Kukho inkolelo yokuba amandla angagcini aqokelelwa kwiingcebiso zeenwele. Apha, mhlawumbi, kum ngenyameko kwaye befuna ukulahla. Nangona, ngokunyanisekileyo, akuzange kundincede. Kodwa ndicinga ukuba xa umntu efuna ukulahla inwele ezininzi, kuyisifiso esifihliweyo sokukrazula ixesha elidlulileyo kwaye uqale ubomi ukususela ekuqaleni.
Kwaye ukuba umntu utshintshe ngaphandle, ulungele ukutshintshwa kwezinye zangaphakathi. Yaye iyahluka. I 100%! Ngokuqinisekileyo, wonke umntu akanakunqunywa ngesinye isihlunu. Kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo, umzekelo, ukuba intombazana ibonwe ngemibala ekhanyayo, ngoko iya kuba yothando, ithenda ... kwaye xa kusemnyama, ngokuchasene - kunamandla, ngakumbi, kuba kukubonga ngokutsha kweenwele - ubomi obutsha umntu utshintsha. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba umthengi-brunette wamcela ukuba amenze i-blonde. Ndiyipopayi, i-shear, ndiyipakisha ... Undishiya ndiyanelisekile, kwaye umhla olandelayo uyabiza kwaye undicele ukuba ndenze i-aphoyintimenti yokudweba ... nge-brunette! Uthi: "Mhle, umgangatho ophezulu, akukho zikhalazo. Kodwa ngandlela-thile andizivumi mna ... "
Kwaye ngandlela-thile umthengi weza naye esiye sakhula izinwele zethu iminyaka emithathu kakade - siyabonga, sinyamekele-kwaye ithi: "Yonke into! Andiyi kuphinda! Ndiphe iqela elifutshane! "Ndiphendula:" Hayi, yiza. " Yena: "njani?!" Unokuyenza njani ngokukhawuleza? Uphakamisa iinwele zam! Kufuneka unqande ukuba ndingaboni. " Ndaphendula: "Mamela, ukuba kungenjalo namhlanje, ngomso okanye ngomso emva komso uya kusenza. Usuvele uvuthiwe ngokutsha kweenwele - ubomi obutsha, oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uqhubeke phambili. " Kwaye ndicinga ukuba, umzekelo, umntu ufuna ukugcoba i-bang, ngoko uya kuye okanye akunjalo-ufuna nje ukuyithatha kwaye uyinqumle. Kodwa kuphela ngekosi eqinisekisiweyo.
Kwakuhlekisayo xa omnye wam umxhasi wamakhasimende, ngaphambi kokuya kumncintiswano, wayehlala efika kum inwele. Ndiyinqumle, wangena emotweni waza waya kumncintiswano. Kwakuhlobo lwesithethe. Kwaye uhlala ephumelele. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuthe ngandlela-thile into yonke yahamba ngenye indlela, kwaye wayeka ukusika iinwele zakhe phambi komncintiswano. Kithina kunye nesimo sengqondo okanye ubudlelwane sele sancipha kancinci ngeli xesha - ngaba, nayo ingabonakaliswa ... Enyanisweni nje? Indoda iza kum kwaye ithi: "Yenza ubuhle!" Kwaye uyaqiniseka ukuba ndiya kwenza konke ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Uyazi ukuba ngoku ndiphezu kwakhe "pokolduyu, kwaye uya kuba mnandi ngakumbi - kwaye sele sele ejongene nalo. Iintlawulo ezinokuthi zithembe kwaye zithembe. Kwaye ku sebenza! Kungenxa yokuba xa umntu eqinisekile ukungahambi kakuhle kwakhe, sele sele engenakunqandeka.
Inwele ngokuqhelekileyo yinto enamandla kakhulu. Ngomntu ngamnye onobumba otshabayo emsebenzini wakhe kunye neenwele ezintsha - ubomi obutsha ngenye into ngaphandle kokulawula. Kwakukho isiganeko esihlekisayo kunye nomfundi owayekade evavanywa, wavala i-Iroquois. Wayengesabi inkolelo yokuba ngaphambi kokuba uvavanyo lukwazi ukufumana inwele, ukuze konke ulwazi "lungagqithwanga", ungesabi ukuma. Kwaye ke loo mfana waya eyunivesithi, kwaye utitshala wabuza ngokumangaliswa: "Ungubani na? Awuzange uhambe ezimbini. " Umfundi wathi kuye: "Uhambe njani na?" Wazibiza. Utitshala, ekufundile: "Nguwe ke? Unokwazi ukubeka ezintlanu ukuqala! "
Ngoko ndifuna ukutsho ukuba kufuneka uguqule! Musa ukuxhonywa kumfanekiso omnye, kungcono ukudala inwele entsha kunye nokuqala ubomi obutsha. Ewe, bhekise kwiBritish efanayo, abaye bayithathwa njengoluhlanga lwama-conservatives. Kodwa zizona zihamba phambili kunye nobuchule kwizobugcisa beebhokhwe! Ekubeni ihlabathi lonke lezinwele liqeqeshwa ngobugcisa babo.
Ngokubonakala, akudingeki ukuba uzikhathaze nonke . Ukuba ufuna ukuzama into, ngoko kufuneka uzame. Ingakumbi - njengeenwele. Baya kukhula!