Kodwa ukuba kwizilwanyana zehlabathi zesini, okanye ukuxhatshazwa, kubangelwa yimfuneko yokuzala, ngoko ke abantu abantu abanokufuna ukuba le nto imele ibe yimizuzu embalwa ebomini. Okukhangeleka kakhulu ngenye inxalenye yesimo sengqondo sesini. Namhlanje, isondo kubaluleke kakhulu ebomini. Kwabanye, isondo ngumfashini, inzala yemidlalo, indlela yokuphila, inkolo, injongo yokuqinisekisa, ukubonakalisa amandla. Kwabanye kukubonakalisa uthando, kwaye umntu umbopheleleko womtshato, indlela yokufumana .... Ngamanye amagama, isondo sinjalo kwicala lobomi elinomdla kumntu wonke. Isimo sengqondo ngesini sincike kwimfundo, indlela yokuphila, inkcubeko, ukuziphatha. Ubundlobongela bunokuba buhle kwaye bubi, ngokusetyenziswa kogonyamelo kunye neenkohlakalo. Kodwa nantoni na loo mntu, nokuba yintoni na indawo enokuthi wayekhulile, amava okuqala ngokwesini ahlala evuyisa. Isondo sokuqala sinokuchaphazela ngokufanelekileyo ubomi kunye. Amava angalunganga angakhokelela ekuziphatheni kokungcola, kunye nokucoca.
Kwixesha lamaSoviet, abantu abahlala nabo abadala abazange baqaphele indlela yokuzikhusela ngokufanelekileyo okokuqala. Iintsholongwane zanamhlanje sele ziyazi ngesondo malunga nabo bonke. Naluphi na ulwazi olukhoyo. Bayazi kakuhle ukuba ngaphezu kwebala elimnandi, isondo sinokunika kunye neengxaki. Ingxaki yokuqala kukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo. Olu luhlobo lwamatye angaphantsi kwamanzi angacatshangwanga ngethuba lokuqala lolwabelana ngesondo. Amantombazana amaninzi kunye nabafana bakholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba "bathabathe" okokuqala, ngokukodwa ngokuphazamisana ngokwesondo. Kodwa abantu abaselula bayaphutha kakhulu. Ngaphezu koko, kukho imeko xa ukukhulelwa kwenzeka ngexesha lokuqala kwexesha lokuhlaselwa kwimizimba yamalungu omzimba wesini, ngokugqithisa isenzo sokuhlambalaza. I-hymen ine-porous structure, kwaye i-spermatozoa incinci kangangokuba iyangena kwii-pores ngokupheleleyo ezingenakunyulwa. Imiphumo elandelayo isifo sokudluliselwa ngesondo. Ukuze uphephe uhlangothi olungathandekiyo lwesondo, kufuneka ukwazi ukukhusela ngokufanelekileyo okokuqala.
Ngaphambi kokunika iingcebiso, ndifuna ukukhumbula ukuba isenzo sokuqala sesondo kufuneka sibe sisigqibo sakho. Akukho nkampani etywalayo. Ngoko, ungahlali ngesondo ngaphandle kwekhondom nganoma iyiphi indlela. Nangona ulutsha olutsha luba nesondo, "malunga ne-70% yabantwana abaselula abanomdla wokuziphatha ngokwesini bawaphula ngamabomu iikhondom. Kodwa le ngenye yezona zifikeleleke kakhulu, ezikhuselekileyo kwiindlela zempilo kunye nezisebenzayo. Phakathi kwesiqingatha sesilisa, kukho uluvo lokuba ikhondom iyanciphisa ukuvakalelwa kwemizwa. Kodwa iikhondom zanamhlanje zenziwe ngezinto ezigqithiseleyo-i-latex, eline-micron. Ewe kunjalo, kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zongezelelweyo "zamorochki", isenzo esinjongo ekufumaneni ukuvakalelwa kwintsha. Kwaye kukho ezinye iingxaki ezincinane ezinokunyamezela, kodwa isondo siya kukhuselwa. Emva koko, ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo kubangela iingxaki kungekuphela kwintombazana, kwaye izifo ziphazamisa impilo, zikhokelela ekungabikho komntwana kunye nokusabalalisa kwangaphambili kwixesha elizayo.
Ikhondom igqitywe ngaphambi kokulala ngesondo, kwaye isuswe emva kokuphela, ukuphepha ukudibanisa ngqo kunye nomlenze womlenze wesini. Yaye ipholile ayiyikudonsa, kodwa shiya indawo yododa. Musa ukuthenga iikhondom ezinkulu ngeepenis encinci, kungenjalo iyakwehla kwaye ihlale kwisiswini kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, ikhondom encinci kunye nepenis enkulu ingaphuphuma ngexesha elingafanelekanga. Inkqubo yokuchithwa komzimba ibuhlungu. Yonke into incike kwisibilini somzimba, ukuhambelana kwamaqabane, ukunyaniseka kwe-hymen, inani lokubambisa kunye nezinye izizathu.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, intombazana ngethuba lokuqala lifanele linikezwe i-lubricant ekhusela i-mucosa yangasese kwindleko, iinyembezi, ukukhukhula, kwaye inika ne-slip ekwenzeni ubulili. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukungcola akukona okwaneleyo ngenxa yoko, umzekelo, iingxaki zengqondo. Emva koko, ngokukhatyelwa ukuhlambalaza, ukukhusela kwi-microtraumas kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenzise indawo yokucoca. Kwiivenkile zamachiza uza kufumana iigels ezikhethekileyo kunye neoli.
Ukuba insizwa yakho ibonisa ukuba "ukukhusela i-rabber", ngokokuqala kokusondelana nawe ungasebenzisa izixhobo ezifana nePatentex Oval okanye Pharmatex, Contraceptin. Iimveliso zamachiza ze-pharmacy zithetha i-spermicidal - izithintelo zokukhulelwa, ezibekwe kwisondo ngaphambi kokuba ulalane ngesondo kunye nenjongo yokutshatyalaliswa kunye nokubhujiswa kwe-spermatozoa. Ukulungiswa kwakha i-foam ekhuselekileyo, enokuthi ithathe indawo yendawo yokugcoba, kwaye ngoko ukunciphisa ukuphazamiseka ngexesha lokuchongwa. Zenziwa ngokulula kwaye zingenabuhlungu. I-hymen iqukethe enye okanye imigodi emininzi apho igazi lemihla lihamba khona, ngoko ikhandlela, ipilisi, nangaphezulu ukwenzela ukuba ukhilimu uya kuphazamiseka. Iikhemikhali ezichazwe apha ngasentla azikwazi ukugcinwa kusongelo lokusuleleka, ngoko ke ziyakwazi ukuzithembela ngokupheleleyo "ngobungqina" beqabane, ukuphumelela kwazo kweli lixa li-80%. Kodwa, ukuba ungathandabuzi iqabane, kwaye usetyenzise njengendlela yokukhulelwa ngale ndlela, enye enye "he-zchalochka" hexicon. Isicatshulwa esisebenzayo, esinokwethenjelwa nesilungileyo kwiimakhandlela zokuthintela nokunyangwa kwezifo ezininzi zesifo somzimba. Khawukhumbule ukuba bangayisebenzisa ngaphandle kweeyure ezimbini emva kwe-intima, kuba oku kwanele ukuba kufakwe kwisini nje kuphela ikhandlela elilodwa leziyobisi. I-hexicon isebenzayo ngokuchasene nezifo ezininzi. Ezi zibandakanya: i-spirochete ephahlazayo, eyenza i-syphilis, i-chlamydia-chlamydia, i-gonococcus - gonorrhea, i-trichomonas - trichomoniasis, kunye ne-herpes yomzimba ngokubanzi iyancipha ibe yinto. I-hexikoni inezinyameko ezintle, kwaze kwacaciselwa ukuba kubhinqa abakhulelweyo nabancelisayo.
Bonke abantombazana banconywa emva kokuqala komsebenzi wesondo, nokuba bhetele ngaphambi kokugqiba ekubeni bathathe le nyathelo, batyelele ukubonisana kwabasetyhini. Kufuneka ukuba ukhumbule ukuba iminyaka efanelekileyo yokulala ngesondo ayikho ngaphaya kwama-17-18 iminyaka. Ugqirha wesibhozo, emva kwesenzo sokuhlambalaza, siya kukukhangela umonakalo, ubeke umyalelo wokukhusela i-contraceptive, uthathe i-smears yoviwo kwaye, ukuba kunyanzelekile, umisele unyango.