Ububele kunye nothando ngomntwana omncinane

Ukuphuhliswa ngokupheleleyo kwengane kubalulekile ukuba umama nobaba bangabonakali kwi-caresses, inceba kunye nothando lomntwana omncinci.

Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali abancinci bayalumkisa: bathi, uphephelwa kakhulu, fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba athathe izixhobo. Kodwa ngokwenene, ngaba kunokunyamekela kunye nokunyamekela? Ngaba kunokwenzeka 'ukuphanga' umntwana ngale ndlela?

Kukho imbono ezininzi ezahlukileyo malunga nokukhuliswa kwabantwana. Ngokwemimiselo banokuhlulwa ibe yinkqubo yemithintelo kunye nenkqubo yokwanelisa iimfuno zemvumba. Uhlobo lo kuqala luthi umntwana makabeke umqobo ukuze angasetyenziselwa ukufumana yonke into ayithandayo. Okwesibini kukuba umntu kufuneka anelise zonke iimfuno zakhe, ngaphandle koko uya kulahlekelwa uthando oluncinane.

Inyaniso, njengesiqhelo, kwindawo ethile phakathi

Usana olusandul 'utsha alukwazi ukuphazamisa: uyayazi nje ihlabathi. Uvula indlela ihlabathi elichaphazela ngayo iimfuno zakhe, indlela amphatha ngayo. Ukufezekisa izicelo zeziqhekeza ngeli nqanaba, simxelela ukuba into ebaluleke kakhulu, into ebaluleke kakhulu enayo kwaye iya kuba nayo. Ukukhawulelana, sivelisa iimpawu zokulwa, sihlale silindile kwaye silumke.

Ngale ndlela indlela yokusukela umntwana isisa kunye nothando lomntwana omncinci lichaphazela ukubunjwa kobuntu, ngokubhekiselele kubaphandi abaye bafunda iinkcubeko zezizwe ezahlukeneyo zaseNdiya. Ngaloo ndlela, izazinzulu ezisekude zibona ubomi bezo zizwe, qaphela ukuba isithethe sokwanelisa zonke iimfuno zomntwana ngumpawu walezo zizwe ezingazange zisebenzele ukulwa, ziphila ngokuvisisana nendalo. Izithintelo ekutyeni, ukudibanisa nonina kwakuyimpawu yezizwe ezinzima eziphakamisa amajoni.


Yintoni eyenzekayo kakhulu?

Ngako oko, iingqondo zengqondo zanamhlanje zixela ukuba ukwanelisa iimfuno zomntwana kwasebuntwaneni kunceda ukukhulisa umntu ovulekile, onobubele kunye onokuzithemba kwaye unqwenela ukuxazulula iingxaki ngokufuna ukunyaniseka. Kukho uluvo lokuba abantwana abanjalo kwixesha elizayo balungelelaniswe noxanduva lokunxibelelana, ukukhathalela izihlobo kunye ne-ecology.

Ngoko ke zeziphi iimfuno zezingane, ezanelisayo apho, sichazela umntwana wethu ukuba ihlabathi lihle, likhuselekile kwaye livulekile? Kuthiwani ngenkukhu engenzekanga kakhulu?


Izandla zikaMama

Ngamanye amagama, ukuqhagamshelana nomama kunye nomama. Bathi umntwana unokutshatyalaliswa: ukuba uyaqhubeka, umntwana uya kuba nzima kakhulu ukunyamekela nokuthanda umntwana omncinci. Enyanisweni, umntwana kufuneka abe kufuphi nonina njengoko ufuna. Ngenxa yoko kukho amacebo afanelekileyo njengengcingo kunye ne-kangaroo ye-backpack. I-crumb ithobile xa umama esondele, ukhula ngakumbi, xa engakhathazeki ukuba unina angamshiya. Kwaye awudingi ukukhathazeka ngokuba akaze aphumele izandla. Ukuqiniseka ngaye kunye nonina, umntwana uvuleleke kuyo yonke into enomdla, kwaye uya kuba ngumntu ozimele xa ekulungele.

Ukucetyiswa kunconywa ngokunyanisekileyo kubantwana ababuthathaka, abanikezelwa ixesha elidlulileyo emva kokuzalwa. Kukho nenkqubo yokongika izibeleko ezithandwayo kwizithuthi ezikhethekileyo, kwaye kungekhona kwi-incubator. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba oogqirha bayeke ukwesaba umsebenzi wokuphefumula imvuthu, idluliselwa kumama. Ukuqhagamshelana ngokuxhamla kunye nokuncelisa ukukhusela i-hypothermia kunye nokugula, kunceda ukuqinisa inkqubo yayo yokutya.

Ukuqhagamshelana nomzimba kukunceda abantwana basinde kwixinzelelo lokuhlukana komama wabo, ukuba emva kokuzalwa abazange babe kunye kunye: umama uya kuphuma kwi-anesthesia, umntwana uya kufuneka anakekwe kwi-incubator okanye kwikhaya lokubeleka. Kuba iimvuthu - oku kuxinzelelo olubi, kwaye kulula ukuba abuye abuyele ngqo xa umama esondele.


Ukuqwalasela

Ngokuphindaphindiweyo unike iingcebiso zokungahambi kumntwana kwi-squeak yokuqala, bathi, kufuneka asebenziseke yedwa, mhlawumbi kungekudala okanye emva koko uza kuqala ukuxhaphaza abazali bakhe! Enyanisweni, i-crumb isancinci kakhulu ukuba isebenzise ngamabomu umntu. Uvele ufikelele kwizigqibo malunga nokuba izenzo zakhe zikhokelela njani. Kuyaziwa ukuba abantwana abashiywe ngabaama-biological ngokukhawuleza emva kokuzalwa bancitshisi kakhulu kwaye bangabonakali kakubi kakhulu ngoncedo lokumemeza. Babonakala bekhululekile kwaye "bekhululekile." Noko ke, oku kulungelelana kuhambelana nokuphuculwa kwengqondo kunye nophuhliso lomzimba, kunye nokuphuhlisa umkhwa wokungawuphulaphuli iimpawu eziphazamisayo zengqondo kunye nomzimba wakhe. ayifani nje ukulingana ne-squeak yokuqala, kodwa ugcine ingqalelo xa benganiki uphawu lwe-alamu. Kule meko umntwana ufunda ukuba angabambeli ngenca ngaphandle kwesizathu.


Ukulala okuhlangeneyo

Isizukulwana esikhulileyo asiyiqondi imbono yokulala nomntwana. Nangona kunjalo, kulula ukunyusa ebusuku, ukongeza, kunye nomama, kwaye umntwana uyanyamezela ndawonye. Inyaniso yokuba "umntwana akayi kukhankanywa ebhedeni emva kombhede" inkolelo, xa umntwana efumana amandla, xa engadingi ukufumana ubisi ebusuku, uya kukhangela ngokukhawuleza ukuba esecaleni lakhe. Abantwana abaqondi ukuhlukana nomama, kodwa xa oku kulungile.


Ubisi lwebele

Kuze kube ngoku, kukho uluvo lokuba ukondla umntwana ngokufunwa kuyingozi. Enyanisweni, akunakwenzeka ukugqithisa ubisi lwebele, kwaye ukubaluleka kobisi lonina kwimpilo yeemvumba akunakuze kugxininiswe nantoni. Ngako oko, kunengqiqo ukunyusa umntwana ngokufunwa, eyazi ukuba kwiimeko ezinzima uya kuzidla rhoqo, kodwa ngaphantsi. Umzekelo, ukuba amazinyo aphulukana, ukuba intsholongwane ihlaselwe, njl njl. Kodwa umxube ngokwenene unokuba luninzi. I-caloric engaphezulu, kwaye oomama abahlali baxubusha ngokufanelekileyo imxube, befuna ukunyusa okungcono. Kungesoloko abantu abaqhekezayo banobunzima obunzima.


Movement

Abantwana abancinci kakhulu bambi bakhuthaza ukwesaba: Abazali, besoyika, ukuba i-crumb iya kukhathala, zama ukukhawulela nge-diapers, curbs of crib, njl. Enyanisweni, ukuba umntwana ukhathele, uya kulala. Ewe, ngaphambi kokuba le ntwana ibe nenkqubo yesantya esingaxhamliyo, ingaxhalaba apha ayibangelwa yinto eyenziwa ngumzimba, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, umncinane uzama "ukuxininisa" uxinzelelo ngoncedo "lwezithethe". Abantwana abaxhalabisayo banokuthi banciphise ukunyakaza xa belele "ngesikhwama sokulala" kunye ne-zipper, apho imikhono yamakhanda, ukuba ngaba kunjalo, ingcono kuqala ihlanganiswe ngaphakathi. Ngesikhwama esinjalo i-crumb ivakalelwa kwisibeleko: iyancokola kwaye kulula kuthoba.


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Ukuba umntwana uhlala eva intetho ebhekiswe kuyo, ulungiselelwe ukuthetha, kwaye ukuva kwakhe kwintetho (uxanduva lokuthetha intetho) lukhula ngokugqibeleleyo. Kufuneka uve intetho kwi-crib. Okokuqala, uyayiqonda ingoma yakhe, aze afunde ukwahlula phakathi kwamagama ngamnye okanye ibinzana lonke, ngoko kuya kuba lula kuye ukuba afunde igrama kwaye azalise isigama sakhe.

Ungesabi ukunika umntwana wakho uthando kakhulu! Kungekudala, uya kuqala ukuhlukana nonina kwaye ahlanganyele kwimisebenzi enomdla. Makube ngolu xeshongo uza kuba namandla kwaye uthembele ekunxibelelaneni kwakho.