Ngokwemiqathango yesiRashiya, "zhu" kunye "shu" zibhalwa kunye neleta "y", kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uyichaza "ijaji" kunye ne "parachute". Imimiselo yeendlela zithintela ukuwela indlela ekukhanyeni okubomvu, kodwa ugqiba ngokuqinileyo ukuhamba kwindlela yokunqanda umqondiso wendlela, ukuba sele usuqale ukukwenza. Into efana nayo iyenzeka ngemithetho yakho: ngamanye amaxesha, ukufezekisa into enhle, uyaphula, wenze ngaphandle, wenze ngokuchasene. Iingcebiso ezinobungozi zokonwaba ziya kukuxelela ukuba yiyiphi imithetho ekwaphulwa, kwaye akukafaneli kubekho.
Mamela umama noyise.
Lo mthetho nombolo 1 awusayi kucinywa. Abazali bakho ngokwenene bangabantu abasondele kuwe. Njengomthetho, iingcebiso zabo zichazwe ngumnqweno wokwenza ubomi bakho bube bhetele. Ingcono - ekuqondeni kwabo. Kwaye, ngokudabukisayo, ngokuqhelekileyo ayihambisani neyakho. Umama noTata bathabatha ithikithi lakho kwiindawo zemfazwe, apho wahlangana khona njengomfoto wezithombe? Le yimeko echanekileyo: bafuna ukuba uphile kwaye uphile, ungapheli. Umama noTata bengaxelisekile ukuba bancede ukuba baye esikolweni somthetho, kuba umama wayesephupha ijaji yejaji ngaphezulu kwesibindi sakho, kwaye ubawo, njengomntwana ephupheni kwikamva likammeli, waxhatshazwa ngugogo? Kodwa wena ungumculi ngentliziyo! Musa ukukhawuleza ukudweba iphosta: "Ndiya kuba ngumyili!" - kwaye ukhuphe i-suitcase ngemibala ngaphandle kwemida yomzi womzali. Kungekudala okanye kamva, unina okanye uyise uya kuqonda ukuba "umntwana" ungumdala kwaye uzimeleyo, ngengqondo ephilileyo kunye nengqondo engqondweni. Baya kuqonda ukuba unako ukuphendula ngezenzo zakho kwaye unelungelo lokwenza izigqibo. Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba oku kwenzeka ngaphambili, kungenjalo kungase kuphele.
Kule meko, icebiso lilula: akudingeki udlale uguquko ngaphandle kwakho kwaye uhambisane nentando yabazali. Qinisekisa ukuba awusekho umntwana. Qala encinci. Ngokomzekelo, nqana isidlo sakusasa sikagogo: akuyimfuneko ukuthatha i-syrniki eshushu ukusuka kwenye indawo ekupheleni kwesi sixeko - uyakwazi ukuzipheka. Funda ngamanzi avaliweyo ukukhetha ubushushu obufanelekileyo bokuhlamba ijeans. Okanye funani, ekugqibeleni, indlela yokubiza umnxeba wesithili ekhaya. Futhi ngokuzimela ubize zonke iiyunivesithi ezithandayo. Hlola iimeko zokumkelwa kunye neendleko zoqeqesho kwizifundo zokulungiselela. Ukuba unganqamla phezulu kunentloko yakho - uya kufumana umsebenzi wexeshana onokukuvumela ukuba ukhokhe iiklasi kwiyunivesithi ngaphandle koncedo lonina. Emva koko, igama elithi "umntwana" liya kuphuma ngefashini kwisiqulatho somama noyise. Abayi kuba nelinye ikhetho - baya kukunika iipencilisi ngentliziyo epholileyo kwaye banike ithuba lokupenda umgca wekamva lakho loyilo lobumnyama ngokuthula nokuthula.
Ungadli emva kwe-18: 00.
Enyanisweni, into yokuba phakathi kobusuku awunakuncibilika kwi-charm yefries yaseFransi iyafanelwa inhlonipho kunye nodumo. Ungayinaki imihla yokuzalwa yamantombazana akho, ukwesaba ukuxhamla ikhekhe ekhemayo, kwaye ngemihla kwiivenkile uphuze amanzi amaminerali ngaphandle kwegesi? Oku sele kuninzi kakhulu. Kungekudala umhlobo wakho oza kuba ngumntu onokubonisa. Ukususela kumaxesha okuqala, ukuxutywa ngokubambisana kokutya ngenye yezindlela ezibalulekileyo zonxibelelwano. Ukuba kanye kanye ngenyanga, nje ngenye indlela, udla amancenti ambalwa wamarbobohydrates alula kunye namafutha (funda: ikhekhe ye-bhisikidi-cream), ayiyi kuba yintlekele. Ukuba udla kwi-cafe nge-arugula ne-shrimps okanye iklabishi eneeqathe, inqeni yakho ayiyi kuhluma. Umzimba wakho uza kutshatyalaliswa ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyaqhubeka ukuwufaka nge-yoghurt i-0.0001% ifuthe. Umxube we-starchy kunye nama-substitutes kunye nesityholo sokutshatyalaliswa kweeshukela alizange yenze ubomi obumnandi. Okufanayo kuya kwi-lemonade yokutya kunye nezinye ukutya okungenakudalwa.
Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuba ube mnandi kwaye uphilile, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ujabule, mamela indlebe. Yakha ukutya okunokulinganisela okukuko ukutya okusemgangathweni nangokwempilo kuya kuba khona kwiindawo ezifunekayo. Yidla i-toast kunye ne-bhotile, iqukethe i-vitamin E, iluncedo kulusu. Kodwa ekudleni, esikhundleni somlenze othosiweyo wenkukhu, zenzele isifuba esilisiwe. Isisu siyavuya, inqeni iyaqhayisa, uyamomotheka. Kwaye konke oku kubulela kwinqanaba elicebisa indlela yokonwaba.
Musa ukweqa isikolo-sikhungo-somsebenzi.
Kukho amantombazana ahlamba iintloko ebusuku aze alale ngefestile evulekile, enethemba lokufumana isheke kwijometri. Abanye, ke, bongoza udokotela wesithili ukuvala amehlo kuye kwiphumeya kunye nokuxilonga "unokuya esikolweni" ukuze ungaphuthelwa isifundo esibalulekileyo kwi-algebra. Abangaphambili baxhoxiswa yimpembelelo yobuvila. Okwesibini, nantoni na eyenzekayo, ixhaphaza ngokwasemthethweni njengokuba "uvavanyo lusebenza kuphela ezintlanu kunye nodibaniso", "ukuba incwadana kufuneka uyiqale ngokutsha", "utshintsho lubakho ukuphinda ukuphinda ufundise amazinyo."
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuziphatha kuhlobo lwe-neurosis. Ukuze ubalekele kumava angaphakathi, uhamba ukuya kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo, nokuba ngaba uqobo luchaza umhlathi phambi kwesibuko okanye ufunde ngebanga le-10 lolwimi lwangaphandle. Ngenxa yoko, esikolweni awuboni nto ngaphandle kweencwadi zezifundo. Ngako oko, abadala abakuboni nto ngaphandle kweebhotile, ikhompyutheni okanye ingxelo yekota (kuxhomekeke kumsebenzi). Yiba nesibindi, zama ukwenza konke ngokugqibeleleyo, yenza yonke imizamo - kakuhle. Ungazivumeli ukuba uphumule, vumela ubomi bugqitywe, uziqhelise ngezenzo-kuyingozi. Zama okungenani kanye ukwenza ishedyuli, eyahluke ngokusuka kumgangatho wesantombazana. Ekugqibeleni, uya kulandela inkqubo eqinisekisiwe. Ukwahlukana kuphela kukuba unokuphefumula nangaphandle. Uya kubona - ngokuqinisekileyo uthanda ukuphula imithetho engaqinisekanga.
Njalo ujonge kakuhle.
"Unokuba ngumntu onengqiqo kwaye ucinge ngobuhle beempiki," - naliphi na ixesha ucaphula, xa, ekupheleni kwexesha lokuvavanya, faka inguqu yesihlanu ye-manicure. Akukho mntu uthi: nganye intombazana ifanele ikhangele kakuhle njengokufunda. Ukunyuka kweebhere kunye neenwele ezingcolileyo akunakulungelelanisa iimviwo okanye ukuxinezeleka. Kuphela ukugqithisa ukuzithoba kwindawo efanelekileyo kukubi njengoko ungazibukeli nonke. Musa ukubilisa: akukho mntu uya kukuhlambalaza ngokuqwalasela kakhulu ukubonakala. Yenza amehlo akho emicibisholo emithathu ngaphambi kokuba uhlangane kunye ne-waste chute kwaye ugqoke kwi-dress yokugqoka ngaphambi kokuya kubhakabhaka - ubugcisa obukhethekileyo. Ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, udoti kunye neebhaki ziyi-censors zakho eziphambili kunye nama-connoisseurs. Ngaba izinto eziphambili Kule meko, vela i-eyelashes yakho, emva kwexesha elidlulileyo kwi-intanethi ebalulekileyo okanye kwisikhululo-moya. Yima, ekugqibeleni, ukucima ukutshatyalaliswa ngenxa yamathambo emva kwendlebe okanye i-bang yangaphezulu. Ekugqibeleni, kwaye ekungafezekanga kuyintengiso.
Musa ukudibana neentombi zakho.
Uninzi lwe "mithetho yale ntombi" yafika ngamantombazana aqinileyo kunye nobuqili ngenjongo eyodwa yokuzingca - ukulawula abo bahloniphekileyo kwaye banobuthakathaka. Ukuba ufihla ngasese kwiimvinela kunye noMashina Misha, uthando lwakhe oluneminyaka elilodwa ubudala, lubugebengu ngokumalunga noMas. Ukuba wenqaba umfana nje ngokuba uMas "wamgqala kuqala", sele sele ulwaphulo mthetho kuwe. Umhlobo wakho unxinezela kwivakalelo zecala, kwaye uvumelekile ukuvumela ukuba usonge amajusi okugqibela. Ngaba uyonwabile ngokwenene eli lungiselelo?
Kwenzeka njalo: inkwenkwe yahlukana nomhlobo wakho omhle, kuba waqonda ukuba wayengamthandi nhlobo. Kucacile, intombi ibuhlungu, - inveli yakho, iya kuthatha njengokungcatsha. Ngokwenene uyamngcatsha, ukuba le nkwenkwe iyenzela wena - iGuy of All Life, edla ngokuqhubeka ngeLwesine, kodwa ushiye ngeCawa. Kule meko, cinga ukuba ubuhlobo bakho nomhlobo kunye nosizi lwakhe aluqondakali malunga noko kwaqala into. Ukuba yonke into enzulu kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba kukho uthando olukhulu kunye oluqaqambileyo oluxhomekeke phezu kwakho, vumela unembeza wakho uhambe kwiholide elingenamkhawulo. Ukuba udibana ngokwenene, umhlobo wokwenene uya kukuqonda kwaye axolele.
Musa ukuhlangabezana nabalahlekileyo.
Umfana oyisiphukuphuku kwiiglasi ezinkulu kunye nencwadi ehlakaniphile unokuthathwa njengowona mntu unomdla kakhulu kwidolophana, ngelixa ngaphaya kwe-blum-up blonde kwizicathulo ezibukhali ze $ 999 ziya kuhleka. Kwaye ngokuthe ngqo. Kukho na makhwenkwe anama-guitar. Kwaye nabo bathanda imidlalo yekhompyutha. Kukho abadlali, abaphathi beeofisi, ii-DJs, i-geologists, abaqhubi, ababhali-mlando-wonke umntu unomdla kwaye unelungelo lokuhlonela. Kuphela akusiyo yonke inkampani inokuyibona ihlandlo ezimbalwa. Akunabo phakathi kwabo, ngamanye amaxesha abafana babonakala belahlekile, ukuba bangabikho abalahlekileyo. Into enjalo ibetha, ngelixa iitalente zihlala zifihliwe okokuqala. Ngokuqhelekileyo ngenxa yenkcazo okanye imibono yabahlobo nabazali, wena, ukubona i-tattoo enkulu enemibala okanye amadolo ahlanganiswe ngamagqabi angabonakaliyo, jonga ulutsha kwinqanaba "ayikho inketho." Iyokuqala ibonakala iyincinci kuwe, yesibini-engaxhamli. Ngamagama, bobabili balahlekelwa. Awubaniki abafana ithuba elilodwa lesibini.
Izinto zibi nakakhulu xa izinto eziphambili ekukhoneni kwakho - ubukho bemoto okanye ukuthandana ngamanani abalulekileyo kwimida yakho. Kule meko, ukugqithisa iingcamango ezilungileyo kuya kuthi, ke, kuphela ngamava amnandi. Okanye ngaba usulungele ukuphulaphula isifundo?
Iphulo: Ekuqaleni, phawula oko kwimeko yakhe, kwaye kungekhona kwinto ekhoyo phambi kwamehlo akho. Sebenzisa ibinzana elibhaliweyo, ixesha eliqinisekisiweyo: "udibanise kwiingubo, uze ubone ingqondo." Nantsi umgaqo ongekufanele uphambuke kuwo. Iminye into ingenziwa kuphela xa ecela ukuba ahlole ukungabikho kwekhati lakhe.
Ungaze uxoke.
Laba baxhamli be-Mulder ne-Scully, inyaniso ilapha kufuphi. Uhlala unalo ngolwimi lwakho, akufuneki ukunyuka ephaketheni lakho. Abahlobo bakho bavame ukuva into enjengokuthi "uyingcali - uya kukushiya lowo unomntu ocebileyo" okanye "kunye nobuchopho bakho kwisikhululo samahhala, kwanokuba amaxwebhu ayengqiqo." Uthi oku akuveli ebubini. Ukholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ngale ndlela wenza ukuba intombi yakho ibe ngcono. Kodwa kungcono ngesizathu esithile asiyi kuba. Kubonakala sengathi udibanisa i-categorical ngokunyamekela, kunye neengcinga zakho kunye nenyaniso kwisigqibo sokugqibela. Nangona inyaniso ingcamango efihliweyo kwaye ihlala ichithekile kwinyani.
Hayi, akufanelekile ukuxoka nabahlobo - akunakunqununu ukubiza abamnyama abamhlophe. Kufuneka nje ube yinto encinci kwaye unobulumko. Ngomnye umhlobo uya kubulela, ukuba uyamnceda ukuba aqonde into ethile, ngokubuza imibuzo, yena ngokwakhe uya kuphendula. Umzekelo: "Ucinga ukuba uxabisa ntoni kumantombazana kunabo bonke?" Okanye "unako, umgca - uqokelele ukuhlawulwa?"
Musa ukuphikisana nabani na kwaye ningaxabani.
Nangona amaBuddha, abangenalo moya wokulwa, basebenzise abasebenzi babo njengesikhali xa kufike ekukhululweni kweTibet. Ngoko ke, kuthiwa ntoni ngathi, abahlali abaqhelekileyo beentlanzi? Ngokuqinisekileyo, kungcono ukungeneleli kwi-trams. Akukho nto ihle, yinto ephosakeleyo. Khusela uluvo lwakho kwezinye iimeko. Xa wena, umzekelo, unikwa ukuhlolwa okungafanelekanga. Okanye xa ungafuni ukubuyisela ingubo kunye nephulo lokuvelisa. Xa amehlo akho ahlaselwe yikiti engenakukhusela. Ngaloo ndlela, awugcini nje umngeni kwimibono yakho, kodwa uphosa imali kwi-treasury yolondolozo. Ngokwabo, izimo ezingathandekiyo azisombululwanga, musa ukuthemba. Ukuba uvila ukuya kumbambano, cinga zonke iilusizi kunye nabacinezelekileyo, ngubani onokukunceda, emva kokuxabana ngenyaniso.
Njalo sebenzisa ikhondom.
Nanku umgaqo ongenalo ngaphandle. Ubuncinane kuwe. Ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, awuyintombazana esatshatileyo idlulisele zonke iimvavanyo eziyimfuneko kwaye ilungele ngoku ngoku ukudibana ne-pink-cheeked baby.
Njengoko sele uqikelele, kukho omnye umthetho ochanekileyo olawula yonke imithetho. Ingundoqo yinto echanekileyo: ngaphambi kokufaka isicelo okanye omnye umntu wasungula umthetho, kufuneka uphendule intloko yakho. Awusomshini. Izenzo zakho azikho inkqubo yekhompyutha. Ngako oko, kukuya kuwe ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi ibhunga eliyingozi, kwaye ngubani na oya kukunceda ube nolonwabo.