Ukuchonga ukuba umntwana wakho oneminyaka elilodwa ukhula ngokufanelekileyo nangethuba, sebenzisa imidlalo emincinci kunye naye. Uvavanyo olunjalo lokuphuhliswa komntwana oneminyaka elilodwa luya kuvumela umama ukuba ahlalise impilo yomntwana okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, acinge ngeengxaki ezibonakalayo zophuhliso.
Ukuvavanya ngokufanelekileyo ukuphuhliswa kweemvumba zakho, kungcono ukwenza iimvavanyo ezifanayo ngeyodwa, kodwa ngamaxesha amaninzi ngosuku, ukuze incinci ingakhathali. Khumbula ukuba umntwana ufunda umhlaba kumdlalo, ngoko uvavanyo lophuhliso lwenziwa kuphela ngohlobo lomdlalo. Kusadingeka sicinge ukuba ininzi ixhomekeke kwimoya yomntwana kunye nempilo yakhe. Ukuqhuba iimvavanyo xa umntwana elala aze adle, ukuze kungabikho nto eyonakalisa isimo sakhe sengqondo.
Umntwana oneminyaka elilodwa unokuzimela ngokuzimeleyo ngenkxaso, unokuhamba kunye nenkxaso yomntu omdala okanye ngokuzimela. Ingane inokuphakamisa umlenze ize uyibeke kwisinyathelo esincinane.
- I-Kid ingadlala nepiramidi, iqokelele kwaye iyichithe ngokuzimeleyo, yenza i-turret ye-3-4 cubes.
"Ingane iyakwazi ukusela emgodini yedwa." Uzama ukuzidla ngokwakhe ngesipuni. Ukuba uyamnika ikhefu, uya kufanisa ukunyakaza kwakho aze adibanise iinwele zakho, uyazi ukuba adibanise idodoli.
- Inyane libiza amagama kwaye liqonda oko lithethayo. Mfundisi amagama okuqala: unike, av-av, meow, uthenge-by, unina, umfazi, utata. Kulo nyaka isichazi somntwana sinomlinganiselo wamazwi a-10-15, ahlala esetyenziswa ngokubhekiselele.
- Ingane iziphatha ngokwemvelo kuphela ngabantu abaziyo. Ukuba umfokazi uza kukutyelela, ngoko, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, inkunzi iqala ukuyikrakra okanye iyothuswa kwaye ixesha elithile alixhasi kumadolo omama, libukele umfokazi ngamehlo abukeleyo. Kuyathakazelisa ukuba xa umntu ongaziwayo engumntwana, akaze azivumele ukuba ahlambe isobho okanye aqhube phantsi emacandini, ngoko unokuziphatha kuphela nabazali bakhe.
- Ngelo xesha umlingana wengane uqhubeka uyenza. Uqala ukubonakalisa ukucaphukisa kwakhe ngenene, ukuba akayithandi into ethile: ucofa izandla zakhe etafileni, ahlambe iinyawo zakhe, akhale ngokukhala kunye nokukhala. Umntwana sele sele eqonda ukuba ngoncedo lokulila, unokunyanzelisa abazali ukuba benze oku okanye oko.
- Umntwana uyaqonda ukuba ucelwa ukuba enze abantu abadala kwaye akwazi ukwenza imisebenzi elula: yizisa ii-cubes, unike uyise incwadi, bonisa ulwimi. Ingane iyayiqonda ngokupheleleyo intsingiselo yegama "engenakwenzeka", kodwa ayisoloko isabela kuyo. Kulo nyaka, umntwana, ekuvavanyeni ukuvalwa, ushiya umsebenzi wakhe okwesikhashana, kwaye kwakhona uyaqhubeka nomsebenzi wakhe waqala.
- I-Kid inokudlala kunye nenhlama okanye iplastiki: i-sausages rolls kwaye yenza i-pancakes. Kakade, akwenzi oku ngaphandle ko kunceda abantu abadala. Ukuzivocavoca okufanayo kufana nokuphuhlisa izakhono ezincinane.
Inkwenkwe sele ineminqweno yakhe kunye nezinto ezithandayo, ngokomzekelo, kwincwadi inomfanekiso wakhe oyintandokazi okanye imbongo yakhe, xa eva ukuba uqala ukubonakalisa uvuyo lwakhe ngamandla. Uthanda ukudlala kwindawo ethile kwindawo. Kwakhona, kukhethwa ukukhethwa kwintando, ezingenakukunyanzelwa.
- Inkwenkwe iyaqhubeka ibonisa ukuzimela, kodwa ihlala inenkani kunye nokunyamezela ekufezekeni kwayo: ihambahamba, ifuna ukubeka isigqoko okanye ukudonsa izicathulo zakhe. Masibe ngumntu ozimeleyo.
- Kulo nyaka, iinzame zokuqala kwiimidlalo zembali okokuqala zibonakala: umntwana usulela idonsa okanye adlale ngomshini wokubhala umgama ixesha elide, uthatha isandla sikamama, ufunde iincwadi aze abukele imifanekiso ngokwakhe.
- Iintsana ziqonda iingcamango eziqhelekileyo: ii-cubes, iibhola, iimboli, iitys, iincwadi.
- Ingane ithanda ukufunda umzimba wayo: ibheka iminwe yakhe nemilenze.
Ukuba umntwana wakho wenza konke okufunekayo okanye nangaphezulu, kuthetha ukuba yonke into ihambelana nempilo nophuhliso. Kuyinto eqhelekileyo, ukuba intsana ingazi ukuba yenze njani enye okanye amabini asebenzayo kuloluhlu.
Kodwa ukuba umntwana unemiqondiso echazwe ngezantsi, ngoko kufuneka ukuba kuboniswe ngokukhawuleza kwizakhono zakhe zokuthintela ukulibaziseka ekuphuculweni kwengqondo.
ukuzilimaza ngokwabo.
- ukuthula okanye ukukwazi ukuxelisa izandi nokuzisebenzisa.
- ukunganakwa kwiiklasi kunye nokudlala.
- ukungabi nampendulo kubantu abangaziwa.