1. Iintlanganiso kunye nabahlobo kunye nabaziwayo. Ixesha elifanelekileyo : umntwana wakho ufuna ukufunyanwa ngabahlobo babazali, ingakumbi ukuba banabantwana. Ngoko umntwana unokufumana umngane okanye intombi. Ukongezelela, inkomo ifunda indlela yokuziphatha njengeendwendwe. Amaphuzu angalunganga : Abantwana bayayigcina ingqiqo, baqonda yonke into emitsha kwaye engaqhelekanga nge "bayonets". Ngoko ke, i-crumb ingaphazamiseka kwaye inonakalise intlanganiso yakho. Ukongezelela, akubona bonke abantu abadala abazi indlela yokuziphatha nabantwana. Abanye bakho abahlobo, ngokungazi, banokwesabisa intombazana encinane, okanye bayidinwe "ngokunyanisekileyo". Isiphelo: Ngamanye amaxesha kuyafaneleka ukuthatha umntwana kunye naye kwiintlanganiso kunye nabahlobo, kodwa kungekho rhoqo. Okokuqala, cinga ukuba luhlobo luni lwabantu oluya kubakho, kwaye okwesibini, ukuba unquma ukusazisa umntwana wakho kunye nawe, vumela ukuba kube yithuba elithile. Ukuba kukho umhlangano omde oza kwenzeka, kungcono ukushiya umntwana ekhaya kunye nogogo wakhe, kwaye kuya kuba ngcono ukuba ukhulule kwaye uphumule kwi-hsle.
2. Ukuthengwa kwintengiso kwiintengiso. Ixesha elihle : uKrokha unethuba lokuqwalasela izinto ezintsha, ngoko ukufunda into entsha. Yaye ngokubulela kwezo zihambo, i-karapuz iza kwazi apho iindawo zokudlala, isonka, amaphephandaba kunye nezinye izinto zithengwa. Amanqaku angalunganga : umntwana wakho unokukhawuleza. Uya kuqala ukukhanya, angabi nakwazi, mhlawumbi angene kwi-hysterics, efuna ukuthenga into ethile. Olunye ulungelelaniso oluphawulekayo: phakathi kwesihlwele esikhulu sabantu, kulula kakhulu kwaye siphumelele ukubamba naluphi na usulelo lwentsholongwane. Isiphelo: Ngexesha leentsuku zokugqibela kunye nobusika, ngexesha leengxaki zeengcungcuthe, zibalekele ukutyelela izitolo kunye nomntwana. Ngesinye isikhathi, xa ufuna ukuthenga, kunye neyinkwenkwe inomsindo, mphazamise into ethile, nikela ukukunceda ukuba uthenge.
3. Iziganeko ezihambelana neziqinisekiso. (Ngokomzekelo, ukuya eofisi yezindlu, ibhanki, i-imeyile, njl.). Iimpawu ezintle : i-Kroha iya kuba luncedo ekuqhelaneni neendawo "ezindala" kwaye uzifundele kakhulu. Uya kubona indlela umthumeli osebenza ngayo, umqeshwa weofisi yezindlu kunye nebhanki, kwaye uya kukhanda amanqaku amaninzi amatsha. Amanqaku angalunganga : Ngokuqhelekileyo kumaziko anjalo kukho imigca. Akunakwenzeka ukukholisa intombazana yakho. Inokwenzeka ukuba, ngemizuzu embalwa uya kuba nexhala. Umntwana wakho uya kuqala ukuba ngumntu ongenasiphelo kunye nokukhala. Ngenxa yoko, lonke uhambo luya kubangela umonakalo owonakaliswe ngumama nomntwana, kwaye, mhlawumbi, le nto ayinakwenzeka ukuba ihlaziywe. Isiphelo: kumaziko anjalo, thabatha umntwana wakho kuphela xa beqinisekile ukuba lo mbandela uya kulungiswa ngokukhawuleza kwaye akuyi kuba namacala.
4. Ukuhamba kwi-cafe okanye kwindawo yokutyela. Iimpawu ezintle : uKroha uzakuzama izitsha ezintsha, funda izinto ezintsha. Kuya kuba luncedo kuye ukungena kwiimeko ezintsha kuye, kuba akayi kuhlala ekhaya ngexesha elide - kamva okanye emva koko kufuneka afunde indlela yokuziphatha kwiindawo zoluntu.
Amaphuzu angalunganga: I-karapuz, ngokuqinisekileyo, ingabi ngokukodwa, kodwa inokuphulaphula ingilazi okanye iplate, ifefe iphepsi kunye netyuwa. Ukongezelela, ezininzi iintsana zivuyiswa kukutya kokutya etafileni, kodwa abadlali abanjalo abanakwenzeka ukuba bathande. Ukongezelela, kungekhona zonke iivenkile kunye neefestile, ngelanga, zineendawo zokubhema, kwaye umntwana akafuneki ukuvumba umsi webhayi. Isiphelo: Ngamanye amaxesha ungathabatha inkunzi kwi-cafe okanye kwindawo yokutyela, kodwa kuphela kwimeko yokuba ayibheki. Kuya kuba yinto ephawulekayo ukuba iholo ixhotyiswe ngeendawo zokudlala zabantwana, izihlalo eziphezulu zokutya kunye nezinye izixhobo ngokukhethekileyo kubantwana.