Ezo zibini zenzelwe omnye nomnye, kungcono ukuba ungahlangani.
Kodwa kuphela oku kuthiwa uthando. Bonke abanye ababiza ngokuba yigama lakhe yintsizana yabampofu, indawo engafanelekanga, induduzo kulabo abangazange bachatshazelwe yiqhwithi. Maye bacinge ukuba bayakuthanda. Siyazi.
Kukho iintlobo ezimbini zothando. Ungatsho ukuba baninzi babo - amashumi amabini anesibini, amabini anamanci mabini anesibini, baninzi abathandi - kodwa ngokwenene awukwazi ukufihla ekufeni.
Ngothando olulodwa, usenokwenza into, kwenye - akukho nto. Omnye uqhubeka ngokuthula kunye novuyo, eqala ngokuqhelana naye, isangqa esilula, esaziwayo. Emva koko uhamba ngokuthe ngcembe komnye nomnye, iinqwenelelo ezintle zeentsapho, ukwandisa uthando lomzimba kunye, ekugqibeleni, umkhwa. Enye iyawa ngokukhawuleza, nayo yonke intshabalalo engenakulinganisela, kunye nobushushu bokuqaphela ngokukhawuleza - ukuphazamiseka, ukungabi nangoko kwaye kungabi nokubuza, ngaphandle kokunika ingcebiso okanye ukukhuselwa ekungenakwenzeka.
Iyokugqibela iphelela ngokukhuselekileyo, ngomtshato okanye ngeveki ehloniphekileyo eveleleyo kunye nokuphuma kweso sixeko okanye ngabahlobo. Nokuba kunjalo - loliwe uhleli kwishedyuli. Iyesibini ayinakulawulwa, njengento eqhelekileyo engabonakaliyo ngaphandle kwemishini, intshabalalisa iintsapho, ichithe ithemba, libale yonke into, ilitsho yonke into, ikhuphe yonke into kwaye ayizange ibe yinto enhle.
Ukuphupha kwothando olunjalo, uphupha yonke into, ngaphandle kokuphela kwempumelelo: nantoni na ukuba ulahlekelwe yithemba elingenakwenzeka. Ngokukhawuleza okanye emva koko, abathandi, baqhawulwa ngabomi babo ngabomntu abanomdla, abanokukhangeka, abakhathele kwaye baphukile, baya kubuya kwiindawo zabo. Ehlabathini liphela liye lahlekelwa yimbala yalo ngonaphakade; indawo engxakini yentlekele, kunye neengcambu zemithi ephihliweyo, imisonto yotshani, iimbumba zezakhiwo ezikhutshwe phantsi kwezulu elingenathemba, elingenakubala, elingakhange likhanyise.
Olu luthando aluqhubi ngokukhawuleza: ngokuzinzileyo akukho nto inomdla. Ukuba isifo sithintele izithintelo kwangaphambili ngaphandle kokunyanzelisa abathandana bentsapho, intlupheko okanye iintloni, uthando lulungisa izithintelo, luyathuthukisa, ludinga ngesithembiso sovuyo olungapheliyo, apho umzuzwana omnye amadoda angenakukhusela aphelisa yonke into ngaphandle komnye. Ihlabathi liyabaxhatshaza kwimizuzu efanayo njengoko beqala ukudibana neembonakalo zabo kwiqela eliqhelekileyo, kwindawo yokuma kwebhasi, kwi-cafe edidayo emaphethelweni.
Musa ukulindela abathandi ukuba benze inzondo enjalo-bachitha i-wink enhle, bakhuthaza i-grin. Kodwa abathandi abonwabileyo abazi ukuba banomdla onomdla omnye komnye, bezama ukulibala malunga naluphi na ukufaneleka kwi-bar, igalari yefestile okanye ivenkile yefenitshala-makabone, bavumele ukuba babone, bavumele ukuba bababone ngasese, ngokufihlakeleyo wonke umntu amaphupha athile ngexesha lokungcola.
Abathandana kakuhle bahanjwa omnye komnye, kuba ubomi babo bufana nangoko. Bamanyaniswa nothando oluqhelekileyo - kungekhona komnye, kodwa kuxolo, kubalwa kunye nokuthembeka komhlaba phantsi kweenyawo zabo. Akunjalo ngokukhawuleza, uthando lobuqhetseba, ukukhetha amaxhoba ngokungahleli. Ezi zithandani aziphantse zifana nanye, ngaphandle kweyodwa, imfihlelo, intambo ebuhlungu kakhulu, njengencwadi efundwa ebuntwaneni, okanye epaki, apho babalekela esikolweni. Akunanto into efanayo, ngaphandle kohlobo olulodwa, engaziwayo, ngaphandle kokuba, kuvela, akuzange kubekho nto.
Uthando olunjalo lulilahla nayiphi na imaski. Omnye wayehlala eyingcali, enye eyimfihlo, ihlala ixhoba. Iintlanganiso zabo zifutshane kwaye ziyinto engaqhelekanga, iindawo ezincinci zingenakunqwenelekayo, ngethuba lokuxoxwa kwentsuku okanye ukunyakaza zonke zibakhumbuza ngobusuku. Ibhedi yinqaba yabo, ikhaya labo, lokugqibela kunye nendawo yokuhlala yabo kuphela. Kwakungekho kwaye akuyi kubakho nabani na - ngoku kuphela, ngelixa i-passion yabo ingavunyelwe kwaye ikusasa alicacanga, nangona bobabini baqatshelwe kakhulu. Bayazi ukuba ixesha elizayo libukele ngenyameko - ngokunyamekela ngakumbi kunabathandi-abahlobo, amaqabane aphumelelayo kwimidlalo eyaziwayo. Abathandi abatshatyalaliswayo bayazi ukuba ixesha labo lifutshane kwaye ikusasa libuhlungu. Bakhawuleza baphile ixesha elikhutshweyo ukuze bancede bakhumbule xa bebahlwempuzekileyo, basuse phantsi, baphule kwaye bachithe.
Lo thando lufaka amagama alo, ama-noun, iimpawu eziqhelekileyo. Yena unako ukukhushulwa emhlabeni, ungavumeli nabani na. Uthando luyinto yokudeka nokuhlekwa usulu. Liyabhubhisa kwaye libhubhise. Ikhubazeka. Kufana nokufa. Ezo zibini zenzelwe omnye nomnye, kungcono ukuba ungahlangani.
Kodwa kuphela oku kuthiwa uthando. Bonke abanye bathi amabango abo igama lakhe liyintsikelelo yabampofu, indawo engafanelekanga, induduzo kulabo abangazange bachatshazelwe yiqhwithi. Maye bacinge ukuba bayakuthanda. Siyazi.