Ukuziva uthando, ukuthanda nokuthandwa - zonke ezi zigaba zikhetheke kuphela kumntu. Kwilizwe lezilwanyana, unokulungisa ukubonakaliswa kovelwano nothando kuphela.
Uthando luvela njani? Yayivela phi? Kwinkqubo yentlalo yabantu, ubudlelwane babo kwizizwe, kwiintsapho, kwiinkcubeko, ukuphuhliswa kobudlelwane boluntu - konke oku kuncede umntu ukuba afumane ukukwazi ukuva iimvakalelo ezinzulu kumnye umntu.Umntu othandayo kuphela unokuqonda into enokuvakalelwa ngayo. Umntu othanda ubomi kuphela, uphefumula amaphaphu apheleleyo, ubona yonke imibala edibanisa ihlabathi lethu.
Oogqirha basichazela uthando njengento yokukhangeka, njengendlela ekhethekileyo yokuwela ubuninzi bezinto eziphilayo, amandla, intlalontle kunye nolwalamano. Abantu abakudala bafuna ukuba uthando luphefumlelwe kakhulu kwaye lukhuthaze ukudala ubuhle kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobugcisa.
Ukuthandana kulula, ukuthanda kunzima. Ukuzinikela ngokupheleleyo kwiimvakalelo zomntu, kuphela ukuzimisela, ukukhula ngokwaneleyo, abantu abaneleyo abakwazi ukuzivumela ukuba bathathwe ngokupheleleyo yi-whirlpool yeemvakalelo. Uninzi luyesaba uthando. Ukungayiqondi into eyenzekayo kubo, ngamanye amaxesha abantu bazikhiya, bavale ihlabathi labo elingaphakathi, ngenxa yokwesaba ukungaqondwa okanye ukutshiswa. Kodwa kuphela abo bahlala bevulelekile kumlingo onothando oluzisa kubomi bethu baya kuqonda ukuba kude kube mzuzu abazange baphile nonke.
Uthando luhlala lubandakanya imfuneko yokunika. Mna, kwindawo yokuqala, kwaye konke okusemgangathweni okusingqongileyo, akufunanga nje, kodwa kukho imfuno yangempela yokunika intanda lonke ilizwe. Umntu onothando kuphela onika isiqingatha sakhe sehlabathi esingaphakathi, uvuyo, ukuqonda kwakhe, konke ukukhathalela, amahlaya kunye nokuhle. Ngamanye amaxesha, xa uxhaphaza luvela kwiqhekeko okanye ukuhlukana, ufuna ukubonisa ukudabuka, ukwabelana ngawo nomntu ekubhekiswe kuso.
Abathandwayo ebusweni bombuso, ngokubhekiselele kwi-narcotic. Ukulahlekelwa yintando engabonakaliyo, nangona ixeshana, ihlabathi liphela likhulu, iintloko ziqala, kwaye ukuvakalelwa kwintliziyo ebonakalayo kuyabonakala.
Iingcali zengqondo zithi ubukho bothando bubonakaliswa kwinqanaba lezesayensi. Yiyo le ntliziyo eyona nto ibalulekileyo ebalulekileyo ebomini, isishukumisela phambili, siqhuba yonke indawo. Kodwa nangona uthando lunika iimvakalelo ezintle, luninzi lunokubangela intlungu, ukungabi nantoni kunye nokubhujiswa. Ngomdla wokugula ongathandabuzekiyo.
Awukwazi ukulungele ukuthandana, awukwazi ukufunda ukwakha uthando ngokweminye imithetho okanye imithetho. Akunjalo nje. Kodwa uthando lunokusifundisa kakhulu. Okokuqala, kunika, wabelane, unike. Okwesibini, uthando lusifundisa ukuba siphile, kungekhona ukuba sibe khona. Okwesithathu, uthando lusifundisa ukuba sivuyiswe. Kwaye ezi zikhumbuzo ziza kuphila ubomi, imemori ngokwayo iya kukhetha ukuba yintoni yokucima, kwaye njengomthetho, kuphela izihlandlo ezimnandi kakhulu ezikhunjulwayo zihlala ebuseni bethu - xa sithande!
Kwintlalo yanamhlanje, sinokuthi ngokukhuselekileyo uthando luyoshishino. Ulwalamano olusondeleyo lwabafundi beenkwenkwezi, iinkcukacha ezithandanayo zobomi babo - konke oku kunqanda ukuvakalelwa, kubeka phantsi.
Intombazana encinane yathi uthando lokwenene lukuba yonke into iyabelana. Ukuba akukho ukulungelelaniswa, ke le ntliziyo ayikwazi ukubizwa ngokuba yintando yonyani. Umlomo wengane, njengoko kwaziwa, inyanisekileyo. Ndifuna ukuba wonke umntu afune ukuthanda abantwana, kungekho nto, kodwa nje!