4 iimpawu zomntu onokutshintsha ihlabathi ukuba ibe ngcono

Siyidalwe ukuze sifumane intsingiselo, ukufumana ukuzithemba, ukufezekiswa ebomini. Ukushiya umkhondo kwindlela yokugqibela, sithanda ukujonga ngaphaya ukuqinisekisa ukuba: ukuhlala kwethu kushintshile ihlabathi ukuze kube ngcono. Ziziphi iimpawu eziza kunceda ukufezekisa yonke into ehlabathini kwaye utshintshe ihlabathi ibe ngcono, uDan Valdshmidt uyazi. Nazi iingcebiso ezine ezivela kwincwadi yakhe ethi "Yiba yinto engcono kakhulu kuwe":
  1. Ungesabi ukuthatha ingozi.
  2. U qeqesho
  3. Yiba nesisa
  4. Qhubela nabantu

Ukufezekisa impumelelo engafanelekanga ngendlela efanelekileyo, kuyimfuneko ukuba ube neempawu ezine. Jonga abantu abaphumelelayo. Bonke banazo iimpawu. Akumele usebenze ixesha elide kwaye unzima kunokuba uzicwangcise, kodwa uluthande kwaye unike okungaphezulu kunokuba ungacinga. Kwaye ke uya kutshintsha ihlabathi ukuba ibe ngcono.

  1. Ungesabi ukuthatha ingozi.

    UKarl Brashir wayengowokuqala wase-Afrika waseMelika owayefuna ukungena kwi-deepwater dive body ye-US Navy. Amadoda amhlophe kuphela athathwe kule mkhosi. Kulo vavanyo, uCarl wabhekana nokungabi nabulungisa. Bonke abahlukeneyo behliselwe phantsi iindawo kunye nezixhobo phantsi kwamanzi kwisikhwama sokuvala. Iinkcukacha kunye nezixhobo zikaCharles zaphonswa emanzini ngaphandle kwesikhwama. Abanye abagqityiweyo bagqiba uvavanyo ngeeyure ezimbalwa. U-Karl wabonisa imizamo engaphezulu kwaye waphuma emanzini kwiiyure ezili-9 kuphela. Kwiminyaka kamva, xa ebuzwa ukuba kutheni ebomngcipheko ubomi bakhe kwaye waqhubeka elwa, nangona kungekho sikweni, waphendula wathi: "Andizange ndivumele umntu ukuba athathe iphupha lam."

    Yiya engozini. Khetha indlela enzima. Ewe, kuya kuba nzima ukucinga nokusebenza kuyo yonke into oyenzayo. Kodwa, ukuze ufezekise into evelelekanga, kufuneka usebenzise amandla. Abantu abaphumelele kakhulu ngabantu abaqhelekileyo benza into engavamile.

  2. U qeqesho

    U-Joannie Rochette wayeza kwenza ii-Olimpiki ze-Winter zase-2010 eVancouver njengengqungquthela yesilivere yangoku yeNdebe yeHlabathi kunye ne-six-time yeCanada iqhawe. Wayenethemba elikhulu kuye njengethuba elihle kakhulu leCanada lokuphumelela umlindi wokuloba. Kwiintsuku ezimbini ngaphambi kwentetho, unina kaYoannie wabulawa ngokuhlaselwa kwentliziyo ngokukhawuleza. Iindaba zatshitshisa waza zaphazamisa intombazana. Usuku lokhuphiswano lufikile. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba izandi zokuqala zikaLa Cumparsita zisasazeka kwinqanaba, u-Johanni wangena kwiimvakalelo zangomzuzu, wenza ngokucacileyo yonke imilingo emithathu kunye nentando etyalomali nganye. Emva kokusebenza, iinyembezi zaphuma kwamehlo kaJoannie waza wathi: "Le nto, Mama." UJoannie Rochette uzuze umdaka webhedu. Kwakhona waba ngumgcini osemgangathweni kumkhosi wokuvala kwaye wanikezwa igama leTerry Fox njengomdlali wezemidlalo, ophefumlelweyo ngesibindi kunye nentando yokuphumelela kwi-Olimpiki yohlobo lwe-Winter Winter 2010.

    Ukuqhubela phambili, ukuqhubeka nokusebenza, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, sifuna ukuqeqeshwa (nokuba yintoni na!). Endleleni eya empumelelweni, akukho bantu abagulayo. Ukulungiswa kukukwenza ube yimpumelelo imihla ngemihla, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzive njani. Ufunda ukuba ungayithobeli ingqalelo intlungu kunye nokutya, iimvakalelo ezitshintshayo kunye namava kwaye uthathe isinyathelo esilandelayo. Awunayo ukugcina amehlo akho ekujoliswe kuko ufikelele kuwo. Izenzo ezilungeleyo zinika amandla. Ukuqhubela phambili ngokukhawuleza, wenza uchungechunge lwamanyathelo abalulekileyo ekujoliswe kuyo, okungeke kube khona.

  3. Yiba nesisa

    I-tsunami enkulu inxweme lwase-Indonesia ngoDisemba 26, 2004 kwaye yathi izigidi zabantu ubomi. Ehleli endlwini yakhe, emangaliswe iziganeko ngaphesheya kwehlabathi, uWayne Elsie waqonda ukuba ngeli xesha kwakufuneka enze into engaphezulu nje kokubhalela isheke. Kumele athole indlela yokubonelela ngoncedo lokwenene. UWayne waqala ngokwenza ubuninzi bomi bakhe - ukusuka kwizinto ezihamba ngeesanti. Ukuba yiNtloko yeshishini elitsha leebhantshi, waya emsebenzini kwaye wadibanisa iinkokheli ezininzi ezazisungula ubudlelwane naye iminyaka emininzi. Ukwabelana ngcamango yakhe, wacela uncedo. Kwaye kwithuba elincinane lafumana amaqonga angaphezu kwama-250,000 weesanti ezintsha ezithunyelwa e-Indonesia. Abantu abalahlekelwe yinto yonke banento ethile yabo-kungekhona nje ngeembatho zeesanti, kodwa banethemba. Yaye kunye naye kunye namandla okunqoba ubunzima.

    Akuyimfuneko ukunikela izigidi ukubonisa ukupha. Ufuna nje ukuba ngumntu ontle. Ngokuqhelekileyo sithi "siyabonga." Unakekele abanye. Yabelana ngamava akho kunye neetalente. Nika isandla kwizinto eziqhelekileyo. Nsuku zonke unamakhulu amathuba okutshintsha into ethile. Ukupha isinye sezicwangciso ezinokuthenjelwa kwexesha elide.

  4. Thetha kubantu kwaye bathande ngakumbi

    UMichael wayengumntwana weshumi elinesibini kwintsapho yamaxilongo kunye notywala. Waphoqeleka ukuba ahlale esenyamekela. Uluhlu lweentlanganiso kunye nabantu abalungileyo, ububele babo nothando lwabo lwatshintsha ubomi bakhe. Uyise womnye wabahlobo bakaMichael, wamvumela ukuba ahlale nabo ebusuku. Kwaye xa wathatha uStefano unyana wakhe kwisikolo sama-bucala samaKristu abucala "uBriccrest", wathatha uMichael kunye naye wammisela kwiqela lebhola lebhola. Emva kwexesha, i-michael yathatha ukwamkelwa kwentsapho, intombi yakhe yafunda naye kwiklasi efanayo. Babenomdla ngaye, bahlawulela imfundo yakhe esikolweni naseyunivesithi. Ngenye imini, evela kumama wakhe omama, uMichael wakuva oko akuzange kubekho mntu wathi kuye: "Ndiyakuthanda." La mazwi awakhumbula ngenxa yobomi. Emva kokugqweswa, uMichael wasayina isivumelwano se-14 yezigidi ngeqela lebhola lebhola. Yaye akazange ayibale ngokuphathelele abo bamnceda ebomini.

    Ukuba unetalente, oku akuthethi ukuba uya kuphumelela ebomini - nokuba wenza umgudu. Ukuze uphumelele ebomini, kufuneka uphuhlise isicwangciso sobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Kumele kusekelwe ekuthandeni abantu. Igcina umthombo wobungqina kunye nokuphefumlelwa, okwenza konke kuhamba. Ngaba ufuna ukutshintsha ihlabathi ukuba ibe ngcono? Uthande ngakumbi.

Ngokusekelwe kwincwadi ethi "Yiba yiyona nto ingcono."