Imilinganiselo.
Nangona unomdla emphefumlweni, kwaye udibana nomntu ngenxa yemali yakhe, ungayibonakali nantoni na! Ngokwempawu zamadoda aqhubela phambili. Akuyimfuneko ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bakho ukulungelelanisa uphando, apho kwaye ngubani osebenza ngaye, kwaye, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufumana phi. Unobungozi obungaboni mntu kwakhona.
Amadoda afana nabafazi abazimele. Bavuya kakhulu ukwenza izipho ezixabisa, bazi ukuba wena unako ukuzibonelela. Kwaye uya kuba neenjongo ezincinci, kwaye uzive nje njengeqhawe langempela!
Ukuhleka.
Amadoda ngokwenene ayithandi xa ibhinqa lixela zonke iingxolo ezaziva emsebenzini, esitratweni, zifunyenwe kubahlobo bakhe. Ukuthetha ngobomi bomnye umntu bubi. Isihlamba "sohlazo" sabanye abantu siya kuqondwa ngumntu njengokungabikho kobuqu bomntu kunye nokuba akukho nto uyenzayo. Unako ukwanelisa uthando lokuhleba kunye nabahlobo bakho, unina nabani na, kodwa kungekhona umntu!
Ukungenakunceda.
Amadoda athande abasetyhini abanamandla, abazimeleyo nabazithembayo. Ukuba uhlala "uhluma" kumntu ongenayo ingxaki malunga neengxaki zabo, ngoko, mhlawumbi, uya kusinda kwindawo yokuqala. Akukho mntu ufuna ukuthatha uxanduva kubo kunye nobomi bomnye umntu. Abanye abantu abakwazi ukusombulula imisebenzi elula: apho uchitha ixesha, okokugqoka, okokuthenga nokunye njalo.
Zizimelele kwaye uziqilile, kodwa ngelo xesha, masiva umntu ukuba ungumfazi obuthathaka, ofuna ukhuseleko lwakhe, inkxaso kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uncede.
Ukunyamezela.
Akukho nto ebi ngaphezu kokunyaniseka. Amadoda angamaxesha onke, amazwana onke, ukugxekwa kwezinto zonke kunye nezinto zonke ngokukhawuleza zikhokela amadoda ngaphandle kwabo. Akumangalisi ukuba uthi "Ewe, uzaliswe!" Kwidilesi yakho. Zisebenze ngokwakho kunye nayo yonke into iya kuvela kuwe!
Ngombulelo.
Ndiyabulela rhoqo ngezipho, ngoncedo, ngokuhlwa ngokumangalisayo, oko kukuthi njalo njalo. Xa simdumisa kakhulu umntu, ngakumbi simbopha kuye. Ukubetha kancinci kancinci akuzange kubonakalise nabani na.
Amadoda ayithandi xa zonke izenzo zabo zibonwa njengeyinyaniso. Wachitha ixesha lakhe, waza wazama kakhulu ukukugcizelela. Kwaye, uvale ngomlomo umnyango phambi kwakhe. Funda ukuthetha ukuzalisa nokudumisa umntu.
Nomona.
Amadoda isithembu ngokwemvelo. Musa ukunyamekela ukuba iqabane lakho libukeka kwabanye. Le nto ingqalelo, kwaye ayithethi ukuba awunomdla kuye. Ubume bunjalo. Musa ukulungiselela ukuphanda, apho wayelo izolo, kutheni engazange abize ngubani "u-Olya" kwifowuni yakhe.
Amadoda ayithandi ukuba nomona, ingakumbi ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ukusola okungekho phantsi ungamcaphukisa uze umtyhoboze.
Elidlulileyo.
Khumbula: ungamxeleli ngothando oludlulileyo! Musa ukuthelekisa indoda eyayisakuba ngumlingane, nangona ukuthelekiswa kukubhetele. Amadoda ayayithanda xa kuphela. Inyaniso oye wayidla ukudibana nomntu ngaphambili, ukuba umntu wakusanga, ugibe, unxungube kwaye unxanxanisekile endlebeni yakho ngaphambi kokulala, ngokwawo akubi emehlweni umntu. Iindaba zexesha elidlulileyo zityhala ngeoli. Ukuthetha ngobudlelwane obudlulileyo, ungatsho nje amabinzana ambalwa. Oko kuya kukwanela.
Hysterical.
Abakhohlisi kunye nabantu abangenalulinganalo abathandwa ngumntu, kuquka namadoda. Ukuba wenza ihlazo malunga nangaphandle, udla ngokutshintsha isimo sakho sengqondo, kuyimfuneko ukusombulula le ngxaki. Unokuqala ukusela isondlo okanye ubiza i-endocrinologist ukujonga imvelaphi ye-hormonal.
Ingxoxo.
Amadoda ayithandi xa abafazi bethetha kakhulu. Intetho engapheliyo nayiphi na into ecasula isondo esinamandla. Makhe ndixelele iqabane lam malunga neendaba zakhe, iziganeko. Makhe abelane nawe ngamava ngomsebenzi, malunga nekamva kunye njalo. Funda ukuphulaphula. Amadoda ayawaxabisa kakhulu oku!
Whining.
Izikhalazo eziqhubekayo malunga nokuba yonke into embi, ukuba akukho nto ongenakuyenza, unokukhokelela nabani na, nokuba ngumntu osisigulane.
Ukuba ngumfazi oyinyaniso ngumsebenzi onzima, kodwa unokwenza!