Ukubeletha ngumsebenzi, umsebenzi onzima.
Ibhinqa ngalinye lizalela amaphupha ukuba ukuzalwa kuza kuba lula kwaye kukhawuleze.
Kukho imiqondiso nemigangatho yokuzalwa ngokukhawuleza nokulula okudlulileyo ukusuka kwisizukulwana kuya kwisizukulwana kwaye ijikeleze phantse wonke umfazi ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Kukho inkolelo yokuba igama lomntwana limele ligcinwe liyimfihlo de ukuzalwa kwakhe. Kususela kumaxesha amandulo kwakukholelwa ukuba imimoya emibi, eyayiqonda igama lomntwana, yayiya kumlimaza kwaye ibhekane nokubonakala kwayo kwihlabathi.
Ukwamkelwa kwabantu abaninzi kunokuba lula, ukuzalwa ngokukhawuleza kunemilinganiselo engqiqo.
Iimpawu ezivela kukhulukazi
Abasetyhini bazama ukubambelela ukuba bamkele ukuhanjiswa okulula nokukhawuleza.
Kukho umqondiso wokuba unciphise intlungu ngexesha lokubeletha kubalulekile ukuvula ii window kunye neengcango, iikhabhinethi, ukukhulula amaqhina kwiibhande kunye neentambo. Indlela yokukhulula indlela yomntwana ukuba eze kwihlabathi elitsha lobomi.
Kwixesha elidlulileyo ukwenzela ukukhululeka kwentlungu, ibhinqa elisemsebenzini laphoqeleka ukuba lizihlambe.
Ukuze ubelethe lula, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ubambelele kwi-footestal ngexesha lobasebenzi.
Omnye akufanele achaze nabani na ukuba ukuzalwa kwaqala, ukuze ugweme ukubandezeleka ngenxa yemiphefumlo yabantu bonke abaye bafunda malunga nokuqala kokubeletha.
Ukutshisa amakhaya omtshato phambi kwe icon, ngokweenkolelo, ukuqhuba ukufa.
Ukubonakala ngokukhawuleza kwentsana, ababelethisi bathululela iindlela zendalo kunye noshukela.
Iimpawu zabantu zithi umama uya kumthanda umntwana omncinane xa ukuzalwa kulula kwaye kukhawuleza. Nangona kunzima ukukholelwa! Unomama angamthanda njani ngaphantsi komntwana wakhe.
Ukuze unciphise intlungu, indoda yowesifazane ekubelekeni kufuneka ikhuphe izicathulo zakhe kumlenze wakhe wokunene kwaye ikhulule ibhande, kwaye indoda ifanele ikhumbule umfazi wayo ngamadolo.
Ukuze ukubeletha kukhawuleze kwaye kulula, ngeentsuku ezintathu emva kokuthumela umfazi esibhedlele, umntu akufanele athathe nantoni ngaphandle kwendlu apho ahlala khona.
Kwiintsuku ezindala kwakukholelwa ukuba ukuba uthelela umfazi okulindela umntwana, amanzi e-ice ejikeleze kwikona - "ukuzalwa okulula."
Ukuzala ngaphandle kwentlungu, owesifazane okhulelwe kufuneka alumle isonka esimnyama, asiginye athi: "Hlebushki, ngaba uMama wayebukele kuwe? Ngethuba lokuzalwa kwakhe, wahlushwa yintlungu? Ngoko ke kufuneka ndibuke kwaye ndibe ndihlushwa ekuzalweni kwabo akunyanzezeli.
Ukuzala ngokukhawuleza kuyimfuneko ukuphosa isigqubuthelo sakho uze uwele kwiihlandlo eziliqela.
Ukuze ugweme ukuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuzalwa, owesifazane okhulelwe akafanele aphakamise izandla zakhe phezulu xa ecenga ukuhlamba.
Ukuba umntwana akaxhunyiwe kwintambo yomlomo, akukhuthazwa ukuba adibanise okanye adibanise ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Yintoni ehambelana nokumelelwa kwesikhombiso. Kwakukholelwa ukuba iqhina libophe umntwana kumhlaba. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abafazi abakhulelweyo bathanda ukudibanisa kunye nokuthunga kwaye bayangabaza oku.
Ukholo lomfazi kumagama oqhinga, iimpawu kunye neenkolelo kumncedisa ngengqondo ngexesha lokubeletha, kunye nenkxaso yokuziphatha yezihlobo kunye nendoda ethandekayo iqinisekisa ukuphumelela nokuzalwa okulula.
Ukujonga ngamachiza anamhlanje ngempawu
Ababelethi banamhlanje-abanezifo zengqondo, bephulaphule ukucinga okufanayo kunye noomama abalindeleyo namhlanje, beza kuthuka kwaye bavumelane kuphela ukuba akudingekile ukunyathela izithintelo ezibonakalayo - umzekelo, ukuwela emigodini kunye nokunyuka ngeengcingo, ezinokubangela ukungafani kwamathambo e-symphysis okanye ukukhokelela ukuxhwaleka kweenyawo.
Ngaba kulungele ukuba owesifazane okhulelwe ukuba azibophezele ngokuthintela ezithile aze akholelwe kwiimpawu? Umama ngamnye wexesha elizayo wenza isigqibo ngokwakhe - ukukholelwa okanye ukungakholelwa, ukugcina okanye ukungayigcini. Kwimeko nayiphi na, kwiinyanga ezili-9 umntwana wakho uya kukukholisa ngokubonakala kwakhe kwaye ebomini bakho kuya kuza isigaba esitsha - ukukhuliswa nokunyamekela umntwana wakho.