuba inokuthi ihlanganise zonke ezinye iimvakalelo. Ngenxa yoko, ngexesha lesibini okanye yesithathu ngesondo, iimvakalelo ezifunekayo zivame ukuvela. Xa uqala ukuthandana nomntu, umfazi unokuziva uneliseko kuyo. Ukuhlaziywa akufuneki kufezekiswe ngexesha, ukuba intlungu inamandla, ngoko iyakwazi ukwahlula zibe zigaba eziliqela. Nge-hymen eguquguqukayo, umzamo ngamnye omtsha womntu uza kwandisa umgobo. Ukongezelela, ukwesaba intombi kwintlungu kuya kubonakala. Ukunyamezela komntu ongekho mthethweni kwisenzo sokuqala ukukhusela ukuba kwenzeke kwixesha elizayo lemiphumo emibi kumfazi - "ukunyaniseka" kwisini, ubufazi.
Ukuhlambalaza ukukhetha indawo efanelekileyo, elele emva. Unokunciphisa intlungu kwintombazana, kodwa le nto yokuziphatha ngokwesondo kufuneka iqhutywe ngolu hlobo: intombazana ilele kumqolo wayo, ehlisa imilenze yayo emgangathweni, ngeli xesha le ndoda ithembela kumacala omabini emzimbeni wayo, ingenisa. Enye i-pose: elele emhlane wakhe, umfazi ophantsi kwamagxobhozi ubeka umqubu, uguqa ngamadolo aze amcindezele esifubeni sakhe. Oku kuya kubangela ukuphuka kwe-hymen, ukuqinisekisa ubungqina bayo obukhulu. Kuninzi ngexesha lezenzo zesondo kuxhomekeke kumntu. Ukuba umntu uya kumthanda kwaye ahlonele umfazi wakhe, intlungu enokuthi ivele kwintombazana enokuqhawuka kwe-hymen, ngenxa yokukhanga umntu, iya kukhangela nje.
Yintoni okufuneka uyifunde kumava eyokuqala ngokwesini
Ngethuba loqhagamshelwano lokuqala lwezesondo, umfazi usoloko engenakho ukunyusa kwindalo yesisu. Ngenxa yoko, ukulungiselela ukulala ngesondo, kufuneka usebenzise i-lubricant okanye i-petroleum jelly, esetyenziswe kwi-glans penis. Ngexesha lokuphuka, le ntombazana isoloko iphuma egazini, kodwa kufuneka ukwazi ukuba ngamnye umfazi weshumi uhamba. Kubaluleke kakhulu ngeli xesha ukunyamekela imimiselo yococeko olusondeleyo. Xa uhlawula i-hymen, kucetyiswa ukuba uyeke ukunxibelelana ngokwesondo, kude kube lelo xesha, xa yonke into ingaphilisi. Ukuphinda ubuhlobo besondo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokuphindaphinda emva kweentsuku ezintathu emva kokuchongwa. Indlela ephindaphindiweyo ngokuqhelekileyo ayibuhlungu.
Ubomi besondo buyacetyiswa ukuba luqale ngokusetyenziswa kwekhondom, nokuba loo ntokazi ithembele kwindoda yakhe. Oku kuyimfuneko ukwenzela ukuba kungabikho ukukhulelwa (ukuba okwamanje awukulungele oko), kunye nokukhusela ekuchasene nezifo. Ukuthintela umnxeba we-penis nge-vaginal mucosa, kufuneka ubeke ikhondom ngaphambi kokuba ulalane kwaye ususe emva kokupheliswa ngokupheleleyo.
Ubungakanani bokukhulelwa okanye ukufumana isifo kulwalamano lokuqala kunye nomntu luphezulu kakhulu. Ibhinqa linakho ukuvuvukala kwesini okanye isisu, ekubeni umzimba wakhe kunye ne-microbes zezilwanyana kuqala. Ukuba iindlela zokukhusela zinganyanzelwanga, umzimba wesetyhi unokusuleleka lula kunokuba uluntu lunezihlandlo eziliqela. Ukongezelela, izifo (ezininzi) ezidluliselwa ngocansi zivela kubasetyhini abangenazo iimpawu, kwaye oku kwandisa ingozi yeengxaki. Ngokuphathelele ucoceko olusenyongweni umfazi kufuneka azi. Qalisa impilo yobomi besetyhini kufuneka iqaphele. Akuyimfuneko ukuba ibhinqa liphulaphule iingcebiso zabahlobo abaninzi - oku kukhetha kwakho kwaye kufuneka ulalele kuphela. Musa ukulibala ukuba imisebenzi yokuqala yesondo ingakhokelela ekukhulelweni okungafunekiyo kunye nezifo. Eyona nto, amava okuqala ngokwesini kunye nabasetyhini kufuneka baqaphele kwaye bazuze nendoda ethandekayo, ethandekayo nothando.