Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba ulonwabo luye lwagubha kabini kuwe. Kwaye okokuqala kwakungcangcazelanga, ukuba unako ukwenza, kukho ukuzonwabisa okungakumbi. Uthando, naye. Ngoko ke, kulula ukuphatha ubuthongo obungapheliyo kunye nokukhathala - baninzi ngaphezu kwengxowa yokunxibelelana nabantwana. Omnye uya kufaka isifuba sakhe, enye iyakuthetha ngokukhawuleza: "Unina ngowam." Kwaye ulungele ukuguqula iintaba. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha kukho umnqweno wokuzifihla kwiintsapho zabo apho kude. Ewe, uyavuma ukuxuba imiphumo ye-pogrom, kodwa ke. Ngoku ufuna ukuthatha ikhefu uze uphuze okuncane, kodwa akusebenzi. Abathakathi baqala ukulwa, kwaye kufuneka nje ungenelele. "Kuya kupheliswa nini na?" - ubiza ezintliziyweni zakho. Ukwahlula, ukwahlukana kwamagumbi, uyavuma. Kwaye uyabubula ngokukhulula. Le ngqungquthela. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kwenzeka ntoni emva koko? Abantwana bakhula. Impikiswano iya kuba yinto enzulu, kwaye konke oku kufuneka uhlangabezane nayo. Emva koko i-carapous ihlukanisa uthando lonina, bayalwela ithoyilo, ngoko bafumane ngubani oza kufumana i-pie enkulu. Ewe, lixesha lokuba uqalise imigaqo yoxolo phakathi kweentsapho.
Ngubani omdala?
Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala kuwe ukuba owokuqala, ogijima ejikelezayo, uthetha kakuhle kwaye uyayiqonda ngokugqibeleleyo into enokuyenza kwaye ayikwazi ukuyenza, sele sele ikhulile. Ewe, kufuneka ndiphathe ngokufanelekileyo. Khumbula: bobabini abantwana bancinci, bobabini badinga i-caress yakho kunye nobubele.
Ukuze ugweme umona, sebenzisa ngamnye ngamnye ngokwahlukileyo ubuncinane imizuzu engama-20 ngosuku. Oku kunene. Umzekelo, xa i-karapuz yesibini ilala okanye ihlala nguyise. Kubaluleke ngokufanayo ukuhlela imidlalo edibeneyo kunye nezingane.
Musa ukuphelelwa lithemba ukuba ekuqaleni kubonakala ngathi abanomdla ukuba abafuni ukusebenzisana kunye kwaye abayiqondi indlela yokwenza. Yiba nesineke, zama ukuzonwabisa nenkqubo ngokwakho. Kwaye emva kweveki ezi-2-3 uya kukhwankqiswa, ukhangele ukuxhamla, ukuxoshelwa ngentshiseko yeemvuthu zakho.
Siwahlula amathoyizi
"Nika, udala!" Ngaba uthethile into enjalo? Abantwana basabela njani? Umntu wokuqala waqala ukuhlambalaza, kwaye omncinci wancinci, akunjalo? Ukwahlula izinto zabantwana kwaye ungabaniki ukuba bazinikezele amathoyizi abo. Ngamnye wabo kufuneka akuve kuwe ibinzana: "Xa umntakwenu (udade) edlala ngokufanelekileyo, siya kumcela umshini wesikhathi." Gcina phantsi kwaye unesihawu umfaki sicelo. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo, xelela inkosi engapheliyo: "Awuyikusola into yokuba yena (yena) wayethukuthele. Unelungelo lokuzimela ngokuzimeleyo ii cubes kunye nezilwanyana ezincinci. "
Kwimpendulo kumncinci
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ndifuna umntwana omdala ukuba anakekele umntwana engabikho okanye anike i-diaper, i-pacifier, ibhotile yamanzi. Kodwa nje njengaye? Abantwana abasebancinci abakwazi ukunyamekela abantwana abaselula. Kwaye ukubiza oku kubakho kuncinci.
Musa ukunyanzelisa owokuqala ukunyamekela omncinci - ngumsebenzi wakho kuphela. Kodwa unokucela uncedo. Bonke bazalise ngokuzithandela? Qiniseka ukubulela ngayo yonke intliziyo yam. Nangona kunjalo, ungaba neentloni kwaye ungakhubeki ukuba umntwana akafuni ukukunceda. Kwaye, nceda, xa usenza isicelo, ungalokothi uthi ibinzana elithi: "Umdala". La magama avunyelwe kuphela xa udumisa umdala: "Khangela, ungubani umntu omdala. Ulungele ukubeka izicathulo zakho kwaye ucofe iqhosha lakho. " Okanye: "Ndiyabulela ngokundizisa i-overalls yoodadewethu - uncede uninzi. Mdala kakhulu. "
Ngaphandle kokuthelekiswa
Ngesizathu esithile, kukholelwa ukuba ukuthelekisa abantwana bemozulu kungumtsalane omkhulu kubo ukuba baphumelele (abanengqondo, abanokwazi, abaphulaphuleyo, abakhutheleyo). "Khangela, yintoni intombazana entle. Nawe? .. "Yintoni engekho umnxeba wokuphucula? Enyanisweni, iingxelo ezinjalo zibangela ukuba iintlungu zibangele abantwana, zenzakalise ukuzithemba kwabo, zenze ukuba bazibuze. Khawuleza ubenike!
Iintsana zikhuthazwa ukuba ziphuhlise, okokuqala, ukuvunywa kunye nokwamkelwa. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukudumisa nokubhiyozela ukubonakaliswa kwamakhono okwenene, iimfuno ezilungileyo, iinzame zangempela, iimpawu ezilungileyo. Kungaba ngumnqweno wokuqonda into okanye ukufunda okuthile, ukukwazi ukuqokelela ngokukhawuleza izinto (ipiramidi, iphazili), ukukwazi ukubona imibala eyahlukeneyo yemibala. Akukho nto ebaluleke kakhulu inqwenela, ububele kunye nesimo esinomdla. Ngomnye we-pogodkov wakho unetalente ekhethekileyo kunye nehlabathi elithe tye. Oku kubaluleke kuzo. Yiloo nto eyenza bahluke.
Yilumkele abantwana - kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kubona isidima esivela kubo kuphela. Biza yonke into enokubonileyo ebonwa ngabantwana bakho. Ngoko ubabanceda baqonde okulungileyo kubo kwaye bazive benentlonelo kunye nokuzithemba. Kwaye abantu ababini abaziva ukuba banelungelo lokuba bafune ukufumana ukuba ngubani obaluleke ngakumbi, othandekayo, onet talent. Ngaphandle kokuchitha ixesha kwi-rivalry nangomona, baya kuba nako ukufundisa ezininzi. Ndabona ukuba umfana omncinci wayethetha njani intetho, waqala ngokuchanekileyo ukwakha izivakalisi? Kwaye udlala ngoku, ngaphandle kokufuna ukuhlala kwakho rhoqo. Umdala akasasayi kuba nomsindo xa umntwana ephule ngokugqithiseleyo inqaba evela kumyili, kwaye ulinde ngomonde ade umzalwana okanye udade aphakame izitebhisi. Yaye ukuba uyamkhusela njani, uyamkhusela! .. Ewe, unayo ingxaki ekhethekileyo yokwakha nokugcina uxolo kwintsapho. Nobu bungqina bolu-ubuhlobo obomeleleyo phakathi kwabantwana abaselula.
Hlanganisa ixesha lokubambisana kwemozulu yakho. Thenga izinto zokudlala ezithandekayo ukudlala kunye, kungekhona yedwa. Cubes, umzekelo, ukulungelelana njengento yokwakha, enye-ukufunda iNgesi amagama. Akubalulekanga ukuqwalasela iimfuno zeempungutye xa ukhetha iincwadi. Omnye uthanda iindaba zomntwana, omnye uthanda ukuphulaphula izingqungquthela ezimnandi okanye amabali ngezilwanyana. Funda amabali, amabali ahlekisayo - ayenayo nayiphi na iminyaka. Khuthaza abantwana ukuba bathethe. Baye bahlanganyele ngokuzibona kwabo koko bakuve, baveze iimvakalelo zabo ngokuvulekileyo. Kwaye, ke, bathandana kunye nawe-abazali babo.